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Coupleofwhats -> Porn (7/9/2008 11:11:18 PM)

Lately, I've found myself growing increasingly frustrated by Femdom's pornographic offerings. There's TONS of it out there, to be sure... but nothing I've seen really does it for me. I find that the storylines are usually ridiculous, the actresses look bored AND we spend 99% of the scene zoomed in on her. I want to watch a male sub be tortured, moan lasciviously in pain... not stare at a vulva or watch some dude lick her butt.

And why is everything about hating men? I have yet to find a Femdom clip that involves LIKING the sub. Or even acknowledging the sub as human. (Sooooo over the subhuman slave bit.)

Any suggestions on where to look?





Lynnxz -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:13:57 PM)

Hahaha, same here.

I found a couple on pornhub, but can't find them anymore. :(

It's because femdom porn is made for guys... and apparently the whole buttlicking thing is huge. No fun. Let me bite and cane and jump all over you... now that's entertaining.




AAkasha -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:14:12 PM)

Yes. If you want to see HOT men in bondage and helpless situations, look to m/m sites....
Check out:

www.tieguyuk.com
www.extremeboyz.com
www.bondagejeopardy.com

Have fun!
Akasha




Leatherist -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:14:19 PM)

No real idea. But it tends to focus on the female sterotype in any case.
 
I guess it's more that the audience is conditioned to expct this sort of thing-and site owners worry they will not make it if they take any risks?




SurrenderForMe -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:17:12 PM)

It is like any porn, you go through alot of garbage to find something with the right mix.  You might try looking for references on the web or the dvd that say it was made for female viewers.  Most of it is made to cater to male fantasy.




Coupleofwhats -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:19:55 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Yes. If you want to see HOT men in bondage and helpless situations, look to m/m sites....
Check out:

www.tieguyuk.com
www.extremeboyz.com
www.bondagejeopardy.com

Have fun!
Akasha



I actually tried the m/m stuff... I'm not good at getting off to gay porn. Maybe I need to quasi-identify with the domme. (And then I need her to step out of frame for a frickin' second!) But thanks anyway!




AAkasha -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:21:24 PM)


Or you can also look at selected music videos :)

Calling all Cars:  http://youtube.com/watch?v=SN-t_mA0pjU
NIN closer: http://youtube.com/watch?v=QWncI51ggH8
How deep is your love: http://youtube.com/watch?v=cjuRVFMkf0I

or, freaking *hot* Hungarian escape artists: http://youtube.com/watch?v=hI62okeoiBA&feature=user



Enjoy!

Akasha




RedMagic1 -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:22:21 PM)

Akasha, what's the status of your femdom-for-women video project?




Coupleofwhats -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:23:36 PM)

Trent Reznor in the rubber gloves and chains was my wallpaper for a loooooong time!

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Or you can also look at selected music videos :)

Calling all Cars: http://youtube.com/watch?v=SN-t_mA0pjU
NIN closer: http://youtube.com/watch?v=QWncI51ggH8
How deep is your love: http://youtube.com/watch?v=cjuRVFMkf0I

or, freaking *hot* Hungarian escape artists: http://youtube.com/watch?v=hI62okeoiBA&feature=user



Enjoy!

Akasha






AAkasha -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:27:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Akasha, what's the status of your femdom-for-women video project?


2009 probably.  I am distracted by the prospect of sending a male subject of mine to see a very expensive pro for multiple sessions while I watch and/or video tape for my own personal collection.  I can only have one production-pet-project at a time, hehehe. I also need a huge chunk of money and need to wait to get paid on a few bigger projects.  I've talked to a couple of directors tho.

Akasha




AAkasha -> RE: Porn (7/9/2008 11:29:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats


quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Yes. If you want to see HOT men in bondage and helpless situations, look to m/m sites....
Check out:

www.tieguyuk.com
www.extremeboyz.com
www.bondagejeopardy.com

Have fun!
Akasha



I actually tried the m/m stuff... I'm not good at getting off to gay porn. Maybe I need to quasi-identify with the domme. (And then I need her to step out of frame for a frickin' second!) But thanks anyway!



Some m/m porn (check out tieguyuk, for example) really isn't about m/m topping, more it's about *male helplessness* - so you can project your own fantasy really into the imagery...at least that's what I do :) 

Akasha




AAkasha -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 12:09:38 AM)



Ooh I forgot to recommend "Punish Me" -- OH MY!

Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTQnwZx9rHw

A few scenes:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7z9PACpJCU&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_SuzLzWPYc&feature=related






rob425 -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 1:09:51 AM)

I am a big fan of MenInPain.com as well as all of Kink.com other websites.
http://free-hardcore.com/




subsubtle -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 4:11:28 AM)

http://www.clips4sale.com/store/5751




malloves69 -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 5:48:02 AM)

punish me was hot until she started slapping ..that was kinda tame i thought ...now if it was a cane or whips that would have been better [:)] also where was her strapon ? [:)] he was the kind of man alot of mistresses would love to have a turn on his ass [:)] ..just my opinion of course ..mal [:)]




thetammyjo -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 5:53:11 AM)

I think the short honest answer to you question as to why the porn you see is the way you describe is this:

Because it's PORN.

Pornography's goal, in my strong opinion, is to do two things: Be a sexual aid and to make money -- the second is more important for most folks creating or producing porn.


If you something that has a good plot, solid characters, and real passion then you need to look for erotica and probably the written versus visual stuff.

If you like written, you should check out my own stuff.






petdave -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 6:19:57 AM)

Try insexm?




Coupleofwhats -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 6:47:27 AM)

My smile... is so big right now!

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha



Ooh I forgot to recommend "Punish Me" -- OH MY!

Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTQnwZx9rHw

A few scenes:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7z9PACpJCU&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_SuzLzWPYc&feature=related








Coupleofwhats -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 6:51:28 AM)

But you'd think that if they made BETTER porn, they could sell more of it! I'd buy it!

I have tried a bit of the erotica stuff: so far, it's been too nice. I want real ferocity! They seem to ready to sacrifice intensity.


quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

I think the short honest answer to you question as to why the porn you see is the way you describe is this:

Because it's PORN.

Pornography's goal, in my strong opinion, is to do two things: Be a sexual aid and to make money -- the second is more important for most folks creating or producing porn.


If you something that has a good plot, solid characters, and real passion then you need to look for erotica and probably the written versus visual stuff.

If you like written, you should check out my own stuff.








Coupleofwhats -> RE: Porn (7/10/2008 6:54:22 AM)

Those are the two sites I'm complaining about!


quote:

ORIGINAL: rob425

I am a big fan of MenInPain.com as well as all of Kink.com other websites.
http://free-hardcore.com/





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