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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 9:41:32 AM

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well you ask a good question, and i guess i would have to think of the answer....but my first thought is why do we marginalise trolls...

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 9:43:10 AM

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drats i have to get up and start my day....but ill be back later to check on this thread....thank you all in advance...

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 9:43:37 AM

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I don't care what the kink is... just don't force it on me. A troll typically tries to force their kink from what I have seen. They want to use another for one purpose and have no interest in small talk... for lack of a better way to discribe how I view it. I don't tolerate them well because they seem like bottom feeders to me. Have nothing to impart and just wish to suck off of someone else. Go for it... just don't involve me. lol I don't know if this makes me judgmental or not... but I am willing to accept that one.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 9:47:00 AM

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quote:

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what i hate is the double standard....your kink is not ok double standard....

I look at this from a different perspective I guess because I am not sure why anyone would think that all of their kinks WILL be ok with everyone else. I certainly don't expect that everyone must be in line with mine. As for wanking.....wank away...but as dark said, be honest about what it is you are doing and don't cloak it on some honorable falsehood. If wanking is your thing, wank...but that also doesn't mean that I want to hear all the details after the fact or have you soliciting me for additional fodder.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 10:07:33 AM

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Because masturbation is vile, disgusting, messy.. <g> and people who do that should have their weenies or pussies wacked.

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so then why marginalise masturbation?

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 10:18:59 AM

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I mean what is wrong with wanking?

Absolutely nothing, but then; what's wrong with taking some sadistic pleasure from 'wankers'? People have asked me why I give wankers an opportunity to see beth naked. The answer is simple, I take sadistic pleasure out of pointing out to them; "you get to see her - I get to play and do anything I want with her."

Real life wankers are even more 'fun'. For instance, while strolling through New Orleans, there was a young man wearing a tee-shirt advertising 'FREE BREAST EXAMS'. I had beth walk up to him on Bourbon Street and ask him to give one. The stunned look on his face was price-less. I think hers were the first breasts he ever touched and then only for a second and so gently beth barely felt his touch.

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why cast shame on the person

Because you can? And again, shame from the internet? That says more about the insecurity of the person than it does about the question or the answers.

Every time I see a question that runs along the lines of; 'how do I torture my sub?' or 'what are some great humiliation games?'; for me, that just begs for some torture. Think about it; all the query options in the world wide web and instead of using a search engine and typing in the word 'humiliation' they come to a free website forum for 'expertise'!? That, to me, is someone looking for some cyber first hand experience.

Hey - I'm a sadist, this is a BDSM site. Maybe there should be a disclaimer on the top of the threads page:

WARNING - Here there be Sadists.

Ask questions at your own risk.

I hope not. I say - Bring on the wankers!

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 10:28:54 AM

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i personally don't care. i don't personally see the interest anyone would have in *me* or what i possibly have to say but that's just my own insecurity. it's the joys of being on a public board--my lj communities run into the same issue. i have to echo what other people have said already-- just don't make it obvious what you're doing, just because it's a personal pet peeve of mine. i suppose i would rather be wank fodder than having someone come up and scream at me for not being weal or twue because i don't do things exactly the way that they do, regardless of the fact that they wouldn't know who i am if they ran into me in public (again that's just another personal pet peeve).

i find it more annoying when people perve my profile so often that it's obvious that they're using it as wank fodder. i have that happen a lot with local doms. i'm not sure if they're waiting for new pics (sorry guys my nudes are not going up unless He tells me to even though i've been told that they're decent) or if they're waiting for me to be single.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 3:58:54 PM

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Wank as much as you want, just don't demand pictures from me

Whoops too late Ive already wanked to your pictures... FYI, I think you may have given me carpal tunnel syndrome...

and Fluffy, a person viewing your profile often probably isnt a wanker otherwise they would just do the view all photos instead of opening the profile... A wanker would save the pics and wank privately. Chances are the frequent viewer is trying to check out your journal or they are working on a response that they never seem to get finished.....

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 4:07:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomAviator

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Wank as much as you want, just don't demand pictures from me

Whoops too late Ive already wanked to your pictures... FYI, I think you may have given me carpal tunnel syndrome...

and Fluffy, a person viewing your profile often probably isnt a wanker otherwise they would just do the view all photos instead of opening the profile... A wanker would save the pics and wank privately. Chances are the frequent viewer is trying to check out your journal or they are working on a response that they never seem to get finished.....

yeah that makes sense too. either way it still sort of creeps me out...not sure why though lol.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 4:14:20 PM

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Yeah I am guilty of that myself... I mean in my case I am going to send a response so Im looking at a profile so as to send an appropriate non-cookie cutter response. Then I get a flight, or drama erupts at work, or I run an emergency squad call, or the cat decides to hang from the cieling fan, or I run out of cigarettes so I need to go to walgreens or SOMETHING happens that keeps me from finishing the response and then I lost my train of thought and start over.... Then by the time I get around to it again, its time to recheck the profile to see of it now says collared or something .... Same thing with the "favorites list" being put on my favorites list doesnt mean Im spanking it to you - just that I dont want to forget to get back to you. SO, if anyone sees ive favorite listed you and we havent spoken it doesnt mean Im jerking it means Im wanting to send you a note. So either break the ice by saying Hi yourself, or tell me to fuck off so I dont bother writing a custom non cut and paste introduction LOL

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/2/2008 5:19:47 PM

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Crap! The title of this thread made me think there'd be something here for me to wank to. Boy was I fooled. Gotta go now.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 12:51:10 AM

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Possibly because this site is interactive and many people have photos on their profiles? You can also gather a sense of personality, accurate or not, by the conversations on the forums.

(I have not looked at altcom for years and have no idea about their current format.)

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If someone wants stuff like that, to be honest you can find tonnes and tonnes on alt.com or literotica, why come to and advice board???

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 7:39:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

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Hey I was just giving an idea as to why some ppl get up in arms. No reason to bite my head off lol

I never said it was bad or good or otherwise. I don't post to threads that I think are people just looking for imigary.

To each their own. It's not my thing so I stay the hell away from it

its funny you thought i bit your head off, because the voice i spoke to you in my mind was soft, quiet and questioning...thank you for the awareness that my style of communication feels like an attack, i would never wish any of my posting here to come off that way...

although you do have a very bitable head...

Actually I was being semi facetious *S* hence the *laff* at the end.

For the most part, when there is a thread that makes my eyes glaze over and that little "oh for god sake" thought float through my head, i just pass it over.

hehe unless i'm feeling snarky that day *S*

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 8:21:27 AM

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I've seen threads started by saying they were interested in wank fodder on a certain subject. No flaming resulted.

Flames erupt when people claim they have a serious question but are obviously only interested in wank fodder.

It's the lying to me and insulting my intelligence that gets my dander up, not asking for wank fodder.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 9:28:23 AM

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I work damn hard on my wanking material, I'm certainly not going to give it away without getting some reciprocal fun too

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 9:46:23 AM

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I think desFIP hit the nail on the head. It's the deception that some use to take advantage of other's in their need for wank material that bothers me. I have people that I talk to that are out there simply to wank off or to get kinky and that is all they want, but they are not out there taking advantage or hurting anyone with their activity. They are honest about it and even though their motive is to wank, they can be wonderful people in lots of ways. Then there is the wanker who can think of nothing but wanking and will use any means to get off, often times treating people like they are nothing but a vessel of wank material for them. They take the unwilling and try to use them, forcing their horny on anyone they can. That I find offensive.

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 12:20:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

I mean what is wrong with wanking?

I suppose there's a time and a place.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmhkBl0rDpw

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 12:35:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

I mean what is wrong with wanking?

I suppose there's a time and a place.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmhkBl0rDpw

LOL that was worth following the link! Thanks for the laugh!

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 6:22:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

so what?

I want to ask the question...why do we care if someone uses a *gasp* bdsmpornforum to wank off to interesting story's?

I mean what is wrong with wanking?

Why do we want to shame people for masturbating?

Why is one kink OK, and another not?

This double standard has been bugging me for a while esp since if you don't want to share your intimate moments in public you certainly are not required to.

But why cast shame on the person asking and then subsequently to any and all that would want to share theirs?

I can not think of any one thing that would further the cause of advancing human sexuality and taking power out of the hands of the judeocatholic moralists that currently control a lot of social attitudes of law makers, then to celebrate the idea that not only do we all masturbate... but that sex-positive erotic-authenticity is something to celebrate.

Huh?

I guess I just assumed people used porn -- including D/s porn -- to enhance their masturbation experiences. I think it's great. I do it myself -- have even recommended some of my favorite reading material.

All I care about is not being 'forced' into supplying wanker material myself against my will by some manipulative man, in email or elsewise.

Apart from that, I think everyone does -- and should -- masterbate with joy.

Crikey -- are there really people into D/s who look down on other people for masturbating?

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RE: Wank fodder? - 7/3/2008 8:31:26 PM

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Oh, ok. Now i know what Wank fodder means. lol...

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