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cravesdom -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 7:24:51 AM)
Only with a Dom who liked to make me cum on command with no stimulation at all. Doesn't work for me.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 7:33:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst I have faked it for people who think they can get me to cum when they want me to. By that time I pretty much want to do anything to get that guy to stop thinking he can pull my strings. While they have been on the dominant side, they were not men with whom I felt any love. Kyst i should have done that. The whole "cumming on command" thing has become an obsession for some of these guys. i've never been able to do it. Maybe it is a mental block....but if a Dom i've been with for three years hasn't unlocked it...how the hell do you think it'll happen on a 2nd date? Sheesh!!!! i usually have the opposite problem. i cum and the poor shlub misses it. There's juice everywhere, my cunt is flexing...but usually my volume actually decreases at the moment of "the little death". So if the loud "omigodomigod" crescendo is what signals an orgasm to some people, i guess i understand how it's missed. i love it when a guy knows i'm cumming...it proves he's really into my body, and not a fan of theatrics. i have a loud buildup...and a ladylike[;)] orgasm. ~emily post slut

KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 7:41:44 AM)
I've faked to the point where I got bored with the faking, zoned out, and then realized I hadnt made noise for a little while and ramped it back up. Oh, and there was the one guy that bored me soo much I was trying to remember all the elements on the periodic table...And sadly, it seems with the new guy faking is the only thing that will get'r'done. I cant stand a guy who doesnt understand the art of the build up. You cant just make a car go, ya gotta warm it up, ya know?

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 7:55:14 AM)
FR I don't see the incentive to faking it. I'm never going to get closer to an orgasm if I do -- I'm probably going to get further from it. Why would I want to do that? However, I do remember one time where I was with a casual play partner and things had emotionally tailed off between us and therefore I wasn't very aroused. He was fucking away, not doing a thing for me, and I had an almost irresistable urge to say, "could you just finish it off and leave now?" I contemplated faking it, but decided that it would be offensive to reward bad behavior. It's funny, on that day he thought I was a cold, bad fuck, but didn't realize that he wasn't pushing my buttons, either. Mss

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 7:59:16 AM)
Yes, its so much more polite then,"will you finish already? I am just soooo bored!"

angelikaJ -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 8:00:32 AM)
FR: if pleasure is the goal and not the orgasm then there is no need to fake it... so my question is why is there all this focus on having one...it sets things up to fail if that is the goal and one does not cum.... and focusing on having one can make it that much more elusive... .

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 8:02:33 AM)
smiling I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or for real ... It's not very Miss Manners of me, but if someone is "impolite" enough to not be able to read my cues or listen to my suggestions, my sense of consideration tails right off. Mss

lronitulstahp -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 8:06:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx I've faked to the point where I got bored with the faking, zoned out, and then realized I hadnt made noise for a little while and ramped it back up. So you're the gary bussey of orgasm fakers?Nice!!! Oh, and there was the one guy that bored me soo much I was trying to remember all the elements on the periodic table... Just out of curiosity, how far did you get....selenium? And sadly, it seems with the new guy faking is the only thing that will get'r'done. You're fucking Larry the Cable Guy???HAWT! I cant stand a guy who doesnt understand the art of the build up. You cant just make a car go, ya gotta warm it up, ya know? Don't i know it!!! And btw, glad to see ya sweetie...

lronitulstahp -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 8:09:39 AM)
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KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 8:09:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp quote: ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx I've faked to the point where I got bored with the faking, zoned out, and then realized I hadnt made noise for a little while and ramped it back up. So you're the gary bussey of orgasm fakers?Nice!!! Oh, and there was the one guy that bored me soo much I was trying to remember all the elements on the periodic table... Just out of curiosity, how far did you get....selenium? And sadly, it seems with the new guy faking is the only thing that will get'r'done. You're fucking Larry the Cable Guy???HAWT! I cant stand a guy who doesnt understand the art of the build up. You cant just make a car go, ya gotta warm it up, ya know? Don't i know it!!! And btw, glad to see ya sweetie... Lol...I think I got as far as silver. Luckily my cell phone rang...And I DEFINITELY wish I was doin Larry The Cable Guy. Hes kinda cute. Good to see you too!

DarkSteven -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 8:13:22 AM)
So all submissives have a thing for Larry? /puts on flannel shirt and jeans/

mistoferin -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 9:40:28 AM)
I've never faked it and actually I don't even understand how such a thing is even possible. There must be some really naive guys out there. There are lots of things that happen during an orgasm...and yeah I have heard women say that all of those things can be faked....but I don't have a clue how they do it. I don't understand why anyone would WANT to fake an orgasm either. I would prefer they know I didn't....and keep trying in that case[;)]. I also see faking an orgasm as being dishonest. If I had a partner who faked an orgasm I would feel hurt by that and lied to.

naturalsin -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 9:47:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissIsis D/s or not, of course. Is there really anyone who hasn't? Faking orgasms prevents hurt feelings. Of course, if faking them is always what one has to do, it is probably time to come clean, &/or get out. Yeah....what MissIsis said! [sm=gaah.gif] i faked it with my ex husband (vanilla) a few times....

NeedingMore220 -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:05:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp the poor shlub misses it. There's juice everywhere, my cunt is flexing...but usually my volume actually decreases at the moment of "the little death". So if the loud "omigodomigod" crescendo is what signals an orgasm to some people, i guess i understand how it's missed. i love it when a guy knows i'm cumming...it proves he's really into my body, and not a fan of theatrics. i have a loud buildup...and a ladylike[;)] orgasm. ~emily post slut ROFL!! emily post slut ... tee hee

NeedingMore220 -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:08:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin There must be some really naive guys out there. Ding, ding, ding! Yep, there are. And a lot of times those naive guys out there have huge egos and can't understand how it is they didn't make their partner cum and cum ... without having the first clue how to go about it. Very sad...

mistoferin -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:13:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NeedingMore220 Ding, ding, ding! Yep, there are. And a lot of times those naive guys out there have huge egos and can't understand how it is they didn't make their partner cum and cum ... without having the first clue how to go about it. Very sad... Very true. But women play a huge role in this too. Instead of faking orgasms I would think that educating them about the "hows" would be a much better solution. You're right, many men have no idea how to make a woman cum....and no one has ever showed them. Women have a responsibility in their sexual fulfillment too and men have no idea how things feel unless we tell them. As long as you are moaning in ecstasy...most men are going to think that all is well and if all is well, why bother to try to learn or change? Women are often too embarassed to REALLY tell their partners what pleases them or how.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:16:13 AM)
Nope. And I can honestly say at this point in my life, I never would. I believe in honesty and saying, this isn't working and I'm not going to get there at this time. And I wouldn't be with someone who wouldn't accept that answer, and kept trying or prooving I can, when I've called done. quote: ORIGINAL: chamberqueen Ok, I've heard from people who know exactly what an orgasm is. Has anyone ever faked one to please their Dom/Master?

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:19:28 AM)
uh yeah, there is. I've never faked an orgasm, and if someone's feelings are so sensitive they get hurt cause I didn't cum, well then they need to grow a bit tougher skin an suck it up. quote: ORIGINAL: MissIsis D/s or not, of course. Is there really anyone who hasn't? Faking orgasms prevents hurt feelings. Of course, if faking them is always what one has to do, it is probably time to come clean, &/or get out.

Missokyst -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:31:24 AM)
I think don't think its embarrassment. I just don't think they are paying attention. If someone does not know how to sing the ABC song after hearing it a few times and still recites it as "elemenopee", is it really our responsibility to teach him? Sometimes you just want to move on in what ever way is the most expedient. Guys can fake it too, for the same reasons. Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Very true. But women play a huge role in this too. Instead of faking orgasms I would think that educating them about the "hows" would be a much better solution. You're right, many men have no idea how to make a woman cum....and no one has ever showed them.

puppen -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/12/2008 10:33:57 AM)
I used to! [:D] Now I realize it was a good thing I was with a virgin so long, he had no idea. [:-]

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