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As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humiliating... - 7/30/2008 5:36:21 AM   
bplegend07


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Status: offline 		As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humiliating a sub/slave? I am interested in hearing every mistresses opinion on this.
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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 5:58:28 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		That wonderful look of shock and pain on their faces.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 6:02:51 AM   
bplegend07


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Status: offline 		I can only dream of what it will be like the first time someone makes me feel like that

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 7:03:24 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		what i enjoy the most with my pet is calling him humiliating names from pathetic loser to sissy wimp. he enjoys hearing them while wearing his chastity belt however the lower and sexier my voice gets, the more difficult it gets keeping his cock from being aroused within it.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 8:04:46 AM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

That wonderful look of shock and pain on their faces.
Wait a minute,these men plead for your attention ,beg you to humiliate and hurt them....then their shocked when you do?

< Message edited by slvemike4u -- 7/30/2008 8:05:20 AM >

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 10:26:02 AM   
Coupleofwhats


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Status: offline 		I like physical humiliation quite a lot: making someone wet their pants or wear something ridiculous is fun. Doing both at the same time is also good. I'm considering getting some clear latex diaper pants for this very activity.

I'm also a huge fan of bizarre personalized embarrassment. For instance, I have an odd penchant for anthropomorphizing random objects. This weirds the boy out. Naturally, I took it a step further and bought eye/mouth stickers (http://www.thinkgeek.com/geektoys/cubegoodies/9866/) to place on stuff around the house.

When he gets home from work, it's not uncommon for him to end up in a ridiculous argument with, say, the lamp on the nightstand (with me doing the voice.) Just when he gets frustrated, I give him a WTF? look and say "Hey... you realize you're talking to the LAMP, right?" And wander off. For some reason, it gets him EVERY TIME.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 11:57:25 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		From your two threads that I know of and reading your profile... I do have to wonder about you.  I do not wish to be unkind, but something just seems a little, questionable.  You state in your profile that you are in college, studying journalism.  In your writing, you leave out many words and do not show any attention to detail or editing.  Thus you write as if english is a second language.  If you wish to have what you say you wish to find, then you might wish to pay attention to these details. 

One of your kinks is humiliation.  You now wish to know what we like most about it.  This could be a natural curiosity, but because I do wonder... I have to wonder if you are trying to get a little extra kick out of the day with our answers.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 12:15:57 PM   
darchChylde


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From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco.
Status: offline 		hmmm... i can be made to feel silly or embarrassed; but i can't imagine anything Ma'am could do that would actually humiliate me

i'm not saying that i can't be humiliated, or that She is incapable of doing so (if anyone could humiliate me, that would be Ma'am); but as Her desires override any particular sense of dignity and Her very presense makes me feel both greater and less than i am alone, i can't conjure up how She could go about doing so effectively


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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 12:52:20 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		No humiliation here.  My sub is fully himself when commanded to do the most wonderful things.

Personally, I've blushed a time or two, but it's rare.


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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 12:57:40 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I don't like to humiliate.  It's very hard to humiliate me.  When my submissive does something difficult for him, I am proud of him.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 4:09:02 PM   
MsStarlett


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u
Wait a minute,these men plead for your attention ,beg you to humiliate and hurt them....then their shocked when you do?


Yep.  Sounds silly doesn't it?  But it happens all the time.  I think the shock comes from men who don't think I will actually DO it.  They write about it, fantasize about it, but when I actually start blessing them out in public, they haven't got a clue what to do.  It's like, they never thought that I actually would do it.  Mike, I believe that I have spoken to you enough privately for you to know that I'm actually a very nice, considerate person.  I would never do anything that a sub did not expressly request prior to a meeting.  But if I've been told that's what they want, I can dish up the humiliation in spades... and I prefer to do it loudly in public.  The more they get the "Deer in the Headlights" look, the more I get on a roll.  The more they deny my false accusations, the more abusive I get until I work it up to a good shove or face slap or two.  You can watch other people giving wide berth to the 'scene', usually pointing and giggling.  But it's even better when I catch the one man who seems to be getting a hard on while trying to be coy about watching.


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It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 5:18:05 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I love the way that he can't look at me and get's a slight flush to his cheeks (the ones on his face)

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 5:27:53 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		The best part of humiliation with Fox is that it is almost never intentional. I get real reactions from real situations becuse it comes from things that I didnt know or expect to be purposefully humiliating.
With Angel, its the squirmy poweress reactions and the whimpering.

DV


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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 5:32:18 PM   
bplegend07


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Status: offline 		I'm a  freshmen I haven't taken any journalsm or english classes yet just math so far. So I apologize for that. That being said my major will lead me to become and ESPN Analyst.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/30/2008 5:46:02 PM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u
Wait a minute,these men plead for your attention ,beg you to humiliate and hurt them....then their shocked when you do?


Yep.  Sounds silly doesn't it?  But it happens all the time.  I think the shock comes from men who don't think I will actually DO it.  They write about it, fantasize about it, but when I actually start blessing them out in public, they haven't got a clue what to do.  It's like, they never thought that I actually would do it.  Mike, I believe that I have spoken to you enough privately for you to know that I'm actually a very nice, considerate person.  I would never do anything that a sub did not expressly request prior to a meeting.  But if I've been told that's what they want, I can dish up the humiliation in spades... and I prefer to do it loudly in public.  The more they get the "Deer in the Headlights" look, the more I get on a roll.  The more they deny my false accusations, the more abusive I get until I work it up to a good shove or face slap or two.  You can watch other people giving wide berth to the 'scene', usually pointing and giggling.  But it's even better when I catch the one man who seems to be getting a hard on while trying to be coy about watching.

I didn't think you had noticed me.....how I look forward to meeting!!!

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/31/2008 6:01:04 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I notice you, Mike.  We're still working on logistics, remember?

So, would you enjoy being humiliated publicly or privately?  If you say "Public is OK" - watch out!  You might get more than you bargained for.  Privately isn't as much fun for me.  I mean, really... Once you're nude, on your knees, in my shackles with hair bands around your nuts and licking the bottoms of my shoes... how much more humiliating can a few harsh words be?


< Message edited by MsStarlett -- 7/31/2008 6:04:16 AM >

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It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/31/2008 6:17:57 AM   
Maynard


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Status: offline 		I enjoy the pure entertainment out of humilating a sub.  As long as it is funny to me I don't care much about the reaction they are giving.  If their reaction is amusing, even better!


edited to remove at least one obvious spelling error.

< Message edited by Maynard -- 7/31/2008 6:19:01 AM >

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/31/2008 6:20:34 AM   
stripmymanhood


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Status: offline 		as someone with a huge himiliation trigger...this could prove to be a VERY interesting thread!

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/31/2008 6:41:46 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Here's a negative opinion.

I don't do humiliation with my subs or slaves.

Why?

Because each of them were valuable men and women who deserved and earned my respect. Even if we did things that some might classify as humiliating it was never that way for them, it was always empowering because I was enabling each to explore their full desires.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/31/2008 8:26:21 AM   
ObediantMan1


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Status: offline 		for me humiliation is absolutely terrible during the act.   Afterwords, it brings me pleasure because I know she is so happy.

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