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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Good Lord.  Seven pages and counting.
 
I'm tired; anyone care to tell me if a single post responded to the Op?
 
Named the payoff?
 
Named the cost?
 
candystripper

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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire

Yes, hard to believe, large as it is. Though Daddy says you wouldn't know a cock if you saw one....

*snickers*

(and here I was just thinking of your large mouth.....)

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ORIGINAL: Strongmindbody


Wow! I'm new to this board, and I first thought you (as pinksugarsub) were new as well. Now that I see you have thousands of posts, I like you even more. Seriously. Every board needs a good antagonist. If they don't have one, they will create one. Honestly, you're perfect.

Benefit: Don't get me wrong - I almost never read your posts - but I do get tremendous amusement at your consistent ability to start a thread like this that goes on for pages and pages. Oddly, this has been a really great thread that would have been impossible if it had been started by almost anyone else. Adversarial relationships can bring a community together like nothing else!

Benefit: So I will add to the mess to make one comment: humor, real friendships, even "group hugs" on this particular board serve a serious purpose. They make some frighteningly difficult and intimate discussions more bearable, more human, more honest simply by lending perspective. I don't view them as hijacks as much as good natured reminders to keep me from becoming too full of myself (Cost).

Benefit: Like you, I have no knack for witty posts and online banter, so I refrain. But I certainly appreciate the broader spectrum of insight that I see from those who do have the knack. All communication (or lack thereof) can tell us something if we look, and in BDSM, humor and community become a necessary counterbalance to the high/low intensity that often besets those in the lifestyle (ok, is it really a lifestyle or BS?).

So thank you for the post, and thanks to everyone else for all the pages of replies. Not yet sure what I learned this time around, but it did keep my attention...

/rant

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ORIGINAL: missturbation
The pay off / cost of my friendship to you is a bargain one off never to be repeated price of only.........................£300. [;)]

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ORIGINAL: Sundowner

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ORIGINAL: missturbation
The pay off / cost of my friendship to you is a bargain one off never to be repeated price of only.........................£300. [;)]

Can anyone apply?

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And will she take PayPal?
* grumbles about the lack of cock shots *

thornhappy

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth


Perhaps it is time again to re-invent another profile.

[:(]no no no no no no no no no no no ........

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ORIGINAL: fluffyswitch

honestly though how many screen names can a person think of?

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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire

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ORIGINAL: fluffyswitch

honestly though how many screen names can a person think of?

A lot apparently....

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1934628

This will do for starters.....

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
You're missing the point people.  She wanted to know what the payoff of forming a clique was... most people disagreed that a clique exists, so her question did not get answered.

She doesn't believe that people are meeting offline, therefore, it can be surmised that people are making this up, and wants to know the payoff of making it up.

She believes that people that are friendly to each other "detract from the quality of the boards" and wants to know the payoff to that... people disagreed with her premise, therefore her question did not get answered.

Sounds like a big conspiracy theory... someone call Fox and Mulder.

Cali

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
You're missing the point people.  She wanted to know what the payoff of forming a clique was... most people disagreed that a clique exists, so her question did not get answered.

She doesn't believe that people are meeting offline, therefore, it can be surmised that people are making this up, and wants to know the payoff of making it up.

She believes that people that are friendly to each other "detract from the quality of the boards" and wants to know the payoff to that... people disagreed with her premise, therefore her question did not get answered.

Sounds like a big conspiracy theory... someone call Fox and Mulder.

Cali

[sm=onphone.gif]  Hello... hello?  Hi, Fox.  This is PinkyPlumSugarFartCandy, I am at CollarMe some people real people are all posting about a real time events, going to a real parties, hooking up, dating and meeting in the real world.  Then there is this faery type person that keeps talking about aliens and a sadist guy that wants to collar me so he can have a 4-way poly all by himself with me and my alter egos.  I think it’s …  it’s … well …  I think it’s the clique … the ones you have been seeking. 
 
Can you investigate this?  You can track them because they all have this ‘friends list’ … I see their faces … the horror of it all … I see their faces on the lists … their faces, it’s horrible, I see their faces at night when I am alone.  It must be aliens … it’s the clique Fox, it’s clique.  Mothers grab your nurses it’s the clique.