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lusciouslips19 -> What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:21:08 AM)
I was talking to someone at a club last night about what trips our trigger and immediately excites us and gets us in an immediate submissive headspace and breathless sexual excitement. Mine is the grabbing and pulling the head back by the hair. I'm immediately like, "yes, Sir" and everything else flys out of my head and I lose my train of thought! So what trips your trigger?

IrishMist -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:23:11 AM)
A good hard , no holds barred, all out, ass kicking.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:33:28 AM)
The typical ones are "voice" (usually good girl or mine) "smell" "hair pull" "order to orgasm" "the harsh look" "the toy" "the face smack" and "the collar" Interestingly enough, it's very rarely anything that involves the sub providing active service- it's almost always being passive and having something fuzzy and yummy done TO them by the dome. I can't recall ever hearing a sub say "ironing his undies always gets me into that fuzzy yummy headspace immediately" or "going to the grocery store when I'm having a migraine" I've heard plenty of subs say that those things do ultimately provide them with fulfillment, but simply those aren't the things that give them the immediate happy fuzzy zingers on a consistent basis.

GreedyTop -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:34:59 AM)
Hair pull,or hand around the throat (or BOTH!) for me

GruesomeDivine -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:40:56 AM)
quote: Mine is the grabbing and pulling the head back by the hair. I'm immediately like, "yes, Sir" and everything else flys out of my head and I lose my train of thought! A while ago, I would have said the same thing, until the last time I was at a ("goth") club. Some unattractive - and quite drunk - moron tried to grab me by my hair on the dance floor, and got a very swift and severe lesson in keeping his hands to himself. One of us ended up on their knees that night, and it wasn't me. Hah!

NeedingMore220 -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:43:44 AM)
I'd have to say a combination of the hair pull and a gorgeous kiss. Or a quick, harsh face slap. Or all three. God, I'm greedy today! lol

Shawn1066 -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:44:27 AM)
In no particular order, a few that immedietly pop to mind: 1. The sound of her car locking as she gets home from work 2. The feeling of her hand around my neck 3. Sitting in her lap, one of her fingers in my mouth 4. Feeling her purr on me. 5. The feeling that I get when she holds me tight in her arms. 6. Her playing with my nipples is a sure-fire turn on within seconds. 7. Hearing "My good boy" or "My pretty girl" 8. ANY time she holds me down or carries me with ease. 9. A bite to my neck. 10. Any playful slap to my butt DV's Fox

Aynne -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 10:32:31 AM)
some of the usual ones.... face slap, god that is hot. when he uses "the voice" when he looks at me and says "hush" "because I own you" The really wicked ones I am keeping private.[;)]

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 10:38:52 AM)
a hot long haired girl in bikini..

TheGaggingWh0re -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 10:39:37 AM)
Oh gosh...just thinking about trigger-tripping is tripping my trigger! There are so many things, so I'll try and be as brief as possible: 1) When I serve food, especially sushi (I make it, and it is daaaammmmnnnn good) and I see the pleasure on his face. 2) When he stands over me, whether I'm kneeling or lying down. 3) Sudden attacks out of nowhere! (he's quite ninja) 4) When we're sitting in the car and it's quiet, and I'm watching how he positions himself in the car, watching how much control he has in just that little space. It gives me goosies! 5) When he slams me up against a wall and does whatever he wants, or forces me to the ground and holds me there. Mrowl! errr...I'll stop there. I could go on and on and on and on and on and...you get it. Omg I've got goosies already!

daddysliloneds -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 10:45:26 AM)
for me, it's not 'what' trips my trigger, but the 'who' that trips my trigger[:D][:)]

batshalom -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 10:47:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Interestingly enough, it's very rarely anything that involves the sub providing active service- it's almost always being passive and having something fuzzy and yummy done TO them by the dome. I can't recall ever hearing a sub say "ironing his undies always gets me into that fuzzy yummy headspace immediately" or "going to the grocery store when I'm having a migraine" Actually ~big grin~ ... last weekend I was pooped. I was in the mood for company but not really in the mood to work. When I got to his house, I expressed this desire and he said the only thing he could have said (and still had me believe he was the Dom, after all). He said, "I don't care," pulled me inside, and had me get to work cleaning his kitchen, cutting melon, washing fruit and storing it properly, and then on to laundry. In the meantime, he watched some tv, did some office work, and did come sit down in the room I was in to have some lively chat. But I have a special affinity for pairing socks. ~stoopid smile~ Then again, I'm a service sub ... so no big surprises here.

softness -> RE: Whay trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 10:50:53 AM)
when He takes His belt off ... am sure He does it slowly on purpose .. the tease plus all the usual hair grabbing, throat holding .,.. ass slapping deliciousness

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 2:37:19 PM)
when he tugs on my leash or collar to kiss me or lightly brushing his fingers on my bare thighs (one of many ticklish spots)

DesFIP -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 2:42:43 PM)
His teeth in my neck. He does it in the middle of a conversation, my mind goes blank and then he sits back and asks me what I was about to say. And then he laughs.

mbes -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 3:02:09 PM)
Lucky Albatross brings up a good point (as usual). When he bites my neck, it lights me right up. If anyone else did that, it would earn a knee to the balls. But ironing doesn't really do it for me, I've done that for years. Getting up to get him a drink, when all I can think is that I'm damn glad to be sitting, and want nothing more than to sit.... THAT lights me up. Oh, and ironing naked... not my thing, but it works for him... so somehow it works for me as well. [:)]

WarriorsGirl -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 3:59:41 PM)
His deep voice in my ear...."Good girl"

charlie63 -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 4:38:44 PM)
When He squeezes, twists and pulls on one or both nipples. His voice - quiet, calm and stern - saying, "come here", or "kneel" .

bipolarber -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 4:55:52 PM)
The inital: the first harsh look... the first command. (Usually: "Strip.") Other things that do it: the hand at the back of the neck... a tug on the leash around my balls... when she "forces" me to do things I'm reluctant, or not in the mood to do... Whenever she ties me to a cross, or the bed, and cuts/rips my clothing away...

TheGaggingWh0re -> RE: What trips your trigger. (6/29/2008 8:05:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mbes Lucky Albatross brings up a good point (as usual). When he bites my neck, it lights me right up. If anyone else did that, it would earn a knee to the balls. I just made the assumption that it automatically implied my Master, but if not, then yeah...anyone else that I did not approve of pulling the stuff I listed will find themselves in a world of not-fun-at-all agony.

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