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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/17/2005 1:41:27 PM

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Im not into munchs nor am I into going to clubs and parties anymore. I've become bored of them yet if my mistress was into it then I would go as i know in the long run it will be better for me to go.

IF she was not and I was then I would think to myself is this what I want.
Then again your having to think is it going to munchs,parties and clubs a weekly thing or once a month...

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/19/2005 7:28:37 PM

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dear gentle
if you cant sacrifice youre just infatuated and infatuation only last 6 months !(science!) so whats to sacrifce if that person is really dominant and is everything and youre nothing ( ever hear :you compliment each other? )

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/19/2005 10:43:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: gentlesurrender

i have talked to many Dominants and everybody is looking for something different,

as subs/slaves we have our own desires, wants and needs,

i recently met a really nice Dom, a quick coffee turned into dinner and 7 hours later we parted company and i came home.

i sat pondering and considering the conversation etc, now if i want to proceed with this Dom, i would have to compromise on going to munches, parties and clubs as its not something he likes doing. He is totally monogamous, so there are certain fantasies/desires that will never be reality (although i dont know if i could do them) the possibility wont be there.

so what would you be willing to compromise on.............................

there is a fine line to be found between settling and compromise. when in initial stages of a relationship, one has to be careful to keep one's own values and ethics in mind, so that one is not taken advantage or, or take advantage of. later one, compromising is a way to work things out between two people, if the meeting of the minds can be done.

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/21/2005 5:41:13 PM

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willing to compromise on anything but being poly is my feelings

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/21/2005 11:10:18 PM

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To be with the right person is a continual comprimise, which is how you grow together.

No wonder I'm fucking alone!

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i divorced to get away from folks expecting me to settle for 2nd best.
i won't do it. and "I" like being single w/o romance b.s. with all that trauma and drama......
i do better alone w/o all that b.s.

good luck to ya
take care

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/21/2005 11:19:31 PM

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there are things i will compromise on, and then there are things i won't. we all have our morals.

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/23/2005 6:00:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

dear gentle
if you cant sacrifice youre just infatuated and infatuation only last 6 months !(science!) so whats to sacrifce if that person is really dominant and is everything and youre nothing ( ever hear :you compliment each other? )

smiles, erm no im not infatuated, there is no emotional involvement, lust or anything like it. Its part of the finding out process, which is where you do work out whether or not you compliment each other.

it was really a general question has to if others do and have compromised, maybe next time i wont put up any examples

kind regards i wish you well

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RE: How far would you compromise????? - 11/23/2005 12:34:24 PM

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since i can't edit my own posts.....

"it's my way or the highway.......and i have spent many a mile on that highway. i'll leave in a heartbeat."

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