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michelle1227 -> Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:03:48 PM)
Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking? I find it hard to believe.

hopelessfool -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:11:36 PM)
Its like asking is it true you can get aroused by being pissed on, is it true you can be aroused by being dumped in skettie sauce? Yes you can be aroused by pain, it releases endorphines into the body much like an orgasm, combined with the right mental state and person and you go -merowneeenfff-

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:13:51 PM)
Some do, some don't. This is the same answer for any question about a general group of people. Can you? I have no idea.

StrongSpirit -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:19:11 PM)
Their are different types of arousal and different types of spankings. I get aroused from spanking a woman. Some woman get aroused by the pain of spanking, some get aroused solely by the idea of being spanked but dislike the actual pain.

katie978 -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:25:01 PM)
Can I? Absolutely. There's absolutely no doubt in my mind. It's not even nessecarily a pain thing, it's about warm skin-to-skin touching, being with someone, mmm. I can't even properly write about it, it's so yummy. The fact that you find it hard to believe, I find hard to believe. Spanking isn't everyone's thing, granted, and maybe it doesn't work for you. But if you have to strain your brain to believe someone could be twisted enough to actually enjoy it, you might want to seek out a different dating site. ChristianSingles.com, or Missionaryonlyformeplz.com. Your comment comes off as a bit rude.

Leatherist -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:53:59 PM)
The question is not is it possible. The question is can YOU find someone who can make it happen with you.

slvemike4u -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 8:56:23 PM)
Damm Skippy You Can!!!!!

XaviersXian -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 9:02:40 PM)
greetings to the OP, Not me personally (spanking is punishment to me) but I've known people who get all wriggly at the thought. It is like any other fetish, or fantasy or kink or whatever, what will work for one won't necessarily work for another. Each to their own. well wishes,

Mercnbeth -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 9:25:25 PM)
~ Fast Reply ~ God, I hope not. I'm a sadist and it would really upset me if anyone I spanked got any pleasure or could be "aroused" by me spanking tham. The concept is unthinkable and would really suck! Next thing you'll be suggesting that they like it when I use nipple clamps, or hit their tits with a flogger or cane! Ha - that's as silly as the thought that woman can orgasm from having sex with a man, like having a cock in their ass, or that some people actually 'do it' in the daylight or with the lights on! [sm=lalala.gif] I'll be watching this thread closely. It may change my life!

mbes -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 9:28:08 PM)
Arousal? Hell, I can orgasm from spanking. So yep, it's possible to be aroused by a spanking. Doesn't mean everyone will be, though; if you aren't, you don't have to be.

MsLaylasone -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 10:50:25 PM)
Michelle1227, As a sub having a Mistress, I must say that the most arousing aspect of our play, besides my little foot fetish ahem another topic, is being completel bound helpless an spanked with a variety of floggers and cats. Most of thoose I have made myself with different feels to them. Some are thuddy giving a deep feeling and some are very stingy. I tend to like being warmed up with the thuddy ones before being spanked with the higher levels of pain that the stingy ones provide. I guess it has to do with my dorphin levels. By the time I am warmed up I am pretty deep into sub space and feel completely in control of my Mistress which is exactly where I want to be. So yes, definitely it is a turn on both physically and mentally for me to be spanke. I know a long answer to a simple question... MsLaylasone

kikkikat -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 11:36:05 PM)
It's True! It's TRUE! Spanking is something that has often found it's way into what would otherwise be considered vanilla relationships, even. Heck regular T.V. and movies will even touch on this idea. But the who and why vary. Not everyone will find it arousing and not everyone who does finds it so for the same reason. I have found that with talking to my Dom and other friends who are into varying degrees of this lifestyle, some like it because they find it humiliating and humiliation arouses them. Others like the actually pain and it depends on how hard the spanking is. Some it's because it's associated with they way they are playing and so they are aroused in anticipation of what is to come. Others enjoy the feeling of helplessness to stop something that is happening to them. Others because it's considered "naughty" or "bad". And that's just what I can think of off of the top of my head in the middle of the night. Really depends on the person and the situation. Mercnbeth - thanks for that laugh! Perfect answer!

Prescott1slavery -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 11:46:12 PM)
Absolutely, yes. Why? To me it is symbollic of being dominated, the pain demonstrates that I am servile, prepared to endure pain for the pleasure of someone else.

Demspotis -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/27/2008 11:52:39 PM)
Yes, indeed, some are aroused by being spanked, and some orgasm from it. Aside from the reasons already given, there are very practical reasons for both of those reactions: for one thing, the backside is an erogenous zone; besides that, the genitals are very close, so that the force and vibrations from a spanking can and do stimulate those very sensitive areas. Then the question is why doesn't everyone react the same way to that? I'd say that that is where the psychology and the taste or not for pain come in. So, it is a very personal thing, how one reacts.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/28/2008 12:55:40 AM)
Never pooh pooh something just because you yourself have not experinced it. That does not mean it will not or does not happen for other people. quote: ORIGINAL: michelle1227 Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking? I find it hard to believe.

NewandSexySub702 -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/28/2008 2:06:37 AM)
I have came close to cumming while being spanked, while being played with. I generally dont get turned on while being punsihed though, but i once or twice. I have found that, there is a different kind of pain when it comes to punishments and play. Play is a little more light, a little mor sensual, theres something different in it, while punishment is more intense, more all over, just more. I dont even have words for it, at least for me. So is it possible to be aroused by pain...Yes...is it all the time for slave/sub....No...it depends on the person, and in my case, depends on the circumstance.

naturalsin -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/28/2008 2:08:39 AM)
in a word...YES! [:D]

silkncarol -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/28/2008 2:20:41 AM)
Oh my....yes, oh yes.. absofuckinlutely! Nothing like a good spanking to get the juices flowing...lol

raveonette -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/28/2008 2:29:18 AM)
For me personally, I become VERY aroused when being spanked (also with having my hair pulled, which I'm sure seems very strange to some people.) I think it's the mix of the psychological play and also that my body is very sensitive so I do get physical pleasure as well. In fact it turns me on to an embarrassing degree- I was spanked repeatedly by a Dom tonight and got really turned on. He doesn't view me as attractive or sexy so even though it was a wonderful night I'm pretty embarrassed by my reactions now and I'm not sure if we'll ever be doing that again.

camille65 -> RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking (7/28/2008 2:35:58 AM)
Ohboy yes. Resounding yes, happy yes! Imagine being over his lap, your legs are pinned by one of his legs and a hand rests upon your back. The first swat isn't much of a swat but more of a heavy caress. That moves around a bit, different areas but still fairly light. Then it begins to build a bit, the hand comes down heavier on your asscheeks while his other hand still runs up and down you back. If you start to squirm then his leg tightens over yours making you immobile. If you even try to reach a hand back to your ass, his is already there and waiting to stop your hand. With a shift of his legs he pushes yours apart just a bit. The heat from his hand that has been spanking you fills you, it goes deep into your belly making you warm all over. Another sharper slap on the bouncy cheeks of your ass then without warning his hand slides between your legs gently. His fingers find your wetness and you can hear his deep chuckle. Now the heat has changed, a mix of arousal and embarrassment because he knows you're wet. A finger slides over your pink wet bits, sliding lightly from your clit up the crack of your ass. Another sharp slap and you begin to writhe on his lap, feeling needy and wanting wanting more please more. Arching your back you don't even care that he knows you feel like an animal in heat. Alternating between slapping your ass, occasionally the tender insides of your thighs and that devious finger still teasing and arousing you... but not entering you yet. Squirmy, hot inside, wet.. wet so wet that you can feel it on the inside of your legs. **Um okay yeah I am stopping now. Its 5am and I got up to feed the cat. Now I'm going back to sleep and continuing this in my dreams. Damn it got hot in here. Needy oh boy yes yes yes uhhuh.

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