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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 5:21:08 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		They don't realize a couple of things [grin]

One: people really do do this stuff

Two: people don't go "ahhh" when nipple clamps come off



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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 6:30:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

OOH, are the stories any good?


Rarely. Some make for a neat laugh.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 6:47:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

They don't realize a couple of things [grin]

One: people really do do this stuff

Two: people don't go "ahhh" when nipple clamps come off






So true! The counter-intuitive stuff always gets 'em.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 6:49:25 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		How do YOU know I didn't really fuck an alien?  Don't be so quick to leap to conclusions.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Sometimes you read some responses here about people's bdsm experiences and those responses tell you that beyond a shadow of a doubt that the person has never actually participated in whatever it is that they just made up this huge and detailed fabricated story about. It seems to me that if they are wanting to pull the wool over someone's eyes, they would choose a forum where there isn't a possibility that anyone would be any the wiser. Yet they come here where there are many people actually engaging in these activities and do know what they are talking about. I don't really understand why people do this...don't they realize their transparency? Don't they realize they make themselves look ridiculous? And some of them are here searching for a partner....what an impression they make...

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 7:04:25 PM   
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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 7:26:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

How do YOU know I didn't really fuck an alien?  Don't be so quick to leap to conclusions.


Well I DON"T believe that...but I DO believe you have a 3 foot cock 'cause seeing is believing.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 7:28:22 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

OOH, are the stories any good?


Rarely. Some make for a neat laugh.

Health,
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I'm always up for a laugh! 

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 7:43:28 PM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		Don't forget, compulsive liars are out there as well... it seems that this often manifests as a need to sell a story to people who will be impressed by it... There's no point it telling the tale somewhere that the audience will be disinterested, or fail to understand what they're talking about... Sometimes they'll fail to do all the homework they should, and get called out by someone more experienced, but for every time that happens there will be a dozen times that their story makes a newbie say Wow!, and that's what it's all about... Happens just about everywhere.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 7:53:11 PM   
TheGaggingWh0re


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Status: offline 		I try not to be able to tell who has participated in what and who hasn't. To the people I have an inkling that they've never participated in what they claim they have...I just move on. I can never be 100% sure unless I was there actively watching them and I'm not about to make myself look like a fool for assuming something I don't already know. To those skilled enough to say something and make it believable despite haven't having participated in the activity, and I respond to it with belief, I give them kudos! 

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 7:58:32 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		Beside the common wanker responses....

I would add that there are more than a few that think what they see on the forums is fantasy and they are participating in this great fantasy story..... Oh sure some people do some kinky stuff... but truthful those kinky things are rather tame and not near as over the edge that you read about, from time to time.  For many, it is a complete shock when they actually come out to events and witness what many do.  Hell... for some that are rather aware of what can and does occur... they can be shocked.

I must say.. that I find it much more interesting to see those that fabricate things and learn that some of what they think to be fantasy in their minds is actually someone's reality.

I know that some lie of the truth of things... and some don't believe what is the truth of things.  Regardless as interesting as it might be.. it really as very little direct consequence on me.  I know my truth and I am content with that.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/29/2008 9:32:43 PM   
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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/30/2008 4:45:54 PM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

How do YOU know I didn't really fuck an alien?  Don't be so quick to leap to conclusions.


Well I DON"T believe that...but I DO believe you have a 3 foot cock 'cause seeing is believing.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/30/2008 5:19:54 PM   
NeedingMore220


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Status: offline 		I think of this when reading erotica that, prior to having any real-time experience, sounded hot.  Now that I know a l'il something about things ... it's pure bullshit.  It makes me want to take out my red pen and edit the crap out of the thing. 

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/30/2008 5:29:29 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Well wait, are we talking three Earth feet or three Saturn feet?


LOL....I'm not sure.....is that anything like the difference between 8 real inches and 8 internet inches???

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 6/30/2008 5:40:14 PM   
variation30


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ORIGINAL: StrangerinBlack

Yea, you know, I would love to hear some of these stories from people. I have one to start. I met a girl at a Munch the other month (who's name rhymed with a body fluid) who told us an improbable tale of a time when she unconcentually tied her date up with electrical wires she pulled out of the outlet, and the proceded to beat/pork his brains out. Everyone at the table was like "you just did all that to some random dude with no negotiation?...... sure, right". This wasnt the only  fake signal she gave off, but no one took her seriously at all after that. I'm sure there are even better stories our there.


that reminds me of the time I was backpacking in sweden and had their entire olympic gymanstics team consent to letting me hogtie them in my penthouse suite where I spent the next few hours lashing them with bullwhips (one in each hand, an old technique I learned from the last of the Old Gaurd) until they all had multiple orgasms.

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 7/1/2008 12:57:41 AM   
L8bloomer


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Status: offline 		Stories...I have one from a few years ago...not exactly in the vein of this thread, but a demonstration of a wannabe.

This is the santized version. *grins*

I had exchanged e-mails, then phone calls with a man who claimed to be a dominant. We arranged a meeting in a public place. I sort of knew from the moment we laid eyes on each other that it wasn't going to work. But we talked a bit and then he tried to convince me to go home with him. Actually, he demanded it. *L* Go home with someone I've just met in person for the first time? Hell no! So then he gave me an ultimatum....go with him, or I'd never hear from him again. Okay, see ya!!! :) When that didn't work...you will NEVER guess what he did next...he started...begging! I swear to God...he started begging me to go home with him. What self-respecting dominant begs? Can anyone answer that for me? I suspect the answer is ... no self respecting dom begs! *L* It just left me completely turned off.


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RE: BDSM fabrication - 7/1/2008 7:43:38 AM   
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quote:

Sometimes you read some responses here about people's bdsm experiences and those responses tell you that beyond a shadow of a doubt that the person has never actually participated in whatever it is that they just made up this huge and detailed fabricated story about.


Oh I dunno, maybe it really did happen . . . in a chat room.


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RE: BDSM fabrication - 7/1/2008 9:10:45 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		There's nothing wrong with not having experience, cuz obviously we all hafta start somewhere.  But I think some folks have manufactured every sort of skeery, OMG there are monsters in my closet scenario, to the point that they can't move beyond their fantasy world and gain any experience.  And some come across as downright neurotic. 

But if someone comes on here asking for advice from people who have 'been there, done that', then to me, it seems a tad arrogant or attention whorish for those who haven't 'been there, done that' to jump in and offer advice. 

It would be like me going over to a skydiving message board and giving advice, when I don't know doodly squat about skydiving other than you should probably make sure you're wearing a parachute before you jump...... and I'm sure someone else with actual experience would know a way to get around that!

It doesn't take a genius to figure out who prefers to live in a fantasy world and contribute based on fantasy, rather than reality. 

I know when I first got here, I had no experience beyond slightly kinky sex, so I read and learned.  As I actually gained real life experiences, then I was able to wade into a little deeper water, ask more detailed questions and actually offer up an opinion or advice based on my experiences.

Truthfully though, for those who live in fantasy land, I think the message board participants are all just characters in their fantasy world. 

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RE: BDSM fabrication - 7/1/2008 9:51:14 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Heh... John..?
I do go "ahhh" when the clamps come off.  Actually it is more like a "<gasp gasp> oooohhhhaaaaahh mmmmmm"
Somethings are individual.
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Two: people don't go "ahhh" when nipple clamps come off



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RE: BDSM fabrication - 7/1/2008 10:14:50 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		Oh Damn!  OP, How did you figure it out?  Who told you I've been faking this whole time?  Where did I slip up this time?  Damn.  Outed again.  I'll have to find another forum where people haven't heard my fantasies.  *sniffle*

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