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thegiftofoneself -> As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 5:26:20 AM)

I have had periods of from a day to a week only, but have a strong desire for to be so kept permenantly. I am awere of the potential dangers and pitfalls. We each have our particular liestyle choiuce and reason for that choice. Have any of you been held captive for prolonged periods or wanted to be so held for life and have any of yoo desired to keep someone in restrined captivity. I hope that I am not alone in this desire! 



pompeii -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 5:38:06 AM)

Isn't that the same as a 24/7 situation? Or do you mean by "held captive" to be in restraints or a dungeon cell for that entire period?



shivermetimbers -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 5:41:33 AM)

Could you expound on what you mean by restrained captivity? 



mistoferin -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 6:34:09 AM)

I was married for 11 years, is that long enough? [:D]



Leatherist -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 6:56:32 AM)

A bit too vague, elaborate.



CruelDesires -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 7:02:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: thegiftofoneself

I have had periods of from a day to a week only, but have a strong desire for to be so kept permenantly. I am awere of the potential dangers and pitfalls. We each have our particular liestyle choiuce and reason for that choice. Have any of you been held captive for prolonged periods or wanted to be so held for life and have any of yoo desired to keep someone in restrined captivity. I hope that I am not alone in this desire! 


Most people being held "captive" for life do not have Internet access. They usually don't allow that when you are in a federal penitentiary. On a more serious note... Why would I want to have to feed and cage you on my time? Just so you can live out your fantasy? What does the jailer get out of it?  
CD



chiaThePet -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 7:17:41 AM)

Well, there's this hunky plumber down in the basement right now and I might just....

The closet thing I can think of is one time when I was in the "Ask A Mistress"
section following a thread titled "I'm A Sissy Maid Who Loves To Tribute BBW",
my mouse stopped working.

click    click    click    clllllick    clllllllllick    CLIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIK

chia* (the pet)



ExSteelAgain -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 7:21:52 AM)

I can believe you have that desire. Some prisoners develop an affinity for being in prison. They become institutionalized as they say and when they get out will do stupid things so they can be sent back. It is home to them. It has been written about extensively.



christine1 -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 7:29:26 AM)

 i think for a day or two of being tied up and used at His whim would be fabulous.  or maybe a kidnapping scenario where you are taken away for a weekend and locked away for some kinky fun would be great as well.  i'm not sure it would be practical to be "kept" or inprisoned in a basement or dungeon for a whole lifetime, even if your partner had the same fantasy.



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 8:53:26 AM)

It's a favorite fantasy of mine.  But, a fantasy is all it is, and I think, all it can be.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 8:59:45 AM)

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Some prisoners develop an affinity for being in prison.


prison life can be far better than normal life these days in some cases.  for instance, in prison you get 3 meals a day, television, internet, and friendship and the occassional visitor....  your never alone. although there will never be the opposite sex around...you dont have to pay one dime for any of this either.

so yes some inmates want to go back...



Missokyst -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 9:31:00 AM)

I was married to a jerk I didn't love for 7 yrs, does that count?



opposingtwilight -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 9:44:29 AM)

Yes, long-term captivity is also a fantasy of mine and yes I was permitted to act upon it to a certain degree. I won't go into details because I've no interest in appearing in your next masturbation session, however I will say that it is something that changes you. Or at least, it changed me somewhat. Neither a good nor bad thing in my case but something to be aware of before you actually try to go for it yourself.

As for what the captor gets from the experience; I imagine its the same thing that any dominant gets when someone submits to them and becomes a willing victim.



DesFIP -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 9:48:17 AM)

I have heard of a woman who was kept in the basement when her owner wasn't home. And then came the time where he didn't come home for several days and she was resigned to death. Apparently he had a heart attack and the one person who knew she was there was out of town at the time.

Which points out the dangers of such a happening. What if the friend and owner had both been killed in a car accident instead? I also don't know if he made any provisions for her future or how she acclimated to taking care of herself in the future.

Myself? I have a tendency towards agrophobia as is, if I had spent several years never going out alone I doubt I would be able to manage afterwards.



DragonEros58 -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 9:58:30 AM)

" Be careful not to tread through Life so carefully......that you arrive at Deaths door.......safely.



softness -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 10:20:06 AM)

Personally I find captivity wildly hot ... short/medium/long term ... all have their own appeal.

I have spent time literally chained to the kitchen sink ... 6 foot length of chain - enough for free movement around the kitchen ... that was a dull weekend. This kind of captivity play is fairly low key and the fall out from it is going to be minimal I would imagine.

Am now lost in a world of basements, high intensity floodlighting, hose pipes, chemical brainwashing, ... *shifts in chair* ... right peeps ... I'm going for a little nap



ownedgirlie -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 10:30:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I was married for 11 years, is that long enough? [:D]



I should have left after 11.  I waited until 17.  Ugh.

With Mr. Wonderful, I have been "stored" in various places while he was out - the bathroom floor between the toilet and tub, under the desk, the closet...I wouldn't call it being held captive, though, just "put away" for a few hours.  Once I was stored in a position where I couldn't move at all for 3 hours.  Talk about muscle cramping.  Aside from some of the discomfort that comes from positions he puts me in, I love being stored away.  Not sure that qualifies to answer the OP, though.



ViceVersa -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 10:42:17 AM)

Apparently, there's an opportunity for such captivity out there. A friend of mine shared this link with me:

Isolation Cell




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 10:58:27 AM)

Well there are these things called jails- plenty of crimes you could commit that don't directly harm anyone and get you put there for awhile.

When you go beyond a weekend or a week, you really are talking about a tremendous amount of resources and support in an ongoing basis.  I'm not saying it's impossible, just that you're really going to need to find someone who feels you're really special to put all that time and energy into just keeping you locked away all the time and offering no other support and assistance in their lives.



OnlyMels -> RE: As anyone here ever subjected a person to or been a long term captive in a consensual situation. (7/13/2008 11:19:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

Some prisoners develop an affinity for being in prison.


prison life can be far better than normal life these days in some cases.  for instance, in prison you get 3 meals a day, television, internet, and friendship and the occassional visitor....  your never alone. although there will never be the opposite sex around...you dont have to pay one dime for any of this either.

so yes some inmates want to go back...



Yeah three disgusting meals. I know someone who spent a year in jail and he lost so much weight. He said the food was so bad all he could eat was bread. And the snacks like chips and candy you do have to pay for. Its the same for soap deodorant toothpaste tooth brush. gotta pay for all of it. And no internet at least not where he was. One tv that they had no control over that was up to loud 24 hours a day.
( Wanted to throw some prison facts in the mix)



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