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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 8:40:34 AM   
slavegirljoy


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ORIGINAL: TheCollarPurple

Have a question about how you deal with bruising on exposed parts of your body. In the winter months the bruises on legs and arms are easier to conceal with clothing..

How do you deal with bruising on these exposed parts when its summer months and you mostly wear shorts and tanks?

Does anyone have advice or care to share their experience with regard to this. Thank you

Sorry.  No advice for you, here.  i've never tried to conceal any bruises or other marks on my body, except for the double black eyes that my brother gave me, when i was 15 and we were fighting.  Fortunately, it was during Christmas Vacation but, unfortunately, it was a very raining December in northern CA and i looked pretty silly wearing sunglasses.

If i didn't have bruises on my body, people who know me would wonder if i have been down sick with the flu or something.

All my life, i have always had bruises, of some sort, on my body, along with scrapes, scratches, cuts, splinters, blisters, bug bites, and more. Growing up, i was a tomboy, climbing trees and fences and rocks, riding dirt bikes, camping and hiking with my family, etc., i have always been and still remain very physically active. For 12 years, in the Army, i worked on trucks and jeeps and spent a lot of time out in the field, setting up tactical radio equipment and tents and sandbagging generators, and so forth.  i'm in the outdoors more than i'm in the indoors, camping in tents in the woods, doing yard work, riding bicycles, etc.

For the past 3 weeks, i've been packing, carrying, and unloading boxes, helping to move furniture, painting rooms, cleaning a large swimming pool, and other assorted activities related to the big move into the new house. This is, of course, in addition to my usual activities, which include, caring for and playing with a large dog and a little dog and my pre-adolescent offspring and my very large, strong, and physical Master.

There are now bruises on top of bruises, on me, along with the assortment of scrapes, scratches, cuts, splinters, bug bites, and so forth that also mark my body.   Of course, the many freckles i have help to camouflage them but, not completely.  i'm not a fragile, delicate, little flower.  i don't break easy but, i have a fair complexion and i do bruise and mark-up easily.  Every pinch, poke, prod, and slap my Master gives me shows up instantly and lasts for days and some take a few weeks to completely fade. 
 
Honestly, most of the time, i don't even have a clue where many of my bruises came from, except for the ones my Master has put on me because those are special to me. 
 
i really just don't pay any attention to the number of times i bump myself on something.  i'm also not the most graceful of creatures. So, if someone were to ask me, "Where'd you get that bruise (or all those bruises)?", my answer is, "i haven't a clue.", with a little chuckle and grin. And, that is the usually the end of that discussion. It's just no big deal, in my life. 
 
But, No Way am i going to #1) wear clothing that is uncomfortable and inappropriate for NC summer weather and #2) worry about what other people might think of all of my bruises, scratches, scrapes, etc., that mark my body.

Then again, the people i know just aren't that noisy.
 
Edited to add:  Oh, yes, and i forgot to mention the numerous scars that i have on my body from being hit by a drunk driver while i was riding my bicycle many years ago.  Those tend to get noticed a lot more than my other marks.  And, most people ask my how i became an amputee than about any bruise or other mark on me.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 8:47:23 AM   
bashfulhuck


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Status: offline 		It's alot easier for me to deal with things such as this. I work as a bouncer in a couple of Nightclubs that are extremely rough places to work sometimes, plus I've been a heavy fighter in the SCA for 14 years now, so bruises for me are rather commonplace.
My mom just recently made a surprise visit also, and she did have a serious wiggins when she saw all the knife marks on my lower arms from knife play. She asked what the hell happened to me, and I told her it had been a rough night at work. She looked like she didn't believe me (I wouldn't have either), but left it at that, other than telling me she wished I would quit that line of work already (been doing it 20 years this Friday).
As for it being dangerous to have heavily bruised arms, it's no more dangerous than anyother area. Arms bruise rather easily from impact play, canes and strops will leave some amazing marks while not breaking a bone or anything like that. The only areas you need to avoid with a hard object such as a cane would be the hands and elbows, you can quite easily do extensive damage there due to major nerves being very close to the surface.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 10:02:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TheCollarPurple

Hi all..

Have a question about how you deal with bruising on exposed parts of your body. In the winter months the bruises on legs and arms are easier to conceal with clothing..

How do you deal with bruising on these exposed parts when its summer months and you mostly wear shorts and tanks? My ass, breasts and back I can deal with... Sir says he will not hold back but it's put me in an uncomfortable position.. He wants me to wear a bikini to the beach/pool but I am extremely unhappy and nervous at the thought of having to publicly show off my bruised and battered body. I live in a very warm climate and wearing long sleeves and long pants for 2 -3 weeks while the bruises fade will raise eyebrows..

I am close to my family and they will surely ask questions as to why I am dressed so warmly..

Does anyone have advice or care to share their experience with regard to this. Thank you
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tcp


If this is that big of an issue to both of you, it may be a point to acknowledge you two aren't compatible.  Trying talking it over some more, but coming from two opposing views that specific and strong there may not be any way to work this out.

Personally how do I deal with bruises that show?  I just live normal with them and don't really consider them anything to worry about.  If someone specifically asks, as with every aspect of my life I give them an answer fitting them and our interaction type.  Most of my more impressive marks are normally hidden by clothing, but I don't sweat it... they're bruises.  *shrugs*  I've had some seriously nasty marks from non-kink related activities.  My worst bruises to date were from a Marilyn Manson concert where I wasn't even in a mosh pit (but was on crutches), and from broomball playing: purple and black and covering feet of my body.  People get nasty marks and bruises from just plain old life, no one needs to know you got them from BDSM unless you are okay with that.

If you don't have a life where they could be from other things and you don't want to be honest with your family, again, you've largely run into a compatibility issue on this topic.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 2:29:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dunno, its kinda hot to show off your woman with a couple of black eyes and some nice bruising.  The looks you get are hysterical.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 2:33:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		i don't hide my bruises, it tends to draw more attention to them. Vanilla people don't really ask me about my bruises, they know i work as a CNA and work a lot on a wing i call "hell hall" , lol.
Now, people who are in the "know" will ask me if i have any new special bruises, which i proudly show off .

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 2:45:21 PM   
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Last summer, Phoenix flogged me pretty hard (not that I was complaining) it left welts and bruises. During the summer I am typically wearing tank tops or backless shirts for about 2 weeks simply adjusted what I wore. Phoenix understood, infact insisted on it but it was something we discussed BEFORE we did the heavy flogging session.
 
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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 2:48:29 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		I wear my marks with honor and pride , the same way i give them .the only problem i have is frequency in getting them .Its been too -wayyyyy to long since i have been able to show them have them wear them etc .  I also know my tolerance have been drastically lowered too gee i wonder if thats a good thing or bad , i shall let cha know when i get  some marks  lol .

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 3:08:46 PM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Hi tcp, thought I'd come on board with a list of standard bruising appearance
based on specific time lines. These of course can vary from individual to
individual, but at least it gives a starting point that perhaps certain behaviors
might be avoided, or enjoyed freely depending on family functions or other
forays into the public sector.

0 to 2 days area is swollen and tender
2 to 5 days area may become red-blue
5 to 7 days area may appear green
7 to 10 days area may appear yellow
10 to 14 days area may appear brown
2 to 4 weeks may be the time line from onset to full healing.

Remember also, bruises may well resemble certain objects or a human hand.
If your Dominant is not sensitive to your family or other concerns, perhaps
he is not worthy of the treasure before him. You have choices, make them.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 3:09:23 PM   
BBWnNC72


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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

I also know my tolerance have been drastically lowered too gee i wonder if thats a good thing or bad , i shall let cha know when i get  some marks  lol .



i am also having the same problem.  Think it's from NOT getting those beautiful marks as much as would like or need?

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 3:11:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheCollarPurple

Hi all..

Have a question about how you deal with bruising on exposed parts of your body. In the winter months the bruises on legs and arms are easier to conceal with clothing..

How do you deal with bruising on these exposed parts when its summer months and you mostly wear shorts and tanks? My ass, breasts and back I can deal with... Sir says he will not hold back but it's put me in an uncomfortable position.. He wants me to wear a bikini to the beach/pool but I am extremely unhappy and nervous at the thought of having to publicly show off my bruised and battered body. I live in a very warm climate and wearing long sleeves and long pants for 2 -3 weeks while the bruises fade will raise eyebrows..

I am close to my family and they will surely ask questions as to why I am dressed so warmly..

Does anyone have advice or care to share their experience with regard to this. Thank you
---
tcp


From your post I took it that you had already discussed this with him and that he said he wouldn't hold back, and you have accepted this, or maybe indecisive about how you are going to deal with it. If you didn't talk to him about all of your concerns and real life implications, then I'd recommend doing that.

Personally, I would find showing off bruises to the public extremely disturbing. And as a domestic abuse survivor, I know that it ... REALLY bothers some survivors to see that. It can trigger a lot of bad reactions in them, and I really don't think its appropriate to force the public to manage their feelings about one's own adult oriented choices. Obviously, especially not children.

So for me, personally, being courteous of other people's feelings and finding some balance in my behavior has been a very positive experience. My slaves get marked in some occasional ways, an isolated bruise or ambiguous abrasion, in a way that is visible to the public all year around. This is because I want to give myself SOME room for spontaneous acts. However in the warmer months I stick to only heavily marking what I think of "underwear only" areas. These are areas that will be covered by swim clothes and undergarments and lighter wear.

That way no survivors are disturbed, no children are exposed to adult matters, my slaves's families aren't concerned or worried or inquisitive, my slaves feel comfortable knowing they are safe from unwelcome scrutiny, and they feel safer with me knowing that I respect their valid, reasonable concerns and knowing I have enough self discipline and creativity to make these simple modifications in my action work really well.

However, your dominant may not be guided by these types of attitudes and ethics. And its up to you to see if you can renegotiate this with him or how best it will be for you to balance your life out. Also, I usually encourage people to see if they can find a pathway that is good for them to take to opening up about their BDSM lifestyle to their close friends and family, but that's just not suitable to everyone.

Some PRACTICAL advice on covering up marks:

  •     Wear light layers. There are a LOT of sarongs, wrap arounds, cover ups, beach dresses and etc for sale these days. There is definitely something in that category that would suit your personality in a natural way and you'd feel happy in and your family and loved ones wouldn't remark on.
  •        Find a waterproof liquid foundation that matches the skin tone of the areas that get bruised, or ask your doctor about medical grade tinted scar cover up and apply it to the areas in question. You can also use green pigment moisturizers/concealer to take the "red" out of areas. The green blends in alright but it looks best if another flesh toned concealer is used over it.
  •     Consider wearing a one-piece suit part of the time at public occasions, and wear a bikini, even WITH marks showing at private/nudist beaches where people are going to already have a more open approach to living an alternative lifestyle and children will probably not be around. Your Dom just might be willing to compromise in this manner if he really just wants to expose you like that publicly and you'd feel comfortable around strangers, without kids around.
  •     Plan ahead for what explanation you'll tell people when they ask. It doesn't HAVE to be a lie or a story, but if you take time to prepare yourself with how you'll respond and what you'll say to people if they inquire, you may feel more comfortable being exposed. And a good story does help take their attention off the questionable marks. In regard to family, you could get them a heads up in advance of some reason for the change in clothing, or an excuse for the marks before they have time to freak out and wonder about it.

Best of luck in this matter, though!


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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 3:15:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

I also know my tolerance have been drastically lowered too gee i wonder if thats a good thing or bad , i shall let cha know when i get  some marks  lol .



i am also having the same problem.  Think it's from NOT getting those beautiful marks as much as would like or need?

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 3:22:26 PM   
SweetNika


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I'm trying to think of how one could get bruises on the arms or legs (at least lower legs where there is not so much flesh) while still playing safe. To my mind its not safe to cane or flog those areas hard enough to leave bruises and if rope was tied that tight then circulation would be a problem before bruises were.

Willow


Willow,
One of my favorite scenes involves a physical  power struggle were Phoenix had to grab my arms hard and force me down. I wrestled and fought back. I definately had bruises on my arms and legs. Most of which were obviously from someone grabbing me. Once I was also slapped so hard it left a red mark on my cheek for a couple of days. These things happen in some scenes but you have to be prepared for the aftermath of those scenes (ie bruises, marks, ect). If you wear them proudly or are forced to by an owner then both need to be prepared for the possible fall out of that decision.
 
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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 6:09:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheCollarPurple

Hi all..

Have a question about how you deal with bruising on exposed parts of your body. In the winter months the bruises on legs and arms are easier to conceal with clothing..

How do you deal with bruising on these exposed parts when its summer months and you mostly wear shorts and tanks? My ass, breasts and back I can deal with... Sir says he will not hold back but it's put me in an uncomfortable position.. He wants me to wear a bikini to the beach/pool but I am extremely unhappy and nervous at the thought of having to publicly show off my bruised and battered body. I live in a very warm climate and wearing long sleeves and long pants for 2 -3 weeks while the bruises fade will raise eyebrows..

I am close to my family and they will surely ask questions as to why I am dressed so warmly..

Does anyone have advice or care to share their experience with regard to this. Thank you
---
tcp

This is your first post so welcome.....
it's been the best of best days for me so here goes;
say you have a cat.
say you own a tiger,
say you have kids with skipping ropes,
say to walked into a door,
say you are moving house and shifting boxes....
ditto washing machine
ditto dish washer
ditto freezer
say you have a daughter with severe PMT
say you work in the mental health services
say you are a nurse
say you are a rock climber
say you enjoy extreme sport
ditto extreme table tennis
ditto extreme volley ball
ditto extreme beach ball
say you drive formula One
say you are fleeing domestic abuse
say you tripped over the cat
ditto a mat
ditto a table tennis ball left in the hall
sat you love gardening and are pulling out bramble
say you got rip roaring drunk and don't remember and never felt a thing
say it was  fazing
say it's an honorry memnership to a Witche's coven
say you are a history enactment fanatic
say you were given a bungy jump as a birthday present
ditto hangliding as as a ditto
ditto sky diving as a ditto
say you took part in an egg and spoon race
say you love amateur dramatics
oh and before i forget: say no to your dominant


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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 9:16:40 PM   
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Sir says he will not hold back but it's put me in an uncomfortable position.. He wants me to wear a bikini to the beach/pool but I am extremely unhappy and nervous at the thought of having to publicly show off my bruised and battered body.

I am close to my family and they will surely ask questions as to why I am dressed so warmly..

Does anyone have advice or care to share their experience with regard to this. Thank you
---
tcp



so, are the bruises and your master not holding back something you have discussed previous to the occasion, or has he simply told you that that's how it's going to be? part of being dominant is taking resposibility for your actions and making sure that your pet is well cared for.....it is NOT a oneway street. i have been a slave and am a domme. i have had some experience on both sides, and i can tell you that when i told my master that something was not cool, he listened and adjusted his behaviour a little so we were both happy. i have taken this same lesson to heart and apply it to all my current situations.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 9:34:35 PM   
nhite


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Status: offline 		there is a topical cream call arnica that is available in health food stores / naturopathic places and it helps to break up bruises

although i myself would find the issue of my feeligns and expressing them to my dom to be of greater importance -- but that's just me :D

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/2/2008 11:36:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have heard wonders about Arnica, although I have never used it.

The only time my Master tries to hold off on marking me is prior to a doctor appointment.  Otherwise, he doesn't much care that I might want to cover markings.  He likes making me uncomfortable.  I have a selection of crotchet or lace type jackets that I wear over tank tops.  Usually any markings on my arms or legs have been fingerprints.  When I have particularly hard orgasms, I get small circular bruises along my inner arms for some reason.  Leg markings are usually on my thighs, so I'll wear a skirt or capris instead of shorts. I'm kind of clumsy so it's not unusual for me to have a bruise or two on my calves or shins.

Once I had a bunch of bruises on my forearm and my mother pointed them out to me, concerned. I said for some reason I've been bruising really easily lately, and I was keeping an eye on it.

If I'm uncomfortable with summer bruising and wearing a bathing suit, then I don't wear a bathing suit.  The way I see it, I'd rather my body be his play ground than anything else.  Sacrificing other activities or attire preferences doesn't bother me as a result.

Why aren't you wearing your bikini?  - Why, you're feeling bloated, of course. 


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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/3/2008 1:23:09 AM   
TheCollarPurple


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Thank you ALL for the great feedback.

We do play hard and sometimes forget about the consequences of hard impact play. Once he slapped my face so hard I got a dollar sized bruise under my chin that lasted well over a week.. My co-workers all asked about it and I did have a good story for it but my family didn't buy it..

I am proud of my markings but don't like to show them in public. I do bruise very easily and they seem to stick around for a long time. I just wish we could still play and not have me get marked up so badly, so quickly.

I will talk again to Sir about keeping the more severe markings contained to my back, chest and ass areas.... at least until the fall . The sarong/wrap idea was a good suggestion as well, thank you. I do have several pairs of capris but in 100+ degree weather, I just want to be wearing next to nothing, lazing by the pool. well, I guess it (bruising) just goes with the territory.

I'm hopeful we can work out a happy compromise that suits us both. 

I'll let you all know how it turns out after we talk.

Again, thanks to all for your comments.

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/3/2008 1:31:33 AM   
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Why aren't you wearing your bikini?  - Why, you're feeling bloated, of course. 



lol!
perfect!
thanks for this one!

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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/3/2008 6:55:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Hi tcp, thought I'd come on board with a list of standard bruising appearance
based on specific time lines. These of course can vary from individual to
individual, but at least it gives a starting point that perhaps certain behaviors
might be avoided, or enjoyed freely depending on family functions or other
forays into the public sector.

0 to 2 days area is swollen and tender
2 to 5 days area may become red-blue
5 to 7 days area may appear green
7 to 10 days area may appear yellow
10 to 14 days area may appear brown
2 to 4 weeks may be the time line from onset to full healing.

Remember also, bruises may well resemble certain objects or a human hand.
If your Dominant is not sensitive to your family or other concerns, perhaps
he is not worthy of the treasure before him. You have choices, make them.

chia* (the pet)

Dear chia: yes except that I take anti-inflammatory meds and even the slightest tap causes a bruise. If I walk into the corner of a table....easy eh? with my whipper snapper dog who is attached to my feet somewhere....then I bruise all the colours of the rainbow for weeks and weeks. It's not that it isn't healed/healing it's just the effects of the meds.
Whelts show up immediately from a crop, whip nd or cane and so the deliveror gets immediate feedback....I like looking in the mirror at the bruises on my backside. I like showing friends...I have some really grteat vanilla friends who always say: let's see the bruises even if i have been on a straight date.
Bite bruises are best....forensically speaking I am sure the teeth marks are a threat to data protection.




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RE: Bruising... How do you deal? - 7/3/2008 7:16:00 AM   
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I like to take a sharpie and connect mine, forming various constellations.

Sometimes one can be free to wear their surrender as a beautiful Monet'.

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