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candystripper -> RE: Bruising... How do you deal? (7/3/2008 8:56:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: TheCollarPurple
Hi all..
Have a question about how you deal with bruising on exposed parts of your body. In the winter months the bruises on legs and arms are easier to conceal with clothing..
How do you deal with bruising on these exposed parts when its summer months and you mostly wear shorts and tanks? My ass, breasts and back I can deal with... Sir says he will not hold back but it's put me in an uncomfortable position.. He wants me to wear a bikini to the beach/pool but I am extremely unhappy and nervous at the thought of having to publicly show off my bruised and battered body. I live in a very warm climate and wearing long sleeves and long pants for 2 -3 weeks while the bruises fade will raise eyebrows..
I am close to my family and they will surely ask questions as to why I am dressed so warmly..
Does anyone have advice or care to share their experience with regard to this. Thank you
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tcp
Hi Purple.
Bruising isn't an issue for me. It's a 'hard limit' for me, and if a man disrespects it, either he doesn't know what he's doing or he cannot respect my hard limits -- either way, I drop him.
Seems to me your Dom needs to hear how you feel about this -- and you need to decide if you can accept it. Sounds like he'd like people in general to be aware he hits you -- albeit consenually, but most people won't assume that -- and this 'kink' of his isn't really acceptable to you.
JMO.
candystripper
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