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ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Caged Perspectives=- (7/17/2008 7:14:35 PM)
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I love that cage of mine so much, after it had been out of service for over 6 months, I set it up even though it was empty because it makes me happy to see it. It brightens my day. It does not bring me memories of past partners… it isn’t the history of the thing that makes me happy. It is the future and power of the thing that makes me happy.
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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
So RS...do You ever lend the cages to friends with good manners??? i am very good at "pretty pleases" and "thank you's", and stuff.
For you, I would make allowances.
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave
………Damn what's with pretty Red cages, last girl I was with, she described the perfect cage she wanted. Painted red with rubber coated bars on the sides………
……..It's like anything else there are PRO's and CON's to it. Cages are not for everybody, all depends upon the people involved. Personalities and mindsets.
How true, caging isn’t for everybody. However, for those that do get caged, a lot of females seem to go for the red cage. I don’t know it it’s vanity or that the red cage is more like a circus cage and it changes the mood of it.
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ORIGINAL: KMsAngel
okay, maybe for the mushrooms and black olives i would be willingly confined.
An open mind can be the first step to expanding horizons. I know you guys got lots of cages down under but do you have Papa John’s Pizza? We don’t want you living in a cage on just vegemite!
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968
Sadly, for me it is just a fantasy.
Anyone wanna cage me??? Anyone?
It takes a lot of faith, love, self confidence and trust to drag that fantasy into reality in the style of the OP. However “cage play”, “puppy play”, “naughty prisoner” and “sex slave” are just a few great role playing games that only require a few hours in the cage and can be done at your local dungeon.
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ORIGINAL: jayded34
submits an application............heaven!
If I lament much more about cages, I’m gonna’ join you and submit and application to myself.
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ORIGINAL: SlaveSimone
Uhm, where do I sign up?
It sounds so passionate and so romantic when we aren’t talking about the really naughty and slutty uses for the cage doesn’t it? Such a flexible tool.
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ORIGINAL: shadowcd
I wish someone would cage me after reading that post :) I don't even need the phone or dvds hehe.
There is more than one person posting in this thread that owns a cage. I seen those rabbit ears in your profile pics. You put those on and offer to play “run rabbit, run” and I bet you catch someone’s interest.
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ORIGINAL: puppen
I'm not paranoid, Daddy…………..I'm just... Anxious.
Maybe we can put a sticker on your front door, like they have for pets.
The one that alerts fire fighters that there are little Puppens inside.
<--- note to self, sign in window to read “little puppens on second floor in back, inside the red cage”
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ORIGINAL: SlaveSimone
He was considering buying one from a local toymaker at one point... However I don't think he was into the idea enough at that point to pay the kind of money the guy was looking for. I should have tried harder to persuade him >.<
You can find used human cages for $500 or less sometimes. Big animal cages with the thick wire are even cheaper. Look for old transport cages, lion cages and the like. Check with zoos or animal handlers in your area, there might be a used cage around. Since animal cages are light, you can always get one from ebay! This one is $49.
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
<missing my cage now... >
Awwwwwww, you can borrow mine baby! Did you want to be in it or on it? LOL
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave
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ORIGINAL: eyesopened
For me, cages hold no appeal. Because a cage is also a barrier, the bars not only keep someone in, but also keeps someone out.....
Exactly, the whole part about keeping somebody out as well. I was not joking when I said some girls enjoy the comfort and feelings of safety inside their cages. It becomes their space and special place. Ironic, almost a place to go hide when they are feeling threaten or have fucked up.
Like I said, there are Pros and Cons to caging. I do have to agree with chaining being a good alternative to caging.
I realize that this thread was started with the intentions of covering the positives of caging. All of which RS has been covering in great detail. There are a few cavets regarding some negatives with caging as well. I do think I love the three weeks in a cage mindset. Too much longer and well the sub/slave is starting to feel a little too much right at home. I think the 3 week mindset RS has going on is a great one, and it's practical. Sounds like he's aware of some of the negatives or drawbacks even.
I think the OP is rather sane in providing use of a telephone, internet and DVD. Not only for safety issues, but for mental health as well. Plus, it covers the Dom/Masters ass as well. How could somebody possible be charged for wrongful imprisonment of a human being that has been clearly provided phone and internet access? At least this would make for a great defense in any court, but that's my opinion on the matter. If somebody becomes that despart to want out of the cage, it sounds like all basis are covered. I would assume that grounds for release from the M/s relationship are attached to being let out too. I think RS is somewhat sane in regards to things here.
Sounds like he's put a lot of thought into WTF he's doing, in terms of sane Caging practices. Some food for thought for anybody who's into caging, considering it, or enjoys this activitity…. [snip]
I like how on target your reply is. Some of the following replies explain how the cage “becomes their space and special place.” Thank you for your compliments and your very comprehensive comments.
About that 3 weeks in cage thing – It truly is an effective tool. There is cute story that evolved from it. I had a very stubborn slave (ex domme) once and she was also quite playful. In public when I would scold her she would reiterate “it’s nothing 3 weeks won’t fix Master” and playfully begin to plead for her life begging to be allowed to continue serving me. Well, this act was somewhat impressive and that “nothing 3 weeks in a cage won’t fix” became a local expression. Because she was so stubborn at a dungeon party once, I said she needed “3 weeks in a cage with a goat.” At the next munch we showed up wearing T-shirts she had made that said:
Hers: “It’s nothing 3 weeks in a cage won’t fix”
His: “Got Goat?” (in small letters over the pocket)
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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub
Greetings ya'll,
I've always associated cages with good memories (thinks back to being a little girl and watching gogo dancers on laugh-in) and years back dated a biker that had a cage in his living room(gawd loved it).
As a slave some of my better thinking moments were spent in corner time..it was supposed to be time for introspection not punishment even though as a kid it was punishment and i hated it. there was something comforting in being able to be still for him and to learn about me and what i needed.i had to journal after
one of the best things about being owned was being chained at night and other slaves would give me,' the what if something happens'...well ya know, anything can happen in just about any situation. you can get hurt fallin in the shower on a bar of soap....so are you going to stop taking shower because of the risk involved? I know i'm not.
anyway I digress here...if you truly want to learn to trust someone to the maximum degree
go for it
you just may find exactly what you need in life and the kind of care that you will be given and this will be a defining moment(well more time than that but you get my drift) in your life and the happier a slave is in her Masters hands the better she will serve with more devotion and no fear
Fyre… you hit the nail on the head. You describe the way isolation works constructively and clears your head. Also, in an exchange relationship where trust is the one of the biggest keys to success, learning to “trust someone to the maximum degree” is the ultimate goal. With max trust they just may “find exactly what [they] need in life” in those crystal clear “defining moments”.
I also read your profile. You said “my submission, imo, is not a gift, it is a need”. You can play in my arena any day sweetheart. It is nice to meet like minded people. You are an awesome person. Thank you for your comments.
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
I'm totally rethinking this cage thing....
(dammit, RS... you keep doing that to me!)
You seem to be reconstructing some of your views. It speaks highly of your intellect and passion. Good girl… you would look marvelous in a cage!
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ORIGINAL: xbutterflyx
oh this thread makes me want to visit Sir's cage! ohh i wanna!
My first cage experience was with Sir. Now, it is a ritual. That is my place to sleep and wait for Him. The feeling of sitting there and watching Him lock me away is so hard to describe..and my time alone allows for focus..i hear him, but can't see him. However, i know he is there and i wait for HIM. Oh and seeing him enter the room ...awesome!
For a long stretch there the cage was a daily ritual at my house too. I miss it very much. Funny, she said one of the things that touched her most was that without fail, I put fresh water in her bottle every night and she felt loved because of that simple ritual. After she was secured in the cage, she could hear me patrol the house checking that all the doors and windows were locked. She said that ritual made her feel protected by me and she felt safe and secure in a cage inside that locked house.
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ORIGINAL: leakylee
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave
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ORIGINAL: eyesopened
For me, cages hold no appeal. Because a cage is also a barrier, the bars not only keep someone in, but also keeps someone out.....
Exactly, the whole part about keeping somebody out as well. I was not joking when I said some girls enjoy the comfort and feelings of safety inside their cages. It becomes thier space and special place. Ironic, almost a place to go hide when they are feeling threaten or have fucked up.
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you state alot of truths here. even though my confinement experiences are fairly limited they have been incredible. be it the cage or a closet, the feeling is totally different from being bound. when you hear the lock click oh the door to a cage you are done, you become totally dependent on another person. but you also get to be free. no reason to bluster, no reason to put up the protective walls, all the vulnerabilites can come out.
it also can give you a place to be alone. to spend time with yourself. to reenergize.. a mini vacation. not a fanatasy break, but moments just for me. moments that i get to be dependent again. i get to surrender control for a short time. i dont know that anything refreshes my mind and soul like that.
Thank you lee. This is the essence of what I am talking about and you said it so well describing the difference between the chain and the cage.
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ORIGINAL: puppen
Hey now... I trust him.
Being a little nervous is normal for a "virgin".
You’ll do fine baby, I will help you. I will show you the way because you want to succeed. It’ll be easy because you are smart and have a good heart.
-=My Lil Red Cage=-
My cage has been a sanctuary, a shelter, a refuge, a comfort and to one girl it literal was a “home” for 6 months. It has been a monument to love, a symbol of trust and a test of faith. It has been a tool to open minds, deconstruct personalities and then reconstruct them. That cage has been a hammer, anvil and a forge that melted, shaped and strengthen the constitution of more than one slave and relationship. That cage has been an adventure into some very, very dark fantasy and role play. Dark even by my standards! That cage has transformed humans into objects. It has transformed masochists into “its” to be beaten and tortured. It has transformed females into mere “things” to be fucked and used by anyone of any sex or species that Master chooses. It has transformed freedom lovers into captive “prisoners” to serve their captor’s dark desires. It has transformed young girls into non-speaking “animals” trained as obedient and sexy pets.
But best of all, that cage has transformed some of my partners into loving and respectful slaves that learned to cherish the relationship.
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