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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 2:33:43 AM

LostMyself

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

If you are dyslexic, use Word or Notepad and run spell check before you copy/paste into your profile. And dyslexia does not excuse 'ur' for you're' or 'your'. That's deliberate and kind of silly.

candystripper

Or you can right click in the text area and have your browser do it for you.. firefox just puts a red line under every word I spell wrong. (and under not-quite-words like firefox)

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 9:00:42 AM

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To the OP:

Looking for the perfect sub. le sigh.

I walked into the room, and there he stood. Confident, strong, self assured. He talked to a friend, a man, and gave his whole attention to the friend. He didn't look away just because I walked in. When the moment was right, he turned, smiled and continued the conversation. It was the timing that got me. Absolute focus in that moment. And when he talked to me, I felt that focus warming me. He talked of the hobbies that gave him pleasure, his work that he enjoyed, the house he was making a home, the ways he tried to better himself. And I wanted to talk more with him. "Just a bit more," I thought but time constraints wouldn't allow it.

A walk in the park a few days later where I shot photos of the roses in bloom and an occasional one of him, the wind in his hair. He sat playing the guitar and when I shot him, he didn't hide from the camera. Neither did he pose. He just was himself. And in being that, he inspired my creative side. I wanted him to like the photos I took - of him, of the flowers, of the little cardinal we saw. And then when he suggested something to drink I agreed and smiled softly.
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I'm still looking for this guy....(points up) See, this is my ideal... but others have their ways of looking at things. The most important thing is - be yourself. It only takes one... but the right one is worth waiting for. This guy up there, he isn't the right one for others, but maybe for me. *shrugs.

good luck (and sorry for kind of taking over your thread with my harlequin romance... I just... well, you inspired me. Thank you).

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 12:22:33 PM

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im glad i inspired someone, and im sorry if i offended anyone with this thread my greatest appolagies!

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 12:25:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
$50.00 for willful disobedience
$25.00 for listing cock sucking as a hard limit.....i'm so confused! If she's a perfect sub...what possible fine-worthy infractions could she commit?
~almost perfect sub
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btw OP, on a serious note....perfect subs don't exist....through training and experience you may forge a nearly perfect relationship. But if you pick up a sub who already claims to be perfect...

$75.00 … for an oversized load . It is the beautiful and bodacious bewbage fine… because you are supposed to tie a red flag on an oversized load like, you cutie you!

...just saying!

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 12:33:48 PM

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Who me????

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 12:38:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
Who me????

Yes YOU and your two friends.
$100.00 for being overly modest about your own beauty and sex appeal and being so humble about having such a nice pair of puppies!

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ORIGINAL: devilmaster01
im glad i inspired someone, and im sorry if i offended anyone with this thread my greatest appolagies!

Hey bro… because your type-o in the subject remained grammatically correct but gave your post a different meaning, some people with a sense of humor are gonna’ play with you because of it.

Also, you are new to this and seeking a “perfect sub” online which leads to semantic interpretations and all the BS that comes spewing out of any online community over such opportunities. They are gonna’ toy with you because of it.

To avoid “dropping troll bait” in your future posts, you might have cleaned this post up with a spell checker and made your comment more general like:
How did you meet your submissive? Was it online or in person?

I see you apologizing… don’t bother, the vultures will eat you anyways. Just don’t let this sway you from this community, seeking contacts within it or making future posts. There are a lot nice people here and many of us hook up in real life. Keep plugging at it, you'll get the swing of things in time.

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 12:42:48 PM

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My first impulse is to say let the punishment fit the crime- no greater fine than $ 10,000.

Being serious, NO slave is perfect.!

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 4:35:47 PM

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I propose a fine of 38DD.

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 6:01:37 PM

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I'd be happy with 36C

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/13/2008 6:24:15 PM

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why does living with your parents stop you from real time? If you wanted to date vanilla women would you restrict them to online? Just because we are sub/slave doesn't mean that we would shock your parents if you wanted to introduce us. There may be none in your area, but you don't know. The girl next door may be a lurker on this site just looking for someone to partner with.

I think you are restricting yourself unnecessarily with the only online relationships bit.

and by the way - i am the perfect sub/slave - just ask me!

the rest? - well, you would have to work at it a bit. *grins*

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/14/2008 12:09:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: cillydom
smack her with a rolled up newspaper and say " bad subbie,bad subbie" untill she gets it right

Actually, that sounds like fun. *looks around for newspaper*

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/14/2008 4:19:56 AM

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For the sake of asking, You guys in the US don't have school holidays around the same time we Aussies do, do you? because this is the sort of thing I normally see on my personal forums each time the school holidays come around (like at present).

No flaming intended there, just curiosity...

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/14/2008 5:46:14 AM

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/16/2008 3:26:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

what does the OP expect, you put in an order form and she's delivered to your door?

WHAT! But this guy in China said if I just sent him $2500, I'd get my perfect sub in 2 months?

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/16/2008 3:48:41 PM

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To socialperversion

Meeting on CM doesn't make us not sub, Dom or anything else.

You found your partner your way, some of us took a diferent route. Neither is right or wrong, its what works for the individuals involved.

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/16/2008 5:32:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: devilmaster01

im glad i inspired someone, and im sorry if i offended anyone with this thread my greatest appolagies!

probly only the peple that tol du how to spellchecker things lol

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/16/2008 5:34:30 PM

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Only if you'll buy me a few of their breakfast western sub sandwhiches.

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I have a subway around the corner, does that count?

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/16/2008 10:14:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I'd be happy with 36C

You called?

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/16/2008 10:37:40 PM

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lol

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RE: how to fine your perfect sub - 7/18/2008 9:56:23 AM

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Basically guy, the whole truth is that it's a game. People are going to hoot and holler and scream about how it's their stupid lifestyle that they didn't pick and it picked them, but realistically you just need to find a girl who is sexually aroused by feeling oppressed. It's usually either purely sexual, or the girl has some horrible skeleton in her closet that makes her feel like you're all she can get, or she has some complex of needing to feel protected, and thinks that if you care about her enough to call yourself a "Dom" and capitalize the M in Me on a bondage website and handcuff the broad to your bed that you're going to protect and provide for her forever.

As far as whether or not you're a Master or a Dom or a fuckin Padawan, that's all a huge crock of BS that really doesn't matter. Just roll with it and have fun.

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