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Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:10:12 PM   
Daddystouch


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Status: offline 		Simple enough query: Are there any techniques for creating ruined orgasms in females?

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:13:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		depends on the individual woman, I'd say.  Seriously.  There are things guaranteed to ruin an orgasm for me that are the same things that send some of my friends screaming, crying and shaking over the edge

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:17:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ruining an orgasm for me is punishable by death.

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:18:53 PM   
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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:19:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

depends on the individual woman, I'd say.  Seriously.  There are things guaranteed to ruin an orgasm for me that are the same things that send some of my friends screaming, crying and shaking over the edge


In the words of Samuel L Jackson: Example?

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:21:36 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		yeah; bring them to the edge then deny...

repeat several times over and over.

that's why i have orgasm denial as a hard limit; it makes it build up inside of me so much that IF i manage to have one, it's physically, EXTREMELY painful.

downside to this technique, you may not ever get the opportunity to use it more than once on the same girl, and for good reason

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:24:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Heh, my last (only, so far) sub LOVED orgasm denial. And so did I :D Not the same thing as ruining one though. I'd love to make a girl cum, but for it to be unpleasant/painful/completely unsatisfying and thus infinitely frustrating.


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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:30:51 PM   
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Heh, my last (only, so far) sub LOVED orgasm denial. And so did I :D Not the same thing as ruining one though. I'd love to make a girl cum, but for it to be unpleasant/painful/completely unsatisfying and thus infinitely frustrating.


i don't know how anyone could LOVE orgasm denial, unless of course, they were eventually getting one; as for me, it becomes all of things you mentioned: 'unpleasant/painful/completely unsatisfying and thus, infinetly frustrating.'  of course, i'm not talking about one or two night in a row; i'm talking about two weeks to a month of daily torture and being denied all the time until the one time you decide to take them over the edge and allow it, then it's times like that that ruins it for me.

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:37:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I never denied her for long periods of time. Not long for her anyway. We saw each other every one or two weeks, she was not to cum without permission, but she rarely masturbated to orgasm anyway. She didn't love that as such, but she didn't mind either*.

What she loved was to be brought to the edge and for me to then stop and not let her cum. She then wouldn't cum that day, but probably would the next time I saw her. That I found intensely erotic. Being able to deny her, to frustrate her, and also the way she was so mad at me, but at the same time so happy that I had done it, if that makes sense.

*I am however very interested in female chastity, especially enforced chastity.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm a straight female dom who happens to like girls and be in a man's body...


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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:37:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love to be teased, even over and over again.  However Daddy doesn't refuse me having them, nor does He make them awful for me.  He does make me wait sometimes, brings me to the edge and then says "Not yet" and then counts down, while I struggle to maintain "on edge" status.  That's just hot.  Having them wrecked, painful, or terrible wouldn't be fun and that's just not something He finds entertaining.  *thank goodness*

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:43:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Isn't the most pleasurable moment the period just prior to the orgasm anyway? 

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:48:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddystouch

...snipped...

Sometimes I wonder if I'm a straight female dom who happens to like girls and be in a man's body...



Come again? (sorry, bad pun.)
 
No, seriously, you lost me with that one. I actually did sit here and try to figure it out...
 

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:49:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes there are actually quite a few ways. None are pleasant......my opinion of course. There is a difference between orgasm denial and a ruined orgasm.

While in the throws of fucking and you are having that orgasm and He pulls out. FUCKER! I have put my hand through a wall because this happened to me in the past. This is a ruined orgasm.

blah!

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:55:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		My ex husband did an effective job of it.  It may not have been deliberate though.

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 8:59:57 PM   
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While in the throws of fucking and you are having that orgasm and He pulls out. 


UGH!!!  That's the worst!  I've told Daddy a couple of times when things were insanely hot, "For goodness sake, don't stop!  Just phuk me through it!!!"  He laughs and I'm ready to hurt Him (in a very unsubly way).  lol...

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 9:01:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pompeii

Isn't the most pleasurable moment the period just prior to the orgasm anyway? 


Uhh, lemme think.... NO.

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 9:01:28 PM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		orgasm denial.. love/hate relationship there. something to do with the whole control thing, but ruined orgasms?!?

good way to end up hurt. it implies a casual disregaurd to me, anywho. only time it ever happened to me, i literally as if my soul had been raped. it was done by completely denying me any joyment of the encounter, not to mention i wasnt all keen on the encounter to begin with, but...

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 9:10:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm sure it doesn't work the same way it might for a male.  You'd be best off doing something that would be unpleasurable, regardless of if she was close to orgasming or not if you wanted to make the orgasm an unpleasent experience.

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 9:14:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddystouch

Simple enough query: Are there any techniques for creating ruined orgasms in females?

Beer/smoker's breath, baggy boxers, lousy kissing, and the threat of withholding chocolate.

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RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women - 7/8/2008 9:15:58 PM   
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What she loved was to be brought to the edge and for me to then stop and not let her cum. She then wouldn't cum that day, but probably would the next time I saw her. That I found intensely erotic. Being able to deny her, to frustrate her, and also the way she was so mad at me, but at the same time so happy that I had done it, if that makes sense.


Damn, that would totally piss me off.  Not in a good way either.  I couldn't stay in a relationship that denied me enjoyment of my own body.  Maybe holding me off from, say, morning until afternoon or something, teasing, but I'd eventually be permitted to orgasm.  Being kept me on edge a bit at times is nice.  But a week or two?  ::shudder::

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