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RE: How do you deal with..... - 7/14/2008 7:47:16 PM

WhisperSupremacy

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You're right. I guess I really shouldn't have let it get this bad. It's just been a back and forth kind of thing,....one minute we're on cloud 9, the next minute we're in the 7th layer of hell..... but overall, I just can't take it.

If she is only like this with you, then it is time for some serious talks and you have to prepare to walk away. Over time such a relationship may be very harmful to you.

If she is also this way in other parts of her life, she may need help, and you might encourage her to seek treatment.

Oh believe me,....she's definitly like this even when I'm not around. She's like this to everyone. So I know I'm not doing anything wrong. Fuck, I did my best to fucking help her, and I'm starting to think she obviously doesn't give a shit.

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RE: How do you deal with..... - 7/14/2008 7:49:28 PM

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Why prolong the agony?

Hell if I know, sometimes I just can't find the words. At this point I might as well just wait it out till it goes down in a hail of gunfire,....it's not like anything can honestly get any worse.

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RE: How do you deal with..... - 7/14/2008 7:53:35 PM

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Lastly, I appreciate everyone for their feedback on my situation. Thankyou for your honesty.

I don't know what the answer is, but at this point in time, I know what my best option is,.... only time will tell. Maybe tommorrow will be different, maybe not,...I don't know.

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RE: How do you deal with..... - 7/14/2008 7:56:10 PM

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...it's not like anything can honestly get any worse.

I disagree. It can always get worse. The longer you allow someone to damage your self-esteem, the longer it will take for you to recover. If you ever recover. If you want to leave, leave. Just tell her you're not happy in the relationship and that you need to end it in order to keep yourself healthy. Don't argue, don't accuse...as much as you might want to let her have it with both barrels...just leave calmly and let it go. It's easier said than done, I know, but you'll be glad you did.

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RE: How do you deal with..... - 7/14/2008 9:19:05 PM

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I havent read all the replies but is it possible your Dom thinks that they have to act this way because its what you want or what she needs to do to be in control?

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