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naturalsin -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 1:15:15 AM)

love that vid, the song is cool too...anyone know who sings it?




ResidentSadist -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 3:40:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
sick fuck!

A little asphyxiation just makes sick little bitches cum harder!
LOL........ that is one of my fav rock BDSM videos! 
Here are the lyric and other info:
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Asphyxiation Fix
BDSM music video from insex.com.  Contains nudity, sex, violence, gas masks, gags, drool, water tanks, full suspension, bondage and all other good things to warm your your heart during breath play.

Asphyxiation Fix Video  (Real Player)
Clicking this link should pop open your Real Player.  Allow a minute for real player to open, its a big file.


Asphyxiation Fix Lyrics
You wanna’ use me up
I let you bring me down
I watch you own me
You can have me

The more I cry, the harder you get
I'm getting high and you make me wet
The more I fight, the more you cum
You tie me up and my mind goes numb
Asphyxiation fix, you pull the rope around my neck
Asphyxiation fix, I need it more than I’ll ever admit

Tired of getting used
I let you hold me whenever you want to
A little scared, a little excited
You fuck me harder when I try to fight it

The more I cry, the harder you get
I'm getting high and you’re making me wet
The more I fight, the more you cum
You tie me up and my mind goes numb
Asphyxiation fix, you pull the rope around my neck
Asphyxiation fix, I need it more than I’ll ever admit

The pain makes me numb
I wanna’ make you cum
You make me feel just like a whore
I keep coming back for more
Asphyxiation fix, you pull the rope around my neck
Asphyxiation fix, I need it more than I’ll ever admit






MissSCD -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 6:54:27 AM)

DV was correct in her assesment of you.   I say get help because fantasies sometimes turn into realities.
Are you watching a lot of crime TV? Are you reading a lot of novels with people getting their throats cuts?
If you are, get rid of them.
 
Regards, MissSCD
 
quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

We have all been there. You get the idea of something in your head and you just can't get rid of it. You start working through the logistics of it , the potentials fall out, the potential highs, the hows, and whens, and wheres. The further you delve into the details the more intense the fantasy becomes. We are lucky .. we get to live out our dark, sweaty, fantasy world ... at least some of the time.

I don't know about other people, I assumed everyone had a fantasy bank like mine. I have recently been informed by serveral people ... that its not like that for everyone. DV tells me often that I am a sick little bitch, and that the things I get hot for would make most people run screaming out the room.

Couple of examples ... the other night I had a dream about getting my throat cut ... it was an erotic dream, not a nightmare ... I woke up horny and had to have a cold shower. I got being strangled by shower hoses into my head the other day ... only DVs ban on autoasphyxiation has kept mine unmolested. I was just in the kitchen making dinner, and had to leave because something Micheal said on the gun thread had me looking sideways at the knife block and working out angles.

So ok, my name is Soft, I'm 24 ... and I am a sick little bitch. The erotic throat cutting dream proved it to me.

How about you guys? ...What clinched it that you were a seriously sick little puppy?





naturalsin -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 7:50:14 AM)

ResidentSadist, Thanks for the information. i had to download real player.

[sm=yourock.gif]the song is awesome!!




softness -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 8:18:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

DV was correct in her assesment of you.   I say get help because fantasies sometimes turn into realities.
Are you watching a lot of crime TV? Are you reading a lot of novels with people getting their throats cuts?
If you are, get rid of them.
 
Regards, MissSCD
 


Not that DV .. Dark Victory DV ... my Owner DV .... and He is a fine one to talk .. His sickest fantasy at the moment is stabbing me, then fucking the wound

and no I wasn't watching/reading anything crime thriller based ... but I have a sudden urge to re-read The Black Dahlia .... *shivers* ...




MisterBeast -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 8:28:38 AM)

For some reason when ever a girl is a real bitch to me, I want to tie her to a post infront of my house and shave her head, leave her there for a few hours. Does that make me sick?




softness -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 8:31:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MisterBeast

For some reason when ever a girl is a real bitch to me, I want to tie her to a post infront of my house and shave her head, leave her there for a few hours. Does that make me sick?


no .. considerate ... a shaved head is waaaaay easier to style




SimplyMichael -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 8:42:16 AM)

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His sickest fantasy at the moment is stabbing me, then fucking the wound


That would make you a "four hole" girl eh?  I like three so four MUST be better!




DominantJenny -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 8:55:51 AM)

FR
Having read the beginning and the end to this point...

Hrm. You know, I consider myself fairly extreme, but I've never had the slightest interest in blood or violence aimed at producing same. Violence, yes, but I'm more on the "insert alarming and incredible painful thing into handy opening" sort or "endure X pain for Y time". Also more on the psychological end, control and power and *ahem* reluctance.

I wonder...from some of the stuff some have mentioned...(softness and anyone else) do you find "shock value" turns you on? I'd never thought of it as a submissive/masochistic quality before, but now that I think about it, certainly that's about losing control, now, isn't it? I wonder if that particular quality is common only in people who are both submissive and masochists? (Am I hijacking here? Maybe I should start a new thread...)




Amaros -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 12:27:56 PM)

Fear and sexual response appear to be tied together for a lot of women - I could go into the evolutionary reasons why this might be, but it would be a bit of a threadjack. Suffice it to say that submission is probobly a survival tactic - freeze, fight, flee - or fuck.

I had fairly violent fantasies when I was younger, before I was sexually active, but then I was reading a lot of history of the middle ages, watching a lot of Hammer films the featured medieval torutures, etc., big medieval fetish in general I guess.

Still there, but I'm really not into cutting or even inflicting pain - I've evolved more towards a more psychological dynamic, and in this sense, these sorts of fantasies can heighten the tension - it's a sort of edge play: too much predictability can be boring, it can be a lot more exiting to imagine that things might really get that out of control, it keeps the tension up - like getting as close to the edge as you can without falling over.




softness -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 12:28:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

quote:

His sickest fantasy at the moment is stabbing me, then fucking the wound


That would make you a "four hole" girl eh?  I like three so four MUST be better!


well .... I aim to please





softness -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 12:53:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

I wonder...from some of the stuff some have mentioned...(softness and anyone else) do you find "shock value" turns you on? I'd never thought of it as a submissive/masochistic quality before, but now that I think about it, certainly that's about losing control, now, isn't it? I wonder if that particular quality is common only in people who are both submissive and masochists? (Am I hijacking here? Maybe I should start a new thread...)

Perosnally ... it being shocking is a wild turn on ... its like brinkmanship between my daring and my good sense, my Id and my Ego if you like.. I dont think its the desire to shock other people (I don't like much to shock in person, people around me, friends or family .. I want to "fit in" with them) ...
I was chatting last night with a Sadist friend of mine, on the subject of aftercare, we both agreed that for us .. snuggling and blankets and affection is exactly the opposite of what we usually want. (sometimes obviously ... depends on the scene) We both said that there was a degree of re-caging that has to be done with inner demons, something fairly common to hear about Sadists ... but of masochists less so. Not all masochists have a broken inner child seeking forgiveness ... the best description I ever found was that my inner demon was conspiring with the Sadist against me ... to see what I could be made to live through before I broke.  Thats the sick little bitch right there ...

quote:

ORIGINAL: Amaros

Fear and sexual response appear to be tied together for a lot of women - I could go into the evolutionary reasons why this might be, but it would be a bit of a threadjack. Suffice it to say that submission is probobly a survival tactic - freeze, fight, flee - or fuck.



I couldn't agree more .. though my instincts are telling me that the masochists on this thread are largely not thinking about submission when they confessed their sickest dreams ... I could be wrong ... but they spoke to me of messing around with fear, danger, and pain ... rather than submission, surrender and sacrifice




BBWnNC72 -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 1:12:00 PM)

i am SOOOOOOOO glad i am not the only sick bitch. i can't share here, sorry. i don't want to get MOD smacked.  But let me say that i LOVE the edge of things and fear.




DominantJenny -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 3:23:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

Perosnally ... it being shocking is a wild turn on ... its like brinkmanship between my daring and my good sense, my Id and my Ego if you like.. I dont think its the desire to shock other people (I don't like much to shock in person, people around me, friends or family .. I want to "fit in" with them) ...

*snip*

I couldn't agree more .. though my instincts are telling me that the masochists on this thread are largely not thinking about submission when they confessed their sickest dreams ... I could be wrong ... but they spoke to me of messing around with fear, danger, and pain ... rather than submission, surrender and sacrifice


That's what I meant, shocking of the self, not others, that is.

Hrm. Fear and danger are about losing control; I wonder if this is where the line between masochists and submissives starts to blur.




variation30 -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 5:21:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

This had me smirking softness, ya rock.
I wish I could contribute more - but it would be against TOS....[:'(]
 
the.dark.

 
imagine what my OP would have been without TOS
*smoochies*



I want to know.




variation30 -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 5:22:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

one of mine involves being bound, put in a tub of water, and drowned.  The rest is tos-able :)


I motion to change the ToS to make this thread even more interesting.




CreativeDominant -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 5:27:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

Perosnally ... it being shocking is a wild turn on ... its like brinkmanship between my daring and my good sense, my Id and my Ego if you like.. I dont think its the desire to shock other people (I don't like much to shock in person, people around me, friends or family .. I want to "fit in" with them) ...

*snip*

I couldn't agree more .. though my instincts are telling me that the masochists on this thread are largely not thinking about submission when they confessed their sickest dreams ... I could be wrong ... but they spoke to me of messing around with fear, danger, and pain ... rather than submission, surrender and sacrifice


That's what I meant, shocking of the self, not others, that is.

Hrm. Fear and danger are about losing control; I wonder if this is where the line between masochists and submissives starts to blur.


It could be though when you look at it from another aspect:  isn't one of the paradoxes in D/s is that control is "given over" to the dominant by the submissive and yet, she retains the power to stop it?  When you enter into edgy play or even very intense play that does not go near what we describe as the "usual" edgy---crucifixion, knife play/gun play, etc.---but instead veers into the mental aspects or is requisite of intense physical effort by the submissive, isn't there that fear of "losing control" and being under the complete control of the dominant and "not being able to stop things"?  And not because the dominant would not respond to a safeword or because he isn't watching you but rather because you yourself are just so far gone that you couldn't exert the effort to stop the play...and don't want to...but want to...but don't want to...that " what was the question again" area? 

I like to combine the psychological edge with somewhat of a physical edge.  The post I made earlier is every bit as much about the control and the stripping away of mental and moral defenses, of pushing the submissive up to her own dark reflection as it is of physical exertion and physical use.  There are countless other scenarios that play in my head that involve that sort of mental and emotional gymnastics and inner-mirror gazing. 

One of my submissives told me the same thing my ex-wife had noted..."you want to talk about so many different things, Sir".  Yes, I do.  It takes me to the knowledge or if not the knowledge, the glimpse of her mind.  And builds levels of trust that are essential any time you do this type of play...even if it is a simple mindfuck type of play.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 5:56:09 PM)

I think that is the single most frightening potential that someone who surrenders to another, can have.  Knowing that with the skilled Master, there wouldn't be any escaping that gaze into the darker recesses of ones own reflection, nor willful resistence against the stripping away of mental and moral defenses. 




OmegaG -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 6:04:43 PM)

Damn, this relocation has given me far to little time to read and play on the boards (I only managed the first page of this great thread).

When I was 10 I had fantasies of being kidnapped and locked into a neck shackel with only enough chain to get me to all the spots within the room/house that I needed to be.  Let's just say that my imagination did not remain stagnent for the past 30 years.




variation30 -> RE: sick little bitches (7/17/2008 6:13:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: misterbananafish

i'm a sick puppy because i have numerous castration fantasies...


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