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pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/29/2008 3:20:19 PM

Ariona82

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I am looking for info that this girl can not seem to find directly on the net for pet/sub rules and proper edicate. this girl would really appricate any info given.

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/29/2008 3:36:22 PM

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There's no law book on how things are to be done.

So mainly, proper rules and etiquette are those that you and your partner decide to have between yourselves.

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/29/2008 3:54:41 PM

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Emily Post? Good manners are pretty much universal unless, as said, you've chosen separate rules for WITHIN your own relationship, and then still it's just in your relationship.

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/29/2008 5:31:24 PM

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The rules depend on who is holding the leash... simple

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/29/2008 6:02:04 PM

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Beyond the fact that there are no universal rules...your search engine would work better if you spelled it correctly: etiquette.

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 6:13:34 AM

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what everyone else said - you and yours make it up according to your relationship. one book or rules of etiquette cannot universally and equally define every BDSM relationship.

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 10:16:55 AM

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I think it is something you have to discuss between you and then put in writing? Differrent for each individual I would think? Jerry

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 10:24:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: Viridana

There's no law book on how things are to be done.

So mainly, proper rules and etiquette are those that you and your partner decide to have between yourselves.

Yep, so now you get to educate your partner on how the lifestyle works. Wonderful isn't it?

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 2:13:53 PM

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I'm still looking for the rule book...It's whatever you and your partner decide works for you......

Here's a quick read............ SD!: Protocol

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 2:17:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Emily Post? Good manners are pretty much universal unless, as said, you've chosen separate rules for WITHIN your own relationship, and then still it's just in your relationship.

What she said. Anything else will change from person to person.

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 6:24:19 PM

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quote:

I am looking for info that this girl can not seem to find directly on the net for pet/sub rules and proper edicate. this girl would really appricate any info given.

One might suggest a dictionary would be a fine place to start...

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RE: pet/sub rules and proper edicate - 7/30/2008 6:30:42 PM

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To follow what everyone else has said... the only universal proper etiquette is to be polite.
Rules come from the one you are with, under consideration or owned by. Knowing how I expect my 2 boys to act, different rules for each, I know that what works for one doesnt for the other.

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