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Slave Lust - 7/23/2008 7:59:10 PM

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Heard of this term? What is it? Could you please explain it as you understand it please?

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/23/2008 11:46:08 PM

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Wow, total absense of response. Surprising.

Ok, I'll bite... wiki style.

Disambiguation section:
1. Slave Lust: the desire for a slave to be dominated.
2. 'Slave' Lust: the desire to have a slave.
3. Slave 'Lust': The lust of a slave, in whatever form it may take; referring most likely to simple lust, but with a submissive tint to it.

Usually you'll find it means 1, if it's being used as a self-contained term and not just the string of both words put together. Say you notice a Dom being just awesomely domly, it makes your lady parts all moist and you want his attention, though not necessarily to have sex with him; just... that kind of attention. This would be slave lust in the usual sense.

It's also uncommon but not unknown for a Dom to say he's lusting for a slave, but not a specific one, just for a nice warm body to beat on, by saying he's got slave lust. However this can be misconstrued to have the first meaning, so it isn't frequent.

Did this help?

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 5:43:31 AM

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Yes some. I was introduced to this term by a dominant who identified some feelings I was descibing as such. After further discussion, he compared it to a slave level of subfrenzy. Subfrenzy is a term with which I am familiar. He was not able to tell me as much about this new term as I would like to know. If anyone can please clarify it further I would appreciate it.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 5:57:57 AM

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I've heard it termed "slave heat". It is somewhat like frenzy. It's that "Oh, ANYTHING for you Master" feeling that sometimes threatens to override our common sense or what we may have previously agreed to. The feeling that you sometimes get when all of your limitations seem unimportant. It could be a kind of a dangerous headspace to be in if you are coupled with someone who would use it to their advantage.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 6:41:06 AM

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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

Could you and/or others describe their experiences with it? I am not sure what this would be like, having never really had the frenzies to my knowledge.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 6:43:20 AM

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An overly romantic term so that slaves can feel extra-special about the ordinary feeling/emotion/experience they are having which most people have as well.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 7:15:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

An overly romantic term so that slaves can feel extra-special about the ordinary feeling/emotion/experience they are having which most people have as well.

I agree with this wholeheartedly.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 8:01:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
An overly romantic term so that slaves can feel extra-special about the ordinary feeling/emotion/experience they are having which most people have as well.

WHAT? SACRILEGE!

You mean to say that people who are interested in BDSM are in almost all ways exactly identical to the dreaded vanilla crowd? It's hard to believe that vanilla people get turned on and look forward to sex. Do you have any references for this?

*laughs*

"Sub Frenzy" is another one of my favorites. As near as I can tell, this is the exact same reaction that anyone gets when they have a need that is going unmet. How come I never hear about "food frenzy" or "dinner out frenzy" or....

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 8:33:37 AM

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giggles...

Okay! Okay! The pompous foolishness of such terms aside, what can be expected?

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 9:18:00 AM

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That you'll act like a giggling doofus for a while. That you'll want to lift soft (or hard) limits in the middle of a scene and your Master, being a big meanie, will refuse. Does that sound at all familiar?

I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here, that you picked a guy who is not a dumbass.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 9:25:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

An overly romantic term so that slaves can feel extra-special about the ordinary feeling/emotion/experience they are having which most people have as well.

I'm curious what the difference is between special romance and what most people experience?

One thing that strikes me from the outside is how someone can go from being an "owned slave" to single in a matter of months to a year. It does suggest exaggerated terminology.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 9:29:18 AM

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Heard of this term? What is it? Could you please explain it as you understand it please?

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Slave's obsessive longing for me to bend her over the nearest item of furniture and pound her pussy with wild abandon.

Basically...it's being horny, but from the slave's point of view.

("Dom lust" of course is the desire to take said slave, bend her over the nearest item of furniture and pound her pussy with wild abandon.)

Related to (and often used in conjunction with) "jungle fucking" and "wild hairy monkey sex".

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 10:05:17 AM

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This is a recent development and no opportunity as yet to discover what the reaction will be should I drop boundaries mid scene like that. He teases he will be more than happy to comply with my request for these things, but I tend to think he just likes for me to squirm a bit. I may be blind to it, but I don't see this obsessive behavior myself. He likes to poke, kid, and tease. If that is the case, he has done a good job of it and is likely laughing hysterically at my frantic post!

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 10:06:31 AM

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Hehe

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 10:16:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I've heard it termed "slave heat". It is somewhat like frenzy. It's that "Oh, ANYTHING for you Master" feeling that sometimes threatens to override our common sense or what we may have previously agreed to. The feeling that you sometimes get when all of your limitations seem unimportant. It could be a kind of a dangerous headspace to be in if you are coupled with someone who would use it to their advantage.

personally my own subfrenzy was in this type of situation, i was new to the lifestyle, just exploring what was drawing me, struggling to find my way and hell no, it was far from ordinary! i didn't view from a romantic point of view. in fact, i was feeling completely out of control even under the consideration of another. subfrenzy to me means; to eager, to soon, with little regard to one's own wellbeing, in a over zealous eagerness to please and learn. it was a strange place to be mentally, i think it diminshes with experience, over time. but hey that's just me.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 10:39:34 AM

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That is why I even discussed how I was feeling in the first place. It is not comfortable, fuzzy, or fun. It darn near panic stricken. Not panic stricken... but not a fairy princess land for sure. He joked I laughed and calmed down a little. No, this is nothing like the starts of my vanilla relationships.

That is why I want some idea what this concept is of which he spoke and that he himself did not fully understand. I must fully understand it, so I can calm down and get it together already! I don't like this scattered to the wind thing. Please no comments about managing my emotions better as I am amply capable... usually. I have no experience of this sort of thing. Anyway......

More experiences out there? I need all the help I can get! Thanks to all who have posted so far!

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 1:24:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112
[Slave's obsessive longing for me to bend her over the nearest item of furniture and pound her pussy with wild abandon.
Basically...it's being horny, but from the slave's point of view.
("Dom lust" of course is the desire to take said slave, bend her over the nearest item of furniture and pound her pussy with wild abandon.)
Related to (and often used in conjunction with) "jungle fucking" and "wild hairy monkey sex".

LMAO

this slave perfers her sex with out the monkeys...they have creepy little fingers...
also perfered is the term "heat" as in a bitch in heat...doggie style
"lust" drippig we honey pot for Masters pleasure....and
"frenzy" what this slave goes into if a bee flies in the car.....

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 1:50:40 PM

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I always thought that slave lust thing was a gor idea that all women are controlled by their desire.
<g> which.. may be true even in the nilla world (as they also imply).
I see it as horniness. Unbridled, uncontrolled, wild passionate sex.
I dont think it has anything to do with slavery, submissiveness, or anything but heat.
Putting a title on it is more like a control.
NOW.. it has a title! This is what you have or what you will have! And because you want it, you will do what ever I want.
LOL which also may be true, but it still has little to do with anything beyond passion.
The label is just another way to force your head into that direction.
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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 6:59:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

An overly romantic term so that slaves can feel extra-special about the ordinary feeling/emotion/experience they are having which most people have as well.

I agree with that one.

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RE: Slave Lust - 7/24/2008 7:55:46 PM

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I compare it more to that first really bad crush as a teenager, than to new relationships between adults. It's passion aroused, without the experience to control it and pace oneself.
Enjoy it, it will pass into something better, but different.
That was what I felt, at any rate.
Oh, and try to let your partner get at least a little sleep!