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RE: Shelf life - 7/4/2008 8:49:56 PM

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My grandfather taught me many things in my youth. Besides the normal things to know as to how to grow to be a man, he was also an inspiration in the matters of old age.

Spilling your drink in your lap is the quickest way to get a young girls hands in your pants.

Pretend your deaf early, it gets everyone conditioned to yelling before they have to.

Put a dead battery in the remote so the bitch has to manualy change the tv, then pull the good battery out of the chair cushion after she leaves so you dont.

Faking a muscle spasm to knock someones drink on them works every time.

If you whisper long enough in bed, a cute nurse with big breasts will eventually lean over to hear you.

When the IV bag is the same color as your colostomy bag, and just as warm, you might want to pay more attention.

Your colostomy bag is a new water sports toy if use it the right way.

And yes, your wheel chair is both bondage and sex equipment.

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RE: Shelf life - 7/4/2008 11:47:29 PM

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I was born at a technologically propitious time,when they body wears out-I will just morph into a "borg" and specialize in electrical play.
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RE: Shelf life - 7/4/2008 11:58:52 PM

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The older I get, the MORE creative my deviant behavior seems to get!

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 12:53:41 AM

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To some degree, I beliegve the age (as in old age) factor comes into play in some ethnic or social areas where it is of no importance in others where older folk are treated better and still as being valuable humans. In my personal exsperience here in Australia, where the national culture worships youth and all things young and either ignors or disgards thise disabled or are baby boomer age or older, I have all but slammed my doors shut as far as participating in the local scene other than as a social bystander.. (Not just in this sub culture but in many other areas too..) We were once the lucky country where the elderly were respected, not we are a country of mediocrity.

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 2:40:56 AM

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I think if one is feeling a sense of loss of interest or excitement in things that previously provided pleasure, then it's more likely that depression or illness may be the cause. The nature of my sexuality and individual identity matures as I grow older, but my need for the elements referred to as BDSM grows and refines rather than diminishing. A sense of hoplessness, restlessness, questioning is more an indication that life needs more meaningful activites in it. Depression feeds itself, and insists on the very torpor which is at the root of the problem. Adding consistent phsyical expercise to life increases endorphines and is a great way to begin. Finding a vareity of creative outlets helps with feelings of disappointment and frustration. Sexual identity and practice may not be the problem here at all. That's merely my opoinion and is undoubtedly barely worth the monitor upon which it was written. You have my sincere hope that You find some enduring happiness and satisfaction. And keep the faith, sex gets better with maturity!

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 3:31:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

my parents are in their 80s. During an ice storm two years ago they lost power for 4 days! Later my mother told me that in order to stay warm they well, her comment was "we hadn't spent so much time in bed together since our honeymoon...it was actually VERY nice!"

LOL That is Awsome to read about. In this day and age, we don't often hear about couples like your parents!

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 4:08:39 AM

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I have begun to wonder if BDSM has a shelf life.
Perhaps for some....it maybe depends on the packaging?

Is there a time when a person is "too old"?
You are as old as the ...................you feel (fill in blank).

What happens when the sexual, physical or mental, excitement no longer matters? Is there a time?
IMHO I think that sexuality is still, on the whole, considred as a straight reproductive function by the many. Now obviously that function has a sell by date and its shelf life determined more or less around the menopause. Ridiculous given that this is a sociobiological, instinctual and gender determinant only.

Where does the realtionship go when physical boundaries take their toll?
The body goes south.....sexuality goes north. To the mind. Anyway it depends on the toll: I got a new finger replacement, hips re-surfaced, new toe joint. work on both shoulder joints, venners and bridges on my teeth, and a vaginal/anal reconsruction. Old mind, new pussy.....plus hormones as well. No face work as yet because my face is still good to go-go. Sex drive and spunk seems to be good for the complexion.

Is a mature single submissive more advised to look for a vanilla relationship to partner her into older age?
It depens on what the mature single submissive wants.....I have been courted here by 20 year olds as well as other oldies lol, and hadv had my older man, toy boy phases. Now I simply see a person not their age.

What's the etiquette or importantly the evidence?
The etiiquette is always reduceable to respect IMHO and if you want to privately email me I can keep you hot for a very long time writing about the quality of my orgasms as I get older.

Prinnie (who is divinely happy in her dotage).
Perversity has a direct relationship with ripeness.

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 12:25:38 PM

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IMO – if the appeal of BDSM lasts more than 2 years, you are stuck with it for life. Seems like on average the rapture wears off after 2 years and the bittersweet flavor sets in. Either you like that bittersweet aspect and you stay or you move on to where the “grass is sweeter”.

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 1:00:36 PM

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At a local event, recently, I met a 72 year old FemDom and 2 of her slaves. She was a font of information, and certainly hadn't outgrown her kink. I plan on retaining my kink through my life. I believe your "shelf life" only expires when you decide that it has.

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 1:10:13 PM

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At a local event, recently, I met a 72 year old FemDom

This brought to mind a story I heard recently.

A guy was working the registration table at a BDSM workshop when a sweet little old lady arrived. He gently told her that the garden club was meeting in the next room down.

"Well, that's very interesting, young man," she answered, "but is this the BDSM workshop."

A trifle chagrined, he said yes, it was. "Well, then," she answered sweetly, "I think I'll come on in."

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RE: Shelf life - 7/5/2008 6:50:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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IMO – if the appeal of BDSM lasts more than 2 years, you are stuck with it for life. Seems like on average the rapture wears off after 2 years and the bittersweet flavor sets in. Either you like that bittersweet aspect and you stay or you move on to where the “grass is sweeter”.

I like that salty one......

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