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Justine45 -> A scene goes wrong by accident...what next? (7/22/2008 8:32:46 PM)
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For several months, I've had an extremely fulfilling relationship with an intelligent Dom who I'll call F. While neither of us are 24/7 or heavy players, our play has been the most erotic I've ever experienced.
However, things went unexpectedly wrong over a week ago. To make a long story short, I was tied to a chair (I was facing backwards) which unexpectedly tipped forward. I ended up on my face with a nosebleed. F. was horrified. He apologized over and over, attended to me with ice and washcloths, and even offered a trip to the ER. Later F. said he'd even taken the chair on a test drive to make sure it wouldn't tip.
Here's the problem: ever since the incident some ten days ago, he hasn't suggested any future play, although we've chatted and e-mailed about our usual non-D/s topics.
Has the incident upset him to the point where he doesn't want to pursue any future D/s play with me? I realize this is, in some ways, an unfair question since nobody here knows anything about him. But perhaps some other dominants would have a better idea of how he's feeling about the situation than I am.
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