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RE: Falling off the face of the earth? - 7/23/2008 7:12:50 AM   
xxblushesxx


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ORIGINAL: Asmodeus

My fiance was reading this thread over my shoulder. Her comment?

"His wife caught him."
 
And I believe she was speaking from experience.


I concur with your concurring with her.

Uhm...yeah....

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RE: Falling off the face of the earth? - 7/23/2008 3:54:35 PM   
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So are you saying you KNOW he owes you nothing, but you still have the irrational FEELING that he owes you something?

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RE: Falling off the face of the earth? - 7/23/2008 6:21:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghettoloveinblo

Okay....admittedly all I want are other's perspectives on this situation.... here is the whole ball of wax for you to play with (not that you would want to play with wax.....anywho). I met a man on here  several months back. We met and things were great for several meetings. We were to schedule another meeting and he stopped picking up his phone for me.FIRST CLUE Then he stopped answering emails from me. SECOND CLUE I know of his personal obligations as I have my own....but finally three weeks later (after my last attempt at contact)..he emails me. Saying he is sorry and he is under too much pressure. WERE YA STALKING HIMWith no more of an explanation then that. I feel he owes me more, HE OWES YOU NOTHING I would completly revamp my schedule to suit his and meet when it was conveinent for him. We also began to discuss my accepting his collar. AFTER SEVERAL MONTHS? Then nothing....
I just don't know what to think of the situation...has he found someone new and isn't interested in me anymore? CLUE ONE AND TWO = NOT INTERESTED Does he just not care for me any longer? YOU MISSED THE CLUESOR IS IT CUES Either of which is fine, as I would have to live with it anyway...I just wish he was man enough (and I thought he was)....to just tell me what the real reason is. HE AINT INTO YOU, HAS NO BALLS And BTW...I replied to him after he sent me that msg, with no response on his part. HE OWES YOU NOTHING EITHER. HE IS UNDER TOO MUCH PRESSURE.
 
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RE: Falling off the face of the earth? - 7/23/2008 11:19:11 PM   
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Never had a wife, I've done this.  It's like this: sometimes shit happens.  And work DOES get in the way, espec. if you're not a 9-5er.  So he lost the momentum in the relationship.

Trust me, if he's feeling this way then it's about 80% he's right, especially if he's been around the block more than once and can read the writing on the wall.  (I'm saving that metaphor mix, I'm digging the visual.  Anyway.)  It may feel like you've lost an opportunity, but really all you lost is the ability to say no before he does.  Because it's a really hard start to get a cold motor running after it's sat for too long, but not long enough... in the 3 weeks to 3 months range, is my rule of thumb.  After 3 months give it a go again, say hello.  Things might have lightened up for him and the interest will be appreciated.  O/W, keep lookin'.

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RE: Falling off the face of the earth? - 7/24/2008 12:42:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ABUSE

Sound married to Me, or just a serial "sub humper" or whatever. Move on. 


Sorry to hijack this thread but the term sub humper is similar to what I would call a "hit and run dom".  I like the sub humper term, though....

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