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RE: When did you know? - 7/1/2008 9:08:29 AM

JadeGeisha

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I discovered this about myself when I was 18.

Most of my coworkers are involved in Kink or the Lifestyle- we talk rather freely about it.

I'm open to everyone except my dad, grandparents, and brother.

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RE: When did you know? - 7/1/2008 9:13:14 AM

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Hello teacherpet,
I knew when I was 16 that I was a sadist toward my fellow humans, particularly women. I did a lot of lifestyle related activities without even knowing of the lifestyle. At 25 I ended up marrying my first wife. Given the choice she said she would rather die than be my/a slave. I made the mistake of denying my nature because I loved her. we divorced after 11 years. 9 of those years were pretty happy. I learned that I cannot change my nature and can never go back to vanilla.

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RE: When did you know? - 7/1/2008 9:27:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: teacherpet

As someone who has taken a while to admit that this lifestyle is part of me and something I can't ignore anymore, I was wondering when you knew this was something important to you and something you had to do? When you were very young or did the realization not occur until you were an adult? And as I've told very few friends or coworkers (okay, actually I've only told one person), how easy was it to tell people about this. I'm pretty sure I would lose my job if people knew what some of the things I like to do. Just curious

I was shut in a chained up room, in the dark.I had been been smacked and I was abandoned,cold and hungry blah blah. But I found my clit to play with . I was two years old I reckon.

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RE: When did you know? - 7/1/2008 2:31:07 PM

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It was sort of always a part of me, but not until the internet did I officially have a label for it. I knew I liked the feeling of being tied up and during all of my childhood play I'd be the captive, or I would watch movies where the girl was the one who was the captive and I'd wish to be in her ropes (lololololollers) so badly!

I didn't know it would be my life, however, until I was owned by my current and first Master. I hardly even knew people were truly into this sort of life on a personal level, thinking it was all just a fantasy I had to reach desperately for. I'm glad it is not, because I'm superultra happy!

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RE: When did you know? - 7/1/2008 4:16:51 PM

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My Mom dropped us kids off at a Saturday afternoon matinee at our local hometown movie theatre.... there, in the dark, I was exposed to a scene of a man being tied up in some kind of black bondage material by a woman in a weird, kinky outfit... she had this confidant, commanding voice, that mocked the man's desires to be with the one he really loved, and she told him how she planned to spoil his life as she locked him in a dungeon....

My toes curled, and I really haven't been the same since...

Thank you Walt Disney...

Thanks for "Sleeping Beauty."

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RE: When did you know? - 7/3/2008 12:56:18 PM

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Hello A/all,

First, to the OP: I knew as early as five or six that I wanted to submit to a dominant woman.

Second to Ms. BitaTruble: Please don't leave me hanging! What happend at 1650PDT 3JULY82? ;-D

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RE: When did you know? - 7/3/2008 1:27:51 PM

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my first experiance was very young liek 4-5 :P my older sister would dress me up like a girl and boss me around. I was about 10 when I got my first "bdsm" fantasy which stemed from starwars "empire strikes back" the scene when han solo was tortured and then tossed into his cell. I thought about that frequently before going to sleep each nite for a long time. Also "V" Diana in that mini series was really the first real Domme that I recognized as such, not many shows around at that time depicting powerful female characters but that was definitily one of them.

lol ah wierd childhood memories..

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RE: When did you know? - 7/3/2008 1:55:46 PM

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I knew for sure when I was 16 but did not fully embrace it till my mid 20's

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