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RE: sexualizing a submissive? - 7/16/2008 11:54:13 PM

DarkVictory

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Meh. Any woman I am in any D/s or M/s relationship with will be used sexually, even of only to degrade and demean her. Chemistry as some hallowed magic is crap. I can sexualize pretty much any piece of meat. It's a matter of perspective and context.

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RE: sexualizing a submissive? - 7/17/2008 12:08:06 AM

Vendaval

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ORIGINAL: urlittleprincess
with that in mind, have you ever met a submissive/slave who would be perfect for you EXCEPT you dont have that sexual chemistry going on for each other...everything else is perfect.

Yes

is it possible to 'sexualize' him/her by thinking of them in sexual terms and actually create a spark or desire where before there was none???

Either the attraction is there or it is not, no use in trying to force the issue.

would it be worth it if their service, companionship and everything else was valued by you? just wondering...

Then they would be a service sub/slave.

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RE: sexualizing a submissive? - 7/17/2008 9:20:41 PM

DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: anguisette22

Yes, but can you be in love with someone you're not sexually attracted to? I don't think so; when I'm in love with someone, sexual attraction follows automatically. Isn't it the same for others? So if you're not in love with someone and you're not having sex, what could he be to you? A mentor? A provider? A friend? None of these require sexual attraction.

Maybe not in love, but you can love people nonsexually. I have dear friends whom I love but not sexually. What's wrong with loving someone for being a cherished friend, mentor, advisor, student etc?

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