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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 4:12:17 PM

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He messaged me on here, we was both bored stupid, agreed to meet that day( a risk for us both), met, fell in love, still together three weeks later :P

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 4:29:49 PM

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I met my Owner here a day after I joined the site. At that point, neither of us was looking for a relationship(funny how that works, eh?) and we quickly moved to Yahoo for the beginnings of a pretty good friendship. The next day, however, she was off of work and pretty bored. So, she invited me over to help her take pictures in the park and the rest is, as they say, history.

We hit it off amazingly that night...so well that I stayed the entire night at her place before heading back to school the next morning. We've been pretty much inseperable since, and I was collared that very Saturday.

Oh, and she also found me living under a rock, as she so often says. She found her pet fox living under a rock.

It kinda has a ring to it, I think.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 4:32:42 PM

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And he will be getting married in the nearish future, which he still leaves out of that story. I met BOTH my boys on CM. Angel isnt on here anymore but he and I met as chat partners on here. We had a good bit in common but no interest in one another. We met face to face when I had a wedding here in nashville that was cancelled on me last minute.
Fox enjoys telling the story, so I let him have first crack at it. It was copletely out of character for him... but he did it anyway.
CM works. Well.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 7:00:04 PM

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Good evening!
I was actually on ALT keeping tabs on my former Master..he refused to delete any profiles on CM, ALT, and Bondage, just b/c we were together. Yeah I know..bad slave! I was at the point where I had just asked to be released and was closing both accounts here and on ALT when Daddy started emailing me, very politely. We just kept talking after I left the one Master and low and behold, he lived in the next town over. First time I ever saw him , he looked like someone's grandfather and I thought "I cannot do this, he is very sweet and too gentle." Boy was I wrong AND right. Daddy is just what I wanted. Afterwards we both deleted our profiles from ALT. I never meant to find anyone so soon after leaving but am glad I gave him a chance. We see each other about 3-4 times a week and play once every 2 weeks.
Oh I am gonna cry!!! ::gets out her handkerchief::
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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 7:06:22 PM

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Master and I "found" each other here on collarme.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 7:12:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: IvyMorgan

I'm not currently in a relationship, but, I met the ex after he memo'd me here, we became friends, we became something more, recognised it wasn't going to work (too different as people) and now, we're friends, and it's all good again.

I've met people I'm interested in online and at munches and at private parties. I'm collecting friends, right now, I've still got some personal growing to do before I go hunting for a relationship.

nb I wasn't looking for a relationship with the ex, either, friends was working fine, we just cocked it up and wound up dating. Silly us.

You sound so much like me as I have some bumps along the road. Right now, I am just taking my time to know myself. Sometimes, you have to step back and it is best to work on yourself.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 7:26:17 PM

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My best friend met Santa on a vanilla dating web site. She didn't have the right "click" with him but thought he and I might be suited. We started emailing, met, and things have progressed from there. On our first date I told him I was a submissive. He's still learning what that means, but he must like what he knows so far because he collared me just over a month ago. Perverting vanillas is fun!!

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 8:29:51 PM

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I met Master through alt and adult friend finder in 2006. We emailed/chatted on the phone a bit. He came for a visit and we played. Had a good time. He wanted more. I called it off. We kept in touch and I sent him a message in 2007 thanking him for his kindness and friendship and since then it is a developing M/s relationship. We don't live together but he tries to come out weekly for a visit. I don't know what the future holds but for now it is a wonderful journey that we are both enjoying.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/29/2008 10:14:40 PM

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We also 'found' each other here on CM. Almost three years ago C emailed me, a warm, friendly and funny email. This Feb we were married and we are both incredibly happy
so, another vote for 'yes'...... the internet does work
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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 3:42:19 AM

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He found me in a aol chatroom and we met r/t a month later and have been living toether over a year and together over two.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 4:56:14 AM

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We 'met' online in an adult chat site (ACN). For a few months we played around casually and anonymously but slowly he drew me in until I needed to be his. I'm one of those that has no problems or weirdness over cybersex, in fact I think it is a blast. I love to write and to me it is an interactive story with the benefit of serious arousal.

Heh I didn't tell him my name or my age for sooooo long. I was terrified that I would be thought of as too old, it seemed like every female online was in her 20's and totally hot. After a few months it became clear to me that I was falling for him heavily and needed to tell him. I was terrified that he would reject me even though this was still only online, but he didn't reject me. He wanted to know more.

He gave me his phone number and full name and the first time I heard his voice I went all melty inside.
Soon after we did the cyber collar thing and we eventually met halfway between our locations.

I got lucky, he is the most incredible man.
Now I am making plans to move closer to him, and happily finish my life being his pet. His slave, his submissive, his property.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 5:13:57 AM

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I met my husband online, although the friendship moved into 'reality' almost immediately. We remained friends for many years before endeavouring into a loving relationship. We never discussed sex or tastes prior to our sexual relationship and as a nice surprise found that we were both into the same ideas and bedroom dynamics... A nice coincidence that has worked out well :)

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 8:19:47 AM

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I met my Master right here on CM. I had been on the site about a year and had met some nice Dom's but noone that as it is put "floater my boat. I was starting to give up finding anything more than friends. In Dec 2006 i got a mail that saif "hi where in NY do you live" Since i reaponded to all mails at that time i told him. It turned our he only lived 2 towns from me but in the same township. We e mailed then talked by phone then in Feb of 2007 we met and i felt that click. Now i am his collared submissive. Here we are 2+ year later and very much in love.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 8:41:58 AM

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I met my incredible partner right here on CM....it only gets better with time...

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 10:38:41 AM

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met on AFF last September. I didn't identify as submissive at the time, he pointed me here. I corresponded via email, phone & chat with him and a few others as I struggled with some Drama in Real Life. Met face to face with him a couple of times last fall, gradually more frequently. During my drama, he's been a source of strength and calm.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 11:01:49 AM

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I was not found by anyone. I was in a vanilla chat room. Saw someone who lived close to me. We sparked up a conversation. Got to know one another a bit..realized we were both in the scene. Our relationship started to
develop from there.

No idea who made the first move.

As far as I'm concerned online sites do not work. Though some do have success. I had ads on several sites when I was looking and while I did meet alot of people who wanted to collar me. In the thousands...none of them were compatible with what I was seeking out of a mate.
Generally people on scene sites want to move way too fast before any sort of trust is developed. They don't want to wait until you know if you are compatible on a regular level. If you aren't..your relationship will fail.
You can only play for so many hours everyday then you need something else to do.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 5:24:22 PM

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i met my Owner in a room on Chatro.....that was 10 years ago this September. Kinda cool, i think *grins*

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 6:30:47 PM

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quote:

I was wondering how sub's were found, entered the relationship with their Dom?
Were you attracted to the Dom, did he/she make the first move or did you?
Do these online sites work or have you met elsewhere then come here?
'spose I'm just wondering out loud here????

I saw his profile here on CM in late January of that year and he didn't interest me. I happened to sit next to him at a local munch the following March, and he interested me. We saw each other at parties for the next couple of months and we'd chat and occasionally e-mail. We went out for a drink after a party that ended early on Memorial day of that year and we had our first date in the beginning of June. We played for the first time sometime around the middle of June. That was 3 years ago.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 6:41:44 PM

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DominusDolor and I met here in 2004. We chatted back and forth and due to me not recognizing what a wonderful man I was talking with, we never really connected. He made serious effort to stay in contact with me for a couple of years, and last year when I was floundering in a vanilla/fake D/s relationship, He stepped up the pace of His communication, offering friendship and advice. We began logging massive amounts of phone time and I found myself falling in love with the idea of Him. When we met face to face and all those things you cant experience online were in place (the way He smells, the way He smiles, His wordless looks), I realized that I was in love with HIM. I was committed to Him long before He collared me. The move (mine) is planned for next year. Collarme works.

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RE: How were you "found" by your Master? - 7/30/2008 7:46:14 PM

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i was looking for a playmate/ beat and fuck partner that may or may not develop into a long-term d/s relationship, to replace a long-term, going no where, play partner that i couldn't stand being in the same room with anymore, so i put an ad on here and alt.com.

he found me on alt. sent an e-mail. i responded with a meeting place and day, we both showed up, and that was two years ago next month.

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