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aravain -> RE: What trips your trigger. (8/28/2008 9:41:48 PM)
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There are a few things that really get me going, whether it's into sub-space or just general 'hot' space. Granted, these are only my 'known' triggers, since I've really not had too much of a chance to explore with a man who felt truly comfortable with it. My last boyfriend would try... but it was painfully obvious that he was doing it to try and make me happy.
When I'm in my 'sub-space' the only thoughts I have are about pleasing my partner, but I also have a little bit of a sadistic streak in that I'll not do everything that they ask/command. I want them to wrest control from me... but enough about that. There's enough background to understand where I go :)
In order of the most immediate, heart-pounding base need to please to the more subtle pang-causing reminder that I'm meant to please him...
1) One word. "Down." It doesn't have to even be a command or in any sort of context. If I hear my partner say it, even in passing to someone else my heart starts to pound and my mind instantly goes into overdrive on how I can please my dominant. No matter how insolent I'm being or what I'm doing, if I hear this as a command... I simply need to obey.
2) Directing me. When the dominant orders me around, or even physically moves me around, the hairs on the back of my neck zap with electricity. When he is telling me where to go, and punishes me if I don't do as he says... I can't help it, his pleasure is more important than anything at that moment.
3) A scratch. It can be as innocuous as his hand on top of mine and a light scrape of his nail on the back of hand, or as harsh as a hard gouge. It's a simple, clean way of inflicting the pain that is so basic it reverts me to a primal state.
4) A bite. Anything from a nibble, to a sharp, deep bite, almost anywhere on my body, will make any thoughts in my head, whether of disobedience or something else, is gone. Sometimes my ex would give me an order, or something to remember, then bite me and then punish me if I forgot. More often than not... I'd forget.
5) A crack or a 'swish' of something. Doesn't necessarily have to be a whip or flogger or anything obvious... it just usually is. Even just the smack of a hand against skin... it just revs me up.
There's others, of course, those are just the mains. Also, hi :) I'm a gay sub relatively new to the site :D Hope it becomes a nice place to hang out. A friend of mine showed it to me ^_^
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