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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:26:36 PM   
softness


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Cali....yanno I love you, but I gotta go with Mike on this one....LOL


Maybe they're BOTH right?



could be, but I cant imagine it would be easy to wank while in the library..although that COULD explain  the hours time - kept getting interrupted,...



you wouldn't believe what I used to get done in the library when I was at university

I mean really .... I used to be a *really* bad girl

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:28:40 PM   
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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:30:20 PM   
softness


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:31:03 PM   
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When we have gone to im they have become all shades of not right for me and sometimes dont get 'you are not right for me.' So yep i have invented any excuse to block and delete.
This is not a tragedy, a disaster or life threatening, move on, get a grip

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:33:40 PM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: softness

*grins* .... one day I will show you the pictures


oooh............... 

*droools in anticipation*


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:35:19 PM   
GreedyTop


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anyone can respond to any post, any thread, in any forum. Deal with it.


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:54:29 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 12:56:52 PM   
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they just want to rant


Pot, kettle.


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:06:38 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Plueeeeeezze.  This is a human thing, not a dom, top, sub, slave, parkavehillbilly deal.
The man had an hour to kill.  He wanted to stroke himself while you chatted.  You didn't help him.
Fear has nothing to do with it.  His being unsure had nothing to do with it.  He had an hour to kill.
The caps should have clued you in.  He was being impatient, not scared.
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ORIGINAL: LadyCharly

With all due respect, I placed this on Ask a submissive/slave not ask a Dominant.... I'd appreciate only submissives and slaves responding, as it is they I seek to hear from. 


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:09:32 PM   
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Look why can't some one just ask a question of sub/slaves without taking it personally or thinking I believe I'm the only one who has experienced this..... We should all know by now that this venue can either be negative or positive and not everyone who posts does so to be offending or malicious. I ask politely that dominants not reply and get questioned as to why? Hmmmm.... not very respectful, as I wouldn't think of doing such a thing!

All I basically wished to know is why small things would be enough to sabotage an exchange in a sub/slaves opinion.... I understand there are people with issues out there, those who love to play games, drama all around, many levels to this Lifestyle, plus a whole lot more. But I respect others wishes, what their comfort level is, each own unique self, limits, others opinions w/o wishing to attack them, plus a whole lot more. And since I don't know everything and enjoy learning, I'd liked to be enlightened as to why or if a sub/slave would stop an exchange over small things was all. What is their take on an exchange as to what is important in making a connection, no more, no less....

I'm not sure why I bothered,  with attacks or negativity prevalent on boards, I couldn't blame a sub/slave bothering with a response for fear of what would come next for them.... 

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:11:12 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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ORIGINAL: softness
Usually the type of person who comes to the board for a rant early on in their time here ... is fairly volatile in their online behaviour.


This is incredibly funny ...

Mss

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:11:48 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: LadyCharly

But I don't expect anything more than those contacting Me are who they claim.


That perhaps, was your first mistake.  Anyone can claim to be anything.  Expecting what you do will only cause you frustration (as has been evidenced so far). 

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So am I too take it that he just wish to rant at any little thing although he was the one who acted interested? Is that how everyone is online?


I have to guess by those two questions that you are new to the internet, yes?  Painting "everyone" with one broad brush will only cause you even more frustration.  There are alot of people who appear mentally stable but are not, who appear to be sincere but are not, who appear to be something but are not.  Such is the internet.  But is "everyone" like that? I would hope that you know the answer to that question is "no."

Cali


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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:17:56 PM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: LadyCharly


Look why can't some one just ask a question of sub/slaves without taking it personally or thinking I believe I'm the only one who has experienced this..... We should all know by now that this venue can either be negative or positive and not everyone who posts does so to be offending or malicious. I ask politely that dominants not reply and get questioned as to why? Hmmmm.... not very respectful, as I wouldn't think of doing such a thing!

All I basically wished to know is why small things would be enough to sabotage an exchange in a sub/slaves opinion.... I understand there are people with issues out there, those who love to play games, drama all around, many levels to this Lifestyle, plus a whole lot more. But I respect others wishes, what their comfort level is, each own unique self, limits, others opinions w/o wishing to attack them, plus a whole lot more. And since I don't know everything and enjoy learning, I'd liked to be enlightened as to why or if a sub/slave would stop an exchange over small things was all. What is their take on an exchange as to what is important in making a connection, no more, no less....

I'm not sure why I bothered,  with attacks or negativity prevalent on boards, I couldn't blame a sub/slave bothering with a response for fear of what would come next for them.... 


Several people HAVE given you responses that are all as equally likely as anything else.  if you look at the posts rather than the orientation of the person POSTING.. you might actually get something out of this.
and frankly, unless I missed something.. I didn't see anyone asking why you didn't want responses from dominants.  speaking for myself, I simply pointed out that you could be (and apparently ARE) missing out on viewpoints that might help answer the question (rant?) you intially posted.

< Message edited by GreedyTop -- 7/6/2008 1:19:00 PM >

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:23:26 PM   
Raechard


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ORIGINAL: softness
was your rant there (or the second half of it) directed towards me? ... or was it just general?

cos like .... Top Gear is on and I wont bother missing the show writing a response if the rant was a generic one


Damn this means I've missed Top Gear.

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:35:23 PM   
softness


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ORIGINAL: Raechard

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ORIGINAL: softness
was your rant there (or the second half of it) directed towards me? ... or was it just general?

cos like .... Top Gear is on and I wont bother missing the show writing a response if the rant was a generic one


Damn this means I've missed Top Gear.


It was a really good one as well

really ... I was almost sick laughing at one point ...one day James May will just chanp and murder the other two ... its why they pre-record it .. in case he beats them to death with a Ford Mondeo live on BBC 2

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:37:48 PM   
Raechard


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Status: offline 		I can see it on I-Player I suppose or I think they repeat it mid week.

I shouldn't really be reading this thread because I'm not a submissive, don't tell the op I snuck in under her security measures.

(edit: tread = thread)

< Message edited by Raechard -- 7/6/2008 1:39:02 PM >

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:40:30 PM   
softness


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ORIGINAL: Raechard

I can see it on I-Player I suppose or I think they repeat it mid week.

I shouldn't really be reading this thread because I'm not a submissive, don't tell the op I snuck in under her security measures.

(edit: tread = thread)


you are a bad person ... but I will keep your secret

only cos you are an Inglisker

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:41:42 PM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: Raechard
I shouldn't really be reading this thread because I'm not a submissive, don't tell the op I snuck in under her security measures.


trespasser!!!!!!!!!!!!  intruder!!!!!!!!!!!

(better now?)


< Message edited by GreedyTop -- 7/6/2008 1:46:01 PM >

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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:44:46 PM   
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RE: sub/slaves sabotage themselves - 7/6/2008 1:45:50 PM   
softness


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: Raechard
I shouldn't really be reading this thread because I'm not a submissive, don't tell the op I snuck in under her security measures.


trespasser!!!!!!!!!!!!  intruder!!!!!!!!!!!



ppsssssssst errr Greedy ... errrrr *coughs*



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