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Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 7:05:24 PM   
L8bloomer


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Status: offline 		Maybe I should have posted this in the off topic forum.

Regarding cunnilingus, I would just as soon leave it as take it. So ladies...have any of you not enjoyed having it performed on you and then, at some point, turned into a convert? I just don't see it happening with me, but then again, never say never. :)


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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 7:16:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've only not enjoyed it when the guy didn't have a clue about the female anatomy.  That's when I had to subtly 'change the subject' so to speak otherwise I'd have torn his hair out to get him away from me, it was so annoying.  lol 

Otherwise, it's all good and occasionally fan-freaking-tastic.  

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 7:25:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I doubt many people, let alone men, know much about the female anatomy. The clitoris is much larger and more extensive than most people know.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 7:31:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		for a long time, I was very much on the fence about receiving.  I'm ultra-super-sensitive when it comes to oral, I orgasm quickly, intensely and repeatedly, so much so that it was not in the least bit fun for me.  once I was able to understand what my problem was and how to communicate it to him, he changed his technique at bit, and that made it waaaaay more enjoyable for me.  there are still things I would rather do, but at least now there are times when I look forward to it too.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 7:33:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		never liked receiving it.  it brings up memories and feelings i would rather never experience again, so i avoid it completely.
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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 7:45:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never liked it.  It seems more like a punishment to me than anything that might be pleasurable.  Either I never met anyone who knew what they were doing, or I am just hard wired for penitrative sex.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:04:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: L8bloomer

Maybe I should have posted this in the off topic forum.

Regarding cunnilingus, I would just as soon leave it as take it. So ladies...have any of you not enjoyed having it performed on you and then, at some point, turned into a convert? I just don't see it happening with me, but then again, never say never. :)



If a woman doesn't enjoy it.. its not being done correctly

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:08:19 PM   
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I've only not enjoyed it when the guy didn't have a clue about the female anatomy.  That's when I had to subtly 'change the subject' so to speak otherwise I'd have torn his hair out to get him away from me, it was so annoying.  lol 
Otherwise, it's all good and occasionally fan-freaking-tastic.  

What she said. If the guy is clueless and won't take a hint (or 50) it's annoying. Done right, well, that's another matter!


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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:13:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't enjoy it actually. I never have. I don't think it's a matter of technique, rather than a matter of me not being comfortable with a man having such an up close view of me. I tense up and find myself trying to hurry him along so I can quit thinking "omg I look fat my thighs are so huge i bet they're jiggling omg my ass cheeks are probably taking up so much room what does my stomach look like from down there..."

you get the picture.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:16:54 PM   
SeaDogret


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Status: offline 		Well, I enjoy preforming oral upon a lady, i was fortunate to have a lady years ago, who didn't like way I was doing oral on her,  educate me in proper ways, haven't had a complaint since, had many repeat requests for more , important guys to learn female anatomy and enjoy

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:19:18 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Ummm yeah...fan of it here.  Big fan.

My non-pc advice to learn to enjoy it (if you don't and want to) is to smoke a joint, lay back and relax.  You only need to be stoned once or twice to feel the headspace that you need to be in. 

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:21:35 PM   
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Ummm yeah...fan of it here.  Big fan.

My non-pc advice to learn to enjoy it is to smoke a joint, lay back and relax.  You only need to be stoned once or twice to feel the headspace that you need to be in. 


Yeah.  I'm one of those women who turn the lights off and dive for the covers. *smirks* I'd need a pound to get me relaxed enough.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:23:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: patwi

I don't enjoy it actually. I never have. I don't think it's a matter of technique, rather than a matter of me not being comfortable with a man having such an up close view of me. I tense up and find myself trying to hurry him along so I can quit thinking "omg I look fat my thighs are so huge i bet they're jiggling omg my ass cheeks are probably taking up so much room what does my stomach look like from down there..."


I understand your insecurities, but I bet there are very few men who are thinking those kinds of things when he's between your thighs trying to please you and enjoying you.  Self-acceptance can make the difference between so/so sex to smokin' hot sex.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:25:51 PM   
patwi


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ORIGINAL: NeedingMore220

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ORIGINAL: patwi

I don't enjoy it actually. I never have. I don't think it's a matter of technique, rather than a matter of me not being comfortable with a man having such an up close view of me. I tense up and find myself trying to hurry him along so I can quit thinking "omg I look fat my thighs are so huge i bet they're jiggling omg my ass cheeks are probably taking up so much room what does my stomach look like from down there..."


I understand your insecurities, but I bet there are very few men who are thinking those kinds of things when he's between your thighs trying to please you and enjoying you.  Self-acceptance can make the difference between so/so sex to smokin' hot sex.



*laugh* How about it, men? Have you ever gone down on a woman, then got a good close look at the thighs/belly/ass/whatever and thought "Well that's not entirely pleasant.  I think i've changed my mind."

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:30:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: patwi

*laugh* How about it, men? Have you ever gone down on a woman, then got a good close look at the thighs/belly/ass/whatever and thought "Well that's not entirely pleasant.  I think i've changed my mind."



lol!!  I'll tell you what, from the flip side I haven't had that reaction.  There was one guy who had a bit of extra weight on and it was more visible when I was going down on him ... but beyond a 'huh' reaction, I was all about pleasing him.  Girls, ever changed your mind about giving head once ya got 'down there'?  lol

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:32:26 PM   
patwi


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Two words ( or is it one....) Ball sweat.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:42:28 PM   
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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:54:22 PM   
bipolarber


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Status: offline 		Generally speaking, if a guy is attracted enough to a woman to have sex with her, how she looks from various angles is pretty much a moot point. The only hting that has ever dissuaded ME from going down, is poor hygeine... and that can be taken care of by making a shower, for us both, part of the pre-sex ritual...

And patwi is right... ball sweat can be a mojor turnoff. But then, so can be a woman who's a bit "seasoned" by the end of the workday...

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:54:48 PM   
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*laugh* How about it, men? Have you ever gone down on a woman, then got a good close look at the thighs/belly/ass/whatever and thought "Well that's not entirely pleasant.  I think i've changed my mind."

I've never gone down on a woman and changed my mind for any visual reasons. I've never heard any man or woman say they had either. I don't get that intimate with someone if I really dislike their appearance.

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RE: Cunnilingus - are you converted? - 7/13/2008 8:56:41 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		i've always preferred giving oral to receiving it, though if the man knows what he is doing it is definitely pleasurable.  If he doesn't, welllllll it is all i can do to grit my teeth and get through the ordeal without screaming at him to knock it the f**k off. 
Afterwards is the option of either being honest and trying to give polite helpful hints as to how to make it pleasurable, or i can do everything i can to avoid it.    i think i'll take the honesty route if needed in the future.

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