Termyn8or -> RE: Helping her deal with the aftermath of a violent rape (7/14/2008 12:55:27 PM)
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OTK that is about the best I've seen so far. You are a strong writer and have a way of expressing things, other than that I would suggest you capitalize your sentences. You are right, this does not happen overnight. What I said about pushing is right. Getting ready to get past it is the whole battle. It is then when you can see the future. Once you see the future and want the future, you got it licked. Or you can be stuck in the past. And about Women being wired differently, I could write a treatise on that spanning hundreds of pages. But we all do have certain things in common. Future/past, the two are seperated by the present. It could be worse ? I think we have now seen that "tried to poke my eyes out". How about some hypothetical situations ? Cut off arms and legs, beheaded, sodomized with a pipe wrench, the wrong way so that it kills you. I don't care how bad it was, there is still perspective. Your own buddy in the government let a girl drown to death a long time ago. Try that. (Kennedy/Chapaquidick). And some dumb motherfuckers still elected him ! Whaddya think of that ? Fucking people are animals, and alot of them need to be put down. It is not a matter of hate, consider it like a cancer operation, removing a tumor. You see FIRST hand what these animals do to people. I say get over it, and I know it is not easy. If you had been raised like I was you would not find it as difficult, but the thing is you are not required to have that kind of attitude to live in our society. You are not required to be strong and close to immortal, nor emotionally strong. All you have to do is make your own way in life and do not hurt others. Rape is almost always premeditiated, and happens because of two things, the animal cannot get sex, and has no constraints on his actions from any type of morality. By definition THAT IS AN ANIMAL. Human life is precious, but life in general is not. All we have to do is realize what the definition of human is. The OP's friend, I would hold her hand, and hold her, let her feel strength, and I don't mean physical strength. How I would handle it would depend on her actions and words. I know I could help at least a little. The time would come for her to put it in perspective of course. Then the hate for her assailants must be extinguished, that is essential. If I got my hands on her assailants though it would go different for them. They come in, but they don't come out. We have enough assholes on this planet. Fukum. I wrote a book and in it I outlined a punishment for rapists that would happen if death was not warranted, although I am having trouble seeing when that is exactly. OP, show her this whole thread. Even the dissenting opinions. Let her make her own decision as to how to handle this. And you must somehow get this done without pushing her. But at this stage of the game I can do nothing more, because opinions are abound. In private maybe, but not out here. There needs to be a central core, a discussion on one topic and one topic only. If you want to play therapist, a one track mind can come in handy. Yes I am a sociopath, and a few other things, but I know what I am doing. And puppen, if you were my sister you would either have a gun and know how to use it, or be protected. And that is something to consider, some people just need to be protected. The house is locked, never go anywhere without your Man. That is what would happen if not after the first time, most fucking certainly after the second time. And if it was the same animal, there would be no possibility for a third time. And if you were family they would die after the first time, which brings up another point. Are the families in this country so disrupted that nobody has a brother, male cousin, a Father or an Uncle who has any fucking balls ? If my sister got raped I'd bet my seventy year old Uncle would come up from FL with guns. Where is the family ? That is something I do not understand, but then I have to realize that we are different. We NEVER call the police. We take care of our own problems. Of course a car wreck or things like that, there is a police report. But when it comes to an assault, we don't need a phone at all. I must remember that other people are not like this. Some people have nobody to turn to. Some people were in such a bad situation at home they had to leave way before they were ready, some people were abused or neglected. They were half destroyed when they hit the streets, and their Parents should be killed for that. Yes I said it. So where does it end ? Kill the rapists, kill the dregs who spawned children and abused or neglected them ? I say yes. Get this country back down to eighty million so we have some fucking leibensvroom. That is how Hitler got into power and folks, and the same damn thing is happening here. Watch and see. Notice one thing about the Nazis though. Of all the atrocities they committed, not once did you ever hear of any captive being raped, not fucking once. Bolshevics did it, allies did it, but not them, why ? It is because they were Men, not animals. And you know what, all you people who can't handle the fact that Nazis did not rape, and want to call me a Nazi or antiSemitic, go fuck yourself. They did not do it. And what kind of people in our society do it ? Fucking give me a break. If the facts hurt, hit the back button on your browser and read something else. They were not perfect, but we are worse. Before they legalized torture maybe we were, but not anymore, so I simply do not want to hear it. You have no standing. In relations with a Woman, I have said and always meant that it was not good enough to be allowed, that if I was not wanted, forget it. Now compare this to a person, wait an animal, that just needs a piece of ass. I do not want these people on my planet. Our planet. Reality is upon us folks, time to wake up. Discard all your notions about love thy neighbor and shit, get real. I like people, animals I can do without. I don't even have a cat. No interest in it. Get rid of all the bullshit morality shoved down your thoats since you were little and get down to what works. What works in a society is that everybody contributed in some way, not necessarily money. And when people go rogue and steal and cheat kill them. No feelings, no remorse. And the rapists, kill them. I am tired of my tax money supporting these animals. There is a steep hill at the end of my street, bring the bodies. Fuck them, they are worthless garbage. OP, tell your friend that as well. Show them the whole thread in fact. Alot of good opinions got expressed, I just tried to take it to a new level. As a Domme, her attitude should be that her assailants were not good enough to get her attention. Get the attitude back. T
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