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Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 7:14:23 AM

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The thread titled 'Misleading Dominants' reminded me of something I was going to post yesterday then other things came up.

Anyhoo...something my Daddy said a few days ago just floored me. It was not decietful persay, merely a WHOMP in my mental status.

First, how we met....Years ago (maybe 5, 6 yrs ago) I heard him, he was breathtaking. I confronted him. I said you are the 'one'. Of course, he thought I was kinda cookoo (which I am).
No, he is not a lifestyler, just plain dominant in every sense of the word (in presence and life in general) and to those around him.

So years go by, playing here and there, (if I am not being obstinant that is). Stubborn and cold, in my fight to trust him and let him lead me.

So, (a few times in these years) I get all down and guilty (again) for being the dirty minded cunt that I am and felt like I 'made' him do all these nasty (but yummy) things to me. lol.

So in this mood, I tell him the same sob story....."I'm sorry I make you do this stuff to me, I don't want you to become mentally disturbed by it all".

He laughed. I gasped.

He more or less tells me "Do you think that I don't know what I am doing in my use of you???", "Do you think I haven't been patient in waiting for YOU to submit to ME" with as little force as possible because you are a little spoiled bitch?" lollolollol

I was floored.

All this time, my Daddy has been waiting for me to come to terms with myself not to terms with HIM. The result??? I come crawling to HIM for more.

I always thought I was a few steps ahead of him lol. I thought I had control (of him, of this, of everything I do). Well, surprise, surprise goober (me) I DON'T. Thinking that I created him and his lusts and desires was my first mistake. He is a grown man full of experiences himself.

Soooo..not like being misleading is a 'bad thing' but am/was I the only one have the wind knocked out of me by someone so calculatingly yet evilly sweet and patient.

Please tell me I am not the only one.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 7:46:48 AM

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There is no way for a dom to reply here without looking like an arrogant asswipe but since shyness is not one of my problems let me take a shot at it.

In any good scam the grifter will make the pigeon think the scam is thier own idea so the grifter can simply be the willing accomplice...who just happens to walk away with the money...this is why you can't cheat an honest person. With the dom/sub vibe it's pretty much the same thing...the dom sits like a hunter in a tree stand wating for the sub to get into his sweetspot of what he wants, as the sub slowly moves from the vanilaesque values into however hardcore the sub wants to get, all the while being supportive and loving. (defined as you will)

I think that domme's are actually "better" (again define the word as you will) than most dom's I don't think it's a bio-gender difference, I think it is how task managment is divided in the culture between boys and girls...boys have to fight for the ball with each other so know they have to put their best (most fierce) game up early to get the ball and then keep it..girls have to wait for the ball unitl the fierce little boys are done with the ball because they got bored with the game and are now out looking at a strange pile of doodie, so girls learn in time they will get what they want. this paragrpah is probably going to start a shitstorm of "well I'm not like that"..ok I get it, not everybody is alike, I am using broadstroke generalities like I'd say people have 10 fingers, not everybody does but it is how many fingers we accept people have.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 7:52:23 AM

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quote:

In any good scam the grifter will make the pigeon think the scam is thier own idea so the grifter can simply be the willing accomplice...

hmmmmmm, good one. thanks.

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the dom sits like a hunter in a tree stand wating for the sub to get into his sweetspot of what he wants, as the sub slowly moves from the vanilaesque values into however hardcore the sub wants to get, all the while being supportive and loving.

damn yer clever. lol

I never thought of it that way.

The entire thought process of him being so damn calculating (enough to fool even me) is fucking HOT.

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they got bored with the game and are now out looking at a strange pile of doodie

lmao

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 7:52:25 AM

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 7:57:15 AM

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more more more crouchingtigress...

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was just a teaseeeeeeeeeeeeee

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 8:14:06 AM

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I'd call this the perfect mind fuck..You never seen it comming, didn't have a clue,totally thought you had control..and all along he had you sighted in...and Now you can only crawl to Him asking for more..Coot'O's ta Him..and you

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 8:20:30 AM

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Nope, you aren't the only one.

And for me, as usual, it's nothing to do with a mind fuck- it's simple acceptance and authority. I have no problems taking you and forcing you down to your place- AFTER you ask me so very sweetly for it. I need to know you have internalized it and believe it to be true for yourself before I'll put any real time and energy into it. I know many doms love the chase, and love the seduction, but that's not my bliss.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 8:42:54 AM

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perfect mind fuck

mmmm, and no I didn't see it coming, didn't think he was evil enough to think of it lol. I wait all my life challenging someone to mind fuck me..and voila, I didn't see it even happening. grrrr

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I have no problems taking you and forcing you down to your place- AFTER you ask me so very sweetly for it.

Yep, he wanted it in his own timeframe, his own terms (not mine).

In this case then?? since you mentioned it...just WHO seduced whom???

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 8:52:45 AM

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and no I didn't see it coming, didn't think he was evil enough to think of it lol. I wait all my life challenging someone to mind fuck me..and voila, I didn't see it even happening.

That's the problem with a well orchestrated mind fuck. If its good, you can't appreciate it while its happening. Its only after the fact that you can savor its full flavor.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 8:54:39 AM

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Its only after the fact that you can savor its full flavor

oh yeah

being knocked on my ass is just what I needed and trust me, at the same time it turns ya into a puddle of confuzled hot mush.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 11:59:29 AM

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I suppose it all boils down to the individual's definition of a scam or con. Although i believe in having my cards on the table, I don;'t show all the cards. As a matter of ingrained habit from yrears of training and practice (not to mention observing some of the top people handle others in their employ or in their circle of friends), a wise man does not show everything and chooses his time to expose any of the face down cards. That way he keeps as much control as possible. I;'ve watched people get screwed even accidently because they opened up and showed all their cards to friends and family. On the same line of keeping friends close and enemise even closer (so you can do them before they do you), my left hand never knows what my right hand is holding or going to do and under what circumstances it will be done. If I have a slave girl in a house collar and especially if she evolves suitable to be fir for my personal collar, I will know her far better than she immagins and in some cases better then she knows herself. Because she will be an exquisit creature so suited for my personal collar I will have spend a great deal of time observing her, studying her and most importantly listening to her.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 12:30:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

I suppose it all boils down to the individual's definition of a scam or con. Although i believe in having my cards on the table,

I agree. A good mind fuck is like a good game of poker. A master always has the flush.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 1:26:24 PM

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I will know her far better than she immagins and in some cases better then she knows herself.

grrr

men, hmmmph, such sneaky bastards.

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RE: Floored! Literally. - 6/29/2008 1:34:34 PM

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But of course....

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Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit
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