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paulr1980 -> RE: How much does physical appearance matter? (8/9/2008 2:45:03 PM)
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Physical attractiveness matters to me--alot. But while appearances are important, that alone is not enough. It is however usually the first thing you notice in a woman. You have a young, tall, physically fit, busty woman with a gorgeous face enter the room and of course I notice and lust for her. Sorry, but I love that sexy youthfulness and energy that a young woman in her sexual prime brings to the relationship and normally I am not interested in women more than 2 years older than me unless they are very stunning physically. But for real relationship, I want it all from a woman: looks, sex, and brains. I cannot stand a stupid woman, no matter how attractive--unless it is simply for a short-term fling and little talking is involved. The worse though is when you speak to a woman and she has a sultry voice and you have this image of her and hit it off with her off-line and then finally meet her. She is no where near as she descrined herself, a bit heavier than she described and perhaps even older than her age or at least appearing older than her age when she thinks and claims otherwise (my biggest pet peeve with a woman who is not accurate in her description). Alas, sometimes the reality doesn't quite come close to the image and expectation. You cannot deny the visual impact a hot, fit, sexy young woman has on the male psyche. So yes, physical appearance is a HUGE factor. I really cannot be with a woman who is out of shape or a bit flabby, even if it is a little bit here and there or older, say above 31-32--tops. But this physicality is a starting point. For males today, with more women in the population and ever more kinky ones who are into health and fitness (which are big for me) and more educated than before, this is a ripe time for a male submissive to choose the best out there and have it all in terms of looks and personality. For me though it is not an either-or-propostiion. I want it all in the women I date or the women I choose to have relationships with. I absolutely adore a young, fit woman who is both sexy and smart and educated. It is a hot combination with winning traits any man would lust for in that youthful prime of looks, ability, and superior health and sex appeal.
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