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lally3 -> RE: playing hard to get.. (7/12/2008 4:01:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: lally3 ok.. in a vanilla relationship sex might feature quite early, and thats that, fine, cool, whatever - but in a D/s relationship it does go deeper than that. the submissive emotions run deeper than just sex, I had no idea vanilla women were so motivated by their crotch instead of by emotional connection that is deeper than sex. well i know quite a few who are and then again, quite a few who arent. but whether they do or they dont isnt really the issue -[sm=runaway.gif] on a first stage basis between two non D/s, trust is not as pivotal as it is between two people who are D/s and yet, quite often, but not always a non D/s couple can take weeks before they engage in sex and emotions may or may not be that intense. have i been ambiguous enough.. lol[sm=lol.gif]

lally3 -> RE: playing hard to get.. (7/12/2008 4:06:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie fisty cuffs - that's cute. I'm not upset at all. I surely hope you're not, either. no, not at all either.. glad youre not.[:)] - had to pinch youre smiley man, cos i cant find one of my own... lol!!

sweetwenchie -> RE: playing hard to get.. (7/12/2008 4:58:20 PM)
Personally, i would think that the "prize" element would have more to do with the relationship and the connection between the people involved than in the length of time one was made to pursue the other. i've never been good at playing hard to get, nor at playing easy to get. The reality is i am not good at playing at anything, what i'm best at, is being myself. With the right person, i hope i would be considered enough of a prize, whether or not there was a time frame placed on my "giving in". [:)] i think games should be left to kids on the playground. [8\|]

candystripper -> RE: playing hard to get.. (7/12/2008 5:42:37 PM)
lally, I agree that rushing headlong into a relationship deprives both parties of the chance to get to know each other, see if they fit, see if they want to be together longer. candystripper

DesFIP -> RE: playing hard to get.. (7/12/2008 7:03:44 PM)
No, if he's so immature that he can't recognize my value unless I play games, then I don't want to be with him. The Man had five years without anybody because he couldn't find anyone compatible in all necessary ways. That was enough for him of hard to get. not a game but life imposed.

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