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puppen -> RE: Whining/Complaining of a sub from a Master is O.K. (6/30/2008 10:47:17 AM)
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Of course, they may take your whining as fear or an unwillingness and since they only want someone who submits consensually, they assume that you are withdrawing consent to this act. Especially in a very new relationship, or just in the beginning stages of getting to know you, it's most likely they would agree rather than force you and have you freak out and call the police or tell everyone what a bad dominant they are.
Unless of course you tell them first that you do this, and that it's okay for them to override your refusals. Because intelligent men who don't know a women very well do not assume that no means yes.
Ah, I am absolutely clear with how I work before I begin with anyone. And I always establish a safe word or signal just in case.
Usually, these fellows I have "tested" end up being more bottom than top in the end.
Besides, I've never been "properly trained", ah, that annoying phrase, of course I'm due to whine on occassion.
I would just prefer a dominant snap at my whining and order it to stop, versus coddle me. [8|]
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