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RE: Knealing - 7/19/2008 4:30:31 PM

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for me, it has always just felt very natural... i look up to my Dom both literally and figuratively in most every way. He is one of the brightest men i have ever come to know. (and can frustrate the living hell out of me as well)

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RE: Knealing - 7/19/2008 4:39:28 PM

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.....smiles at ownedgirlie, i am glad to see your post. i would sit in church *cry* bc i felt that i was so wrong in wanting and needing to kneel before Man. but after i pondered and prayed upon it. there is a big difference in the kneeling before God and her Master..it will come naturally, when you truly feel it...

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RE: Knealing - 7/19/2008 4:46:30 PM

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i can take it or leave it. if He wants me to i do, but i can only do it for short periods of time before my legs fall asleep.

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RE: Knealing - 7/19/2008 4:58:45 PM

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I find kneeling a very subservient posture, and for an independent, sometimes bossy person that I can be in my daily life, it definitely brings out my submissive side very quickly.

My previous Dom taught me not only to kneel, but also to automatically open my mouth while I was kneeling, to show that I was submissive and open/receptive to him, not just orally -- but more importantly, psychologically. It definitely put me in my place, and I LOVED it!!! :::sigh:::

As far as how I felt the first time I was required to kneel, I found it very exciting and, like I said, found it to put me in my submissive persona quickly. However, my Dom and I had already developed a relationship without any BDSM aspects, so I trusted him implicitly. There was never any fear involved. Perhaps you should ask yourself what you're afraid of? Submitting to someone that perhaps you don't know and/or trust as well as you should? Being collared is a wonderful experience; being collared to the wrong person can be a nightmare.

I do hope that you can find the same kind of pleasure in kneeling that some of us subs have found. :)

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RE: Knealing - 7/19/2008 5:05:45 PM

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quote:

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i can take it or leave it. if He wants me to i do, but i can only do it for short periods of time before my legs fall asleep.

agreed! sitting at his feet is a good and natural thing.
mother nature gave me bad knees so kneeling isn't a natural state for me physically. mentally yes.

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 2:24:47 AM

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Kneeling puts me in my sub head space..... I love it when he sits down and points at a space on the floor between his knees...... my breath catches in my throat and initially I look down, unable to look at him... it is only after I have knelt that I look up and meet his gaze..... but by then i'm on my knees and i am His....

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 5:15:11 AM

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In your First post you mentioned it freaked you out a bit. have you looked at exactly what about it unsettled you?

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 5:37:48 AM

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Wait....kneeling is supposed to be sexy? For me, it's just kind of a position. I usually assume it for a particular purpose, but apart from that, it doesn't really make me feel one way or another. I think it's cause've martial arts-I've been kneeling for years in a non-sexual manner. By this point, it's pretty routine.

For me naked and kneeling = sexual

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 11:32:26 AM

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I think it would be funny if I change my name to Neal. Because then I could play these little games with myself...

Oooh...she said kneel! No, no, I really think she meant kneel...why would she be saying my name?

If I change my name, what would be a good last name to go with Neal? ;-)

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 12:44:41 PM

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An occasional kneeling as required to show respect, deference, and submission isn't a problem for me, but long periods of it is pretty much a hard limit, particularly if it's on a hard surface. Bad for my joints, plus if I'm on my knees for an extended period, I'm not useful for much more than being used as an oral sex slave for a dominant woman ... hmmm.... maybe I can soften that hard limit a tad ...

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 1:04:13 PM

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Kneeling is a basic form of humiliation (above and beyond presentation postures), and as such quite specific to the individual. I agree no should ever be forced to kneel. I woul far rather inspire that behavior.

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 1:08:29 PM

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I actually like kneeling and don't find it particularly humiliating or subservient. I tend to move around a lot, get up, sit down, walk, .. so kneeling for me is actually a good thing to keep me calm for a time. Plus, it puts me at a good level should there be a cock to nuzzle
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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 5:36:30 PM

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Yup, I'd agree Missokyst. I'm going to ask her when she gets home, but I'm pretty sure that my wife doesn't see kneeling as in any way humiliating. I think she sees it as an affirmation and celebration of our roles and our relationship.

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 6:04:33 PM

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I'm going to ask her when she gets home, but I'm pretty sure that my wife doesn't see kneeling as in any way humiliating. I think she sees it as an affirmation and celebration of our roles and our relationship.

If one is pulled over by police and asked to kneel after stepping out of the car, I imagine one would feel humiliated.

I suppose some here would be aroused even then ;-)

In BDSM, we engage in various acts that have humiliation potential but do not create the emotional discomfort that comes with humiliation in its literal sense. I call these acts D/s humiliation--they express and affirm the roles, as you say, and help create the respective mindspaces without creating emotional discomfort.

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 6:55:11 PM

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Thank you all for your posts. I have discusses this at length with him, and I have tried finding out what the main fear is behind kneeling(sorry to have mispelled the first time). I have no problem with kneeling, I rather enjoy it, if he initiates it, but to just go up and kneel to ask a question or to serve him is rather odd.

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 9:20:52 PM

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I suppose some here would be aroused even then ;-)

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RE: Knealing - 7/20/2008 9:50:29 PM

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I also find kneeling appealing - but unfortunately I have sciatica and kneeling for any period of time is very difficult now. But as an initial way of highlighting our roles in the moment - it's a nice touch. We have a 24/7 relationship that includes regular life where I work and we share a business and other regular things where I have some authority and control in things. . . so Him gesturing or telling me to kneel puts us back in the right places again. Helps deliniate the different worlds for us.

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RE: Knealing - 7/21/2008 8:42:13 AM

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Master is not big on knealing but sometimes he tell me to it does really not bither me. If it is on a hard surface he will give me something to kneel on so it does not hurt my knees. Like others kneeloing for a long time does start to ach so Master does not make me do that.

It was funny what someone said avout respect in Karate whan the sen sei is talking we either kneel or stand at attention. Just though it was interesting since that is a form of respect.

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RE: Knealing - 7/21/2008 12:04:17 PM

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Kneeling in front of or beside of him, makes me smile on the inside. While it does hurt sometimes, i now have my own pretty butterfly pillow that i place on the floor next to him. I love being there, looking up at him and resting my head on his knee or thigh.

For me, it's respect and where i want and need to be.

smile bunches xx

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RE: Knealing - 7/21/2008 12:14:08 PM

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I have no problem with kneeling, I rather enjoy it, if he initiates it, but to just go up and kneel to ask a question or to serve him is rather odd.

Why would that be odd? this slave kneels when she has something important to say, when she is feeling out of sorts and needs to be comforted, when she wants to show Him how much she cares or just to relax. For this slave its a place of refuge, a place of rejevination, a place of joy. Even if she is being punished its a place where she knows she belongs.
Its also an important part of O/our dynamic as are positions and posturing. Its not for everyone, even this slave finds it difficult to kneel for extended periods of time and when that is what is required girl may ask to shift to one side or the other or she just sucks it up and lets her feet and legs fall alseep...then its only a matter of getting up..LOL
As with any relationship of any dynamic, its a personal thing, its what ever is important in that relationship at that time....
just this slaves two cents....
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