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RE: Being Lazy is a dreadful penance but it passes the ... - 11/17/2005 8:12:55 PM

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I guess the issue I have with your observations is that it seems you want to see Masters doing things. Ok. Like what, for instance? Bake a cake? Mow the lawn? Knit a tea cozy? Is the Master supposed to be doing things for the slave's entertainment? Why is the slave in the relationship, if not to serve the Master? Why would the slave want to control the Master's actions by suggesting what the Master "should" be doing with their time and/or their money?

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...As for YOU Mr Thorns. Who am i to say anything at all. Yes i agree. Its not my place. i have no right. i should just shut up, do as i'm told when its time to pay the bills, scramble to pay the bills, i should clean the house, i should work a 50 hour work week and be happy as a clam to make any Masters life as happy as possible so they can sit on the damn computer all day and do absolutely nothing.

Hmmm...this sounds suspiciously like sarcasm....but if that is the nature of the relationship, yeah. One of the things that has always cracked me up is watching people who will talk...at great length...about how they live only to serve their Master and yet, when it comes down to it, only want to serve in a way that is self gratifying.

Now many people don't try and make this claim. Many people are quite happy with serving in specific capacities such as the bedroom, dungeon, being a houseboy, etc... and that's great. If that's the relationship they were looking for and it works...awesome.

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What do i want them to do? How about something good old fashioned like, Something with their lives instead of watching it waste away on the computer.

Sounds like a good plan. I'm sure you already know, however, that you don't get to make that decision for him.

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Yes i like to serve. That is our place. But really there is just something not-so-right about doing things for some one who cant do it themselves.

And you would be right...if you are in a relationship in which the Master does his own laundry, cleans the house, cooks dinner, cleans the toys, washes the dog, etc etc... but if it's not that kind of relationship...well the only answer is to suck it up and drive on.

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RE: Being Lazy is a dreadful penance but it passes the ... - 11/17/2005 10:54:21 PM

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Hmmm...this sounds suspiciously like sarcasm....

only partly.

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but if that is the nature of the relationship, yeah.

it changes,

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, all the time. though i could be the one changing, ya never know.

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One of the things that has always cracked me up is watching people who will talk...at great length...about how they live only to serve their Master and yet, when it comes down to it, only want to serve in a way that is self gratifying.

Me too. Personally i dont think anyone EVER does anything that they dont get something out of. Even if its something so simple as feeling good about themselves. And personally i dont live to SERVE Master, i live to CUDDLE with him. <grins> Honestly though, i dont particularly mind, its just the whole "on principal" thing. It just seems wrong. Master says my mother gets in my head too much. He's prolly right.

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Sounds like a good plan. I'm sure you already know, however, that you don't get to make that decision for him. And you would be right...if you are in a relationship in which the Master does his own laundry, cleans the house, cooks dinner, cleans the toys, washes the dog, etc etc... but if it's not that kind of relationship...well the only answer is to suck it up and drive on.

thanks for that. You are most likely right and put things in better perspective for me. i DID agree to serve in whatever way he wishes. IF this is how he wishes, then so be it, eh? And i do suck it up and drive on, its been what 5 months now? (except of course when i go on strike, or tease and tease and tease him some more about it). Oh and sometimes i try and get cranky and put my foot down and say "i'm NOT gonna do it, YOU do it" Which of course never works, cos denying him is just soooooooooooo hard. (i know i've tried it!)

Thanks Mr Thorns.

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RE: Being Lazy is a dreadful penance but it passes the ... - 11/17/2005 11:07:03 PM

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Look darlin (yeah you can shoot me for using that but it is used affectionately), I'm the laziest sod about and I'm a Master! Do you have any idea just how much energy it takes to carry the Master licence plate around? All jokes aside, I just hope that my next girl will be a spirited as you.

No no, no shooting today! LOLOLOL i hear it takes LOTS and lots of energy to carry that Master Plate around, i swear we're gonna have to get you guys to the gym! Thank you for the spirited comment. = ) Master enjoys it as well. Just so long as i remember my place, i dont step out of line, and i know how far NOT to push it <wicked grin> i can tell him he's a big lazy penis head, AS LONG, as i dont use one of the non appropriate genital words, demand, expect, and so on. <grins> i can NOT say "Go do the dishes you c***ksucker" Or Get it yourself, or "exxxxxxxxxxcuse ME, do you see i'm busy?" <grins>

Usually when i call him a lazy such and such, he responds in kind with "yup, and thats why i have a slave"

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Thanks for giving me a trip down memory lane.. was exactly what i needed :)

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Thank you, thank you very much. i enjoyed lots of smiles from the responses = )

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/18/2005 3:32:26 AM

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i could not be with a Master who i thought was lazy. it would impact my level of respect i had for him as well as my desire to serve. i need my Master to be a hard working, contributing member of society in order for me to feel good about making his life easier and taking as much of the workload from him as i'm able. i would be resentful of a lazy man ordering me about because he didn't feel like doing things himself.

i think i'm unclear as to what your question was, riot girl. is your Master actually lazy or is this just something that you tease him about when he sits down for a few minutes in front of his computer? and ... is there actually a problem or are you simply being light hearted about all this. ... smiles ...

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/18/2005 11:37:02 AM

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I must be Lazy .... cause I don't like doing anything more than I have too... As my Daddy use to say... "if anything is worth doing... it's worth Doing right the First Time"

This belief has caused me alot of grief... since I keep having sex over and over again... I just can't seem to get it right that first time or next times after that....... I am so ashamed! mmmmmmmm maybe I am not so lazy after all.

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/18/2005 8:21:27 PM

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This belief has caused me alot of grief... since I keep having sex over and over again... I just can't seem to get it right that first time or next times after that....... I am so ashamed! mmmmmmmm maybe I am not so lazy after all.

LOL you are prolly too lazy to get it right, which is why ya have to keep doing it over and over and over again.

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/18/2005 8:50:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

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This belief has caused me alot of grief... since I keep having sex over and over again... I just can't seem to get it right that first time or next times after that....... I am so ashamed! mmmmmmmm maybe I am not so lazy after all.

LOL you are prolly too lazy to get it right, which is why ya have to keep doing it over and over and over again.

nay - if I was lazy... I would put as little effort into it as possible... get it right the first time so I don't have to do it ever again... and then I can sit on my ass..... and just relax.

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/18/2005 10:16:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

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This belief has caused me alot of grief... since I keep having sex over and over again... I just can't seem to get it right that first time or next times after that....... I am so ashamed! mmmmmmmm maybe I am not so lazy after all.

LOL you are prolly too lazy to get it right, which is why ya have to keep doing it over and over and over again.

nay - if I was lazy... I would put as little effort into it as possible... get it right the first time so I don't have to do it ever again... and then I can sit on my ass..... and just relax.

KoM, where you live, don't you have a "Dial-an-erection"? or "Dial-an-orgasm"?

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/18/2005 10:26:38 PM

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Now...I wasn't planning on posting. But after I recovered from laughing at some of the commentary. Alright...this is my two cents. Lets do the math: Does Master = Lazy? I will say false. Does Slave = Lazy? False again. Does Master + Slave = Lazy? I will say somewhat. Here is my logic. Yes, we are busy. Now, I am a college student still, so I am not working a 40+ hour week and balancing bills and the such. Now...this is how I see it though. A Master or Mistress might be seen paying the bills and the slave does the work around the house. This is instead of the Master/Mistress paying the bills and cleaning the house and the slave doing the same. Now, I don't want to use the word "Lazy", because people are still busy. I guarentee free and slave alike have had those days where you are drained, you hate people, and you demand either sleep or a sacrifice....come on...I know it isn't just me. ANYWAYS. Before I just start rambling, use this logic. Does my Master satisfy me? Does he protect me? Does he help train me? If any of these answers are yes, then he isn't lazy.

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/19/2005 9:15:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

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This belief has caused me alot of grief... since I keep having sex over and over again... I just can't seem to get it right that first time or next times after that....... I am so ashamed! mmmmmmmm maybe I am not so lazy after all.

LOL you are prolly too lazy to get it right, which is why ya have to keep doing it over and over and over again.

nay - if I was lazy... I would put as little effort into it as possible... get it right the first time so I don't have to do it ever again... and then I can sit on my ass..... and just relax.

KoM, where you live, don't you have a "Dial-an-erection"? or "Dial-an-orgasm"?

yup I sure do..... thank god it not self-serve thou.... I just might be too lazy to bother. At least with um one or two or three.... helpers... takes some of the work load off of myself....mmmmmmmmmm oh dear... I am thinking I am lazy again.

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RE: Master = Lazy? - 11/21/2005 5:37:17 PM

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Here's a good one. One i joke about with Master alot. He jokingly tells me yes. Why should he do it if he has a slave to do it for him?

And ya know, i HAVE noticed alot of Dom's that pretty much sit infront of a computer all day. What in the heck do they do for a living? Something on the computer i assume.. so do they ALL just pretty much sit around and do absolutely nothing?

Think about it. They dont REALLY do anything. Except maybe run their mouths. "do this do that" thats if they arent um too lazy even to do that!

What is it that they are excatly supposed to do again? Direct traffic? Spend the money?

gawd i want slaves, cos i KNOW i can direct traffic and spend money.

LOL my Master sits on the computer all day and yes He is working but sucks for me

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