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Marrage - 7/19/2008 10:39:39 PM   
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I have a question that My bestfriend asked Me and I want to get others input.

My friend desided to marrie her subbie and if one/both are on SSI/SSD and they get married there funds go down, So she was thinking about having a wedding that wasnt legal (with out marrage licance) just getting married under gods eyes not the state, then maybe doing a legal name change what do u think

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RE: Marrage - 7/19/2008 10:57:02 PM   
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What do I think? I think people who live off of the tax dollars that I work my ass off 60- 70 - 80 hours a week to pay should obey the law, and collect ONLY what they are entitled to under the law, rather than cooking up innovate scams to bypass the law so as to get MORE than they are entitled to legally. If they bypass the law they should be arrested, tried, and imprisoned for social security fraud and forced to reimburse the taxpayers. Thats MY fucking money, it comes out of MY check every two weeks and because of bullshit like this the system will probably be bankrupt before Im eligible to collect my own money....  I already pay out the ass so as to support my mother in a comfortable manner because she gets a pittiance from social security and I want to vomit when I hear people running down ideas on how to cheat the system for benefits they arent entitled to. Thats what I think... Tell them to be grateful for the handout that myself and my employees are forced to vomit into the system every time we run payroll, and to take no more of it than they are entitled to.  

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RE: Marrage - 7/19/2008 11:24:15 PM   
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You have raised a question that doesn't involve honest ethics, morals or kink, but rather legalities.  What you have asked is for advice on something that is illegal.........in pretty much any country. 

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RE: Marrage - 7/19/2008 11:26:42 PM   
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For once I agree 100% with DA

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RE: Marrage - 7/19/2008 11:41:05 PM   
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They should have a ceromony without the marriage license much like most gay couples do. They're just making a vow to each other and to their beliefs that they will be together. There's no need for the government to be apart of that. With that being the case, I wouldn't reccomend doing the name change. It'll be more hassel than it's worth.

Unlike someone else, I don't see living together and being married by faith alone as a scam. Under "THE LAW" it's not illegal to just live with someone and continue to get original bennifits as a single person. If anything, it should be illegal for Uncle Sam to deny or lower your SSI/SSD income just because you found someone to be happy with. Why should marriage change an income status to begin with? You'll want your friends to avoid being classed under Common Law as well. They should never joint file nor claim one another on taxes as dependents. With the lack of KY that Uncle SAM useses these days, you got to do what you got to do.

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RE: Marrage - 7/19/2008 11:53:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arpig

For once I agree 100% with DA



        I might have agreed with him a little more often than than that, Arpig, but I'm right there with you guys.

       It's called fraud, Sammi. 

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:03:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DomAviator

What do I think? I think people who live off of the tax dollars that I work my ass off 60- 70 - 80 hours a week to pay should obey the law, and collect ONLY what they are entitled to under the law, rather than cooking up innovate scams to bypass the law so as to get MORE than they are entitled to legally. 


So let me get this straight DA. Are you saying that you have no problem with these two people staying single, living in seperate places, and getting their legally entitled SSI/SSD? As boy friend and girl friend they can get X amount of cash as long as they live in seperate housing but should get less if they live together as a couple?

Hell, love happens and most people want to shack up. Living together and not claiming each other as dependents is not illegal. Many Senior Citizen couples live this way because Marriage or Common Law loweres their Social Security income. There's no social security fraud or illegalities here with deciding to just live together. It's not a scam nor a bypass of the law. Instead, it is the law that you can choose not to be married by the State/Government and still get your original SSI/SSD income. If you think that just living together should be illegal, then write your congressman or bring it up as a question at the next presidential debate.

For now, this situation is proof that the US government does not truely support marriage. 

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:07:39 AM   
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You have raised a question that doesn't involve honest ethics, morals or kink, but rather legalities.  What you have asked is for advice on something that is illegal.........in pretty much any country. 


How can it be illegal for two people to decide not to get married? 


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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:15:51 AM   
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      It's called fraud, Sammi. 


How? It's has always been perfectly legal to have someone live with you without a marraige liscense nor claim them as a dependent on TAX Day. Besides, why should SSI/SSD be changed because of a change in marital or living status to begin with?  

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:16:42 AM   
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With all due respect Fangs.......while I agree with the basic (most basic) premise of your argument, what doesn't wash with me....is simply if people are expressly looking for a way to beat the system.....it is fraudulent.  I don't believe married couples should be peanizled the way they are, however, I cannot for the life of me justify "f(&king" the system when you are collecting social assistance.  I mean, how much do you really want for free?  The OP asked a question which was really "How best to beat the system".......that implies wrongdoing.  While I'm not saying I agree with the married/not married advantages...........at least do it honestly.  (Having respected your thoughts and opinions on this board, I'm somewhat shocked by your response to this one)

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:22:00 AM   
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MmeGigs........two people deciding not to get married is not "illegal".....I do confess to perhaps my prejudice preceding me, however, I'm sure the American SSI/SSD system is quite similar to our welfare/disability system in Canada.  I don't care who you are.......90% of it is a scam.  I have been shocked by what I've seen, what I've read, what benefits are given....and it is sad that it diminishes the respect those truly entitled deserve.  Like they say...99% of politicians are corrupt.........well apply the math.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:24:33 AM   
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You have raised a question that doesn't involve honest ethics, morals or kink, but rather legalities.  What you have asked is for advice on something that is illegal.........in pretty much any country. 


Samii is asking for advice that is perfectly legal by the Fedral Government, IRS, and Social Security Services in the United States of America. I'm assuming that these two friends of Samii or of the USA and are asking about SSI/SSD offered by the USA. As of now, just living together as two independents and getting the exact same SSI/SSD given by the United State Government is legal.

In other countries, this situation could be illegal. However, it's not illegal in the USA.   

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:37:09 AM   
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There are a lot of ways of living that are not "illegal"..........but there is the "intent" factor to figure in.  Lots of married couples can file "seperated"  Lots of common-law couples can ignor and file single.........the sad but, LEGAL, reality is....when the relationship breaks down........they are the first ones screaming the most about what "was fact" and what wasn't.  It is cheating, plain and simple...it is the "world owes me mentality"......and when looking at a relationship in the context that the OP posed in her question.........it is more than clear which way that couple was going.  Fair, no, however.........the intent is to defraud, pure and simple.  A comparison..............you are pulled over with a bag of cocaine, enough to get you indited for trafficing, but we all know you are a heavy user......heck you could snort all that cocaine in a night........but to the law the INTENT to traffic was there.  I guess what I am saying is if any two people want and I mean WANT to get married, the least of their worries would be how they can screw over the social assistance system.  Again, my humble opinion.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:51:02 AM   
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(Having respected your thoughts and opinions on this board, I'm somewhat shocked by your response to this one)


The longer you know someone, the more differences you find out about one another. So don't be shocked. Just realize that we're not going to agree on every single thing.

"How best to beat the system?" If "The System" wasn't beating us to begin with, we wouldn't have to beat back.

When my Grandfather applied for Medicare, it was the sound legal advice of the Medicare Rep for my Grandfather to sell/give all but 10 acres of land to his kids and minimize the amount of money in his bank account. This was so my Grandfather would qualify for Medicare. How can this be "beating the system" when it was the system that told him what to do?

A Lawyer and or an Accountant would be giving the exact same legal advice that I've already given Samii. I garuntee that if Samiis friends called the United States Social Security Office, they be given the advice by the Social Security Reps that they should just live together and file their taxes seperatly. I know this because I have friendships with Senior Citizen couples who called Social Security and got the "just live together" advice directly from Social Security Services.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 12:57:00 AM   
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Well hell Fangs, like I said, I agree with the basic premise of your argument, I guess I'm just hung up on the moral aspect of it.........and being able to look myself in the mirror and carry on camping so to speak.......I do agree, we are getting "f"d over by the gov and perhaps attitudes are changing.  Personally, I can think of much more exciting ways to spend some time then thinking about how to screw over Uncle Sam, Canuck Buck or whatever..........laughs.  We agree to disagree.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:01:36 AM   
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So let me get this straight DA. Are you saying that you have no problem with these two people staying single, living in seperate places, and getting their legally entitled SSI/SSD? As boy friend and girl friend they can get X amount of cash as long as they live in seperate housing but should get less if they live together as a couple?

Hell, love happens and most people want to shack up. Living together and not claiming each other as dependents is not illegal. Many Senior Citizen couples live this way because Marriage or Common Law loweres their Social Security income. There's no social security fraud or illegalities here with deciding to just live together. It's not a scam nor a bypass of the law. Instead, it is the law that you can choose not to be married by the State/Government and still get your original SSI/SSD income. If you think that just living together should be illegal, then write your congressman or bring it up as a question at the next presidential debate.

For now, this situation is proof that the US government does not truely support marriage. 


First of all - as for the first part - yes that is EXACTLY what I am saying. The law provides benefits based on the # of persons in the household. Jack living at 123 Main Street gets X and Jill living at 456 Main Street also gets X. When you become "Jack and Jill" at one address you are a two person family unit you get Y, which is not X twice. The reason this is calculated this way is because traditionally a married couple supports ONE household and hence pays only one rent, one water, one electric, one phone, etc.... The adjusted difference is to accomadate the increase of a second person in that ONE household not the maintenence of two households.

As a point of fact, living together and not reporting your TOTAL HOUSEHOLD INCOME when living off the tit of the American taxpayer, is illegal. It is fraud. I can live with Britt if we so choose until one of us dies of old age and thats legal and I have no problem with it. Ive got my salary that I draw from the biz, and shes got her 42K from the school district and we are actually paying in not taking out. It changes when you start sucking the system.

HOWEVER, if she were to decide that teaching has given her "anxiety disorder" so she can no longer work, and to move in with me and attempt to obtain benefits as a single person househol when she did not actually have any living expenses whatsoever because shes living in my house she would be a criminal. What is your monthly rent? Nothing my bf owns the house! Utility bills? Dunno he pays them. Yeah right, those answers would get her bennies wouldnt they? Ah but alas if she were to conveniently neglect to mention me, she would be rolling in the bennies until such time as someone called the 800 # and got her ass picked up by the IG as it should be.

What this question proposed is "double dipping" getting the American taxpayer to foot the bill to feed, house, clothe, shelter, and care for two parasites living on two separate host organisms when in reality Uncle Sam need only provide one dog for them to suck the life blood from.  One person household X dollars, two person household Y dollars not XX dollars. Then to add insult to injury - the name change??? So they dont even appear to be "shacking up" which I have no problem with anyway??? Yeah thats right hunny I love you so much that were gonna go to walmart buy us two rings, cohabitate, and even use the same last name... Everything ya get from being married - except the reduction in benefits that comes from anally raping the American taxpayer to support one two person household instead of two individual households....

Thank God some states like Texas still have common law marriage.... Because at least this little scam would buy them federal prison time for social security fraud here. See, in Texas they WOULD be married despite their little attempt not to. They would have met the three part test:
1) The must have agreed to be married. (Which their little ceremony would cover)
2) They must have held themselves out as married. (The name change or saying this is my wife will cover that)
3) Theyt must have cohabitated in the state.

VOILA! Pull that shit in Texas and congrats felons, you are actually married and fraudulently collecting bennies as two singles.

As for the assetion that a reduction in bennies means "the US Govt is antimarriage" that is utterly absurd. Its simple math, it costs less to maintain one house with two people than it costs to maintain two houses. Food costs and other incrimentals go up proportionately but overall living expenses are not doubled. Before my divorce I had three additional people living with me - speaking of essentials only (ie not the cost of Louis Vuitton purses, designer clothes for a wife and two kids, piano lessons, martial arts classes, happy meals, etc but just food, utilities, etc) my monthly cost savings after they moved out was around 10%. Conversely, then my incremental cost for adding the essentials for 3 additonal people was an increase of 10% over my single living cost. Thus, were I living paycheck to paycheck I would have needed a 10% raise, not a 300% raise for the additional three people. My mortgage payment remains constant regardless of the number of people living here, my house is airconditioned to 68 degrees whether I am not home, I am home alone, I am here with Britt, or I have the whole fucking neighborhood over. DirectTV is not priced "per viewer" and Vonage doesnt care how many people use the phone.....

Britt could move in tommorrow, and I wouldnt have to double my income! All I really have to cover is food, a little more water from a couple of extra toilet flushes and another shower a day, a slight increase in electric usage from appliances she uses that I dont like curling irons and a blow drier. etc... THAT is how the govt formula works, and it is correct. Teh get more money than either would individually, but less than both separately. BUT they arent living seperately, so to collect more than the joint benefit is fraud and they deserve prison time.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:12:18 AM   
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When Sir and I got together, His disability pension was cut.  In order for me to get the carer's pension we had to declare we were in a de facto relationship.  If I were to have a job, our pensions would be cut further depending on how much I earned.   

It's not worth trying to rort the system - if you get caught, you have to pay back what you got that you weren't entitled to.  Plus you have a criminal record. 

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:19:24 AM   
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I think (and lord knows I've been wrong before) (grin) that we are talking about two totally different scenarios Fangs.  Those that HAVE are best advised to download just prior to retirement to take advantage of benefits in their retirement years, which is a totally different scenario then 'LIVING OFF THE SYSTEM" in ones most productive years.  A sad trait too common in our current generation, be you American or Canadian.  With all due respect, I don't think your grandfather's advice and situation relates in any way to the "intentional" fraud the OP is seeking validation for.  If you work, you are paying for this shyt and I would think it would anger you as opposed to supporting it.  Your grandfather (obviously a hard worker who earned the asserts he had) stood to loose whereas, cheaters stand to gain.  A whole different pride dynamic involved here.  Again, I concede, we agree to disagree.

You go DA...............good advice

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:21:32 AM   
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Rayne............no one ever said honesty was cheap or easy..........but you both can look in the mirror knowing you have not defrauded anyone.  I know your pain, having one on disability as well............kudos for your honesty

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:22:35 AM   
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Well hell Fangs, like I said, I agree with the basic premise of your argument, I guess I'm just hung up on the moral aspect of it.........  We agree to disagree.


In that case, I have a better comprimise for you. Morals are morals. Feel free to belive this "just live together" idea is moraly wrong. We all have different ideas of what's right and wrong. Be moral or immoral, the morality of this issue still does not change the legality of the situation. The couples actions are still legal regardless of the intentions. However, if SS told me directly to my face not to get married, I couldn't see myself feeling bad about my actions.   

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