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What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 11:42:45 AM

plantlady64

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Hello All,
I was talking to a scene friend of mine today. He'd ask me what things were left that I want to try, but have not tried for one reason or another.
I had to stop and think about that for a minute as there's not much I want to try I don't get to.
So far I have not done cupping, urethra play, or mummification. Other than that I couldn't think of anything I wanted to try.
The cupping & mummification just has not presented itself in the Doms I play with. The urethra play I'm nervous about and am close, but not ready yet.
Please don't get me wrong there's a lot I've never tried so it's not like these are all that's left for me. There are of course parts of play I'm willing to do, but not necessarily interested in that have also been left alone.
I hope to keep them a secret from those I play with unless specifically asked to perform those tasks so I'll leave them to your imagination.

I was also talking to someone in my public dungeon a few weeks ago who'd made me stop dead in my tracks when she said " I knew spankings were going to be way hot for me ten years ago. Tonight was the first time I allowed it to happen though."
I was blown away. I know we're all different, but to wait for your dreams for ten years gave me great food for thought.
How many of us want to try something, but have not done it out of fear of the reality being so different from the act in our minds? (A lot of us I think, at least that's the consensus from the thread on this subject we had earlier.)
My question would be what haven't you tried you'd like to try? And why haven't you tried it yet?
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 11:50:43 AM

nephandi

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Oh there is so many things, gone to a party whit my Master where there are others in the lifestyle, getting used by others for my Master`s plessure, werry ahrd pain play and the list go on, it would be alot more easy for me to list what i have tried, i am werry new at this.

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 12:00:44 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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Believe it or not I have yet to be fisted myself. Love for that to happen. Hasn't simply due to lack of opportunity.

I want to do some interesting blood rituals. That's mostly safety/opportunity.

I have quite a few "random anonymous sexual usage" fantasies floating around...

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 12:02:00 PM

JohnWarren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: plantlady64

My question would be what haven't you tried you'd like to try? And why haven't you tried it yet?
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

Hook suspension. I keep trying to make time to travel to SF to study at Fakir's but life keep getting in the way. It's not something one tries to learn by trial and error.

I'm also looking for someone to teach me fire breathing. I'll probably try heading to the gulf coast to some of the circus schools eventually.

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 12:03:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I have quite a few "random anonymous sexual usage" fantasies floating around...

[evil laugh] Have you read "Gangbang" on my website?

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 12:13:38 PM

Quivver

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quote:

ORIGINAL: plantlady64

How many of us want to try something, but have not done it out of fear of the reality being so different from the act in our minds? (A lot of us I think, at least that's the consensus from the thread on this subject we had earlier.)
My question would be what haven't you tried you'd like to try? And why haven't you tried it yet?
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

In some ways I'm still judging myself by a standard built elsewhere.
Then too, I've got some trust issues that only time is going to heal for
me to share my thoughts completely. .... .... one thing that I do wonder
about though is enthusiasm of the joint effort.
I'm afraid if I were the only one into it, it would no longer be fun.....
sigh..........

Q

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 12:15:54 PM

KatyLied

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Ah, there is so much vastness out there that I've yet to experience. I'm waiting for the right person who will listen, discern, and then take me there...

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 12:39:22 PM

plantlady64

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John Warren Said

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I'm also looking for someone to teach me fire breathing. I'll probably try heading to the gulf coast to some of the circus schools eventually.

I say Wow,
I'd like to see that. Let me know how it goes when you try it.
I'll definately think you a magic dragon then.
sub suzanne

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 1:07:10 PM

slavejali

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fisting is something i have never had done to me and would like to try.

This topic made me think of something else...what about things you have done before..but not with your current Master..but would like to do with Him? One of these for me is anal sex. i really enjoy anal sex and i could honestly say i miss it. Master has a really huge cock and when i have brought the subject up He has expressed that He doesnt want to hurt me, or that i wouldnt be able to take it etc etc etc..i dont know whether He is just playing with me when He says stuff like that or not..but for whatever reason..we havent done that yet...and im aching for it.

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 1:17:16 PM

stephanne84

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An interesting topic…. I have had a lot of experiences in the short time I have been playing… but a few things in time I would like to try is cutting (but that can scar so I want it done with something I like) wax play perhaps but so fax it looks like a messy thing to do…. And when I find the right person lose my virginity… but until then just keep going out and having fun

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 1:29:19 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

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wax play perhaps but so fax it looks like a messy thing to do

Messy yes, but divine as well.

Wax Play

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 1:33:45 PM

windchymes

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quote:

Messy yes, but divine as well.

Funny, I feel the same way about fisting

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 1:39:18 PM

wipmebeetme100

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quote:

The urethra play I'm nervous about and am close, but not ready yet.

My question would be what haven't you tried you'd like to try? And why haven't you tried it yet?

Ahhhh.....sounds, how nice. I have found if i think about it, it scares me, even though i enjoy the way it feels. The last time i did this the Dom also put a vibrator directly on my clit at the same time. Took me right over the edge.
Something i have not done yet....anal fisting. The thought of it makes me a bit apprehensive even though i enjoy anal sex and anal play tremendously. I know it is something that i will do one day....just glad no one has required it yet.

cathy

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 3:27:07 PM

KittenWithaTwist

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Oh god, cupping! I did cupping in a non-bdsm fashion, in 2003, when I went to Northern China. I decided to get a "traditional chinese massage" because I had taken a super long walk around a rather hilly Panda Breeding Center/Zoo that day. So, the girl comes up to my room (I was staying in a hostel) and does massage for a bit, then gets out her cup set. I didn't want to be a weenie so I didn't cry but my eyes teared up in pain. I walked around with the most painful bruises I had ever had for a week (with no one around to soothe them, no less!), and I couldn't lay on my back or even sit back against a chair without crying.

I guess it'd be more fun with a dom around.

As for things I'd like to do that I haven't tried: I would like to have multiples sex (3some and moresome), lose my woman-virginity (have sex with a girl, by myself), eventually get up the courage to try suspension, be a buffet table at a major event, be gang-banged, and do about a million furniture scenes with FD Midori.

The list goes on....

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 4:49:32 PM

lonewolf05

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quote:

My question would be what haven't you tried you'd like to try? And why haven't you tried it yet?
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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not "into" anything so i have not done 98% of everything.....

wolf

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 4:51:24 PM

Sensualips

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Hmm, the only thing left for me to try is...umm...almost everything. ;)

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 4:58:03 PM

slavejali

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why does lonewold05's posts always have [awating approval] in them? sorry for posting this but i need to know the answer lol

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 5:03:26 PM

Quivver

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejali

why does lonewold05's posts always have [awating approval] in them? sorry for posting this but i need to know the answer lol

Ok, I second that too. How come?

Q

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 5:16:52 PM

sjacket

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I want to do a flesh suspension (after I lose a few lbs), within the next five years. That's the big one.

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RE: What haven't you done yet? - 11/15/2005 5:33:06 PM

mnottertail

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I suppose he has pissed of a Mod personally, after all they are only people.

You can tell that sometimes the coverage here is uneven, there is a couple posts that intone bestiality, never the worse.

They are only human.

Sincerely,
Ron

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