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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 4:16:52 AM

MsStarlett

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Actually - I get rather pissy about cross dressing as a humiliation tactic. I HATE IT! You folks have to remember that I'm a Female Supremest. I do not find anything about being female to be embarrassing. I don't think forcing a man to dress as a woman to be the least bit amusing and I believe it is far more degrading to females in general than it is to the man in question. Why should being female, or emulating one in any way be considered "Less" dignified? In my mind, that is like saying that it's OK for a woman to wear boxers and a wife beater because she is emulating a man - her fundamental 'superior' but a man in panties and a bra is more degrading than dressing him like a dog.

Just my 2 cents and I'll get off my soap box.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 5:08:03 AM

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Sexually i identify myself as a transwoman and it is a privilege for me to achieve any degree of Female form and beauty. If someone wants to call it humiliating, i won't deny it, because the result is the only thing that matters: serving in my own skin, not in other's.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 6:00:25 AM

MsStarlett

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Oh, I have no problem with female impersonators. That is almost like the ultimate Ghoddess Worship. I have lots of friends who are impersonators. They rock. They think the female form is so much more beautiful and sexy and they want it so much that they go to great lengths to emulate it.

As mentioned, it just bothers me when used as a bad joke or humiliation. There's a big difference. Even then, I'm a very live and let live kind of person. I get it that some people get off on that and that's fine for them... I just don't have my subs do that form of humiliation around me and they know better.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 6:01:29 AM

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While i totally get your mindset here, Ms Starlett, many submales find it humiliating because it takes them out of what they really are...what society and those close to them (outside of a bdsm context) sees them to be...at least that's my mindset.

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Actually - I get rather pissy about cross dressing as a humiliation tactic. I HATE IT! You folks have to remember that I'm a Female Supremest. I do not find anything about being female to be embarrassing. I don't think forcing a man to dress as a woman to be the least bit amusing and I believe it is far more degrading to females in general than it is to the man in question. Why should being female, or emulating one in any way be considered "Less" dignified? In my mind, that is like saying that it's OK for a woman to wear boxers and a wife beater because she is emulating a man - her fundamental 'superior' but a man in panties and a bra is more degrading than dressing him like a dog.

Just my 2 cents and I'll get off my soap box.

< Message edited by stripmymanhood -- 8/1/2008 6:02:13 AM >

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 6:06:26 AM

Madame4a

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I get what you're saying and agree with you -- suggesting that being a woman is humiliating is crap -- I don't like that either.

For mine, and we've talked a lot about it, its not 'being a woman' that is the humiliation, its that he's 6' 5", he walks like the hulk in his size 14 heels and he looks ridiculous. Its that he couldn't possibly pass in anyone's world as a woman. Its that he is a man, trying to be a woman. Its about people staring, pointing and laughing (stuff I sometimes have trouble with as it isn't supposed to humiliate me but I'm learning *grin*) ...

does that help? I can only speak for mine.. but from SOME.. that's what its about... and it works for some...

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 1:18:17 PM

ElanSubdued

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darchChylde,

quote:

Oh, so it's a morning thing; Elan? I'm so sorry, think of it this evening and you should feel better.

This just shows why so many Dominas lust for you. What a kind, thoughtful chap you are!

Elan.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 3:01:36 PM

darchChylde

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

darchChylde,

quote:

Oh, so it's a morning thing; Elan? I'm so sorry, think of it this evening and you should feel better.

This just shows why so many Dominas lust for you. What a kind, thoughtful chap you are!

Elan.

There's been lusting, really?!?! *pouts* I always miss out on the lusting. I guess I'm just going to have to go back to suffering the tender (and sometimes not so tender) ministrations of my powerful, compassionate, loving, generous, intelligent, beautiful, devious, bathycolpian and loving Owner. Oh poor me.

*darchChylde smiles wickedly through his hair.*

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 3:43:56 PM

ElanSubdued

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darchChylde,

quote:

bathukolpian...

Were you a Domina and had written this, you'd have just gotten one hundred times hotter. As it is, you put a smile on my face. I hope you don't have too much trouble with the terrain. Apparently suffocation is sometimes a problem. :-)

Elan.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 3:45:23 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Okay, settle down, boys. Do I need to get out the hose?

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 3:53:14 PM

ElanSubdued

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LadyHibiscus,

quote:

Okay, settle down, boys. Do I need to get out the house?

Oh! The most bathukolpian woman I know has just arrived!

(begin bossy bitch mode)
Yes. You need to get out of the house. Come over *here* now and I'll help you with any "balance" problems you may be having. :-)
(/end bossy bitch mode)

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 3:55:23 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Sassmonkeys. I am surrounded by them.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 3:59:35 PM

ElanSubdued

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LadyHibiscus,

quote:

Sassmonkeys. I am surrounded by them.

And you luvvs me anyway. A most gracious woman you are. :-)

Elan.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 4:03:33 PM

LadyHibiscus

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

LadyHibiscus,

quote:

Sassmonkeys. I am surrounded by them.

And you luvvs me anyway. A most gracious woman you are. :-)

Elan.

Well yeah.

So?

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 4:36:17 PM

darchChylde

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quote:

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Okay, settle down, boys. Do I need to get out the hose?

Do you need to get out the hose? My whatever do you mean? I've been a very good boy.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 4:37:03 PM

LadyHibiscus

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Okay, settle down, boys. Do I need to get out the hose?

Do you need to get out the hose? My whatever do you mean? I've been a very good boy.

Then you are obviously not doing it right!

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/1/2008 11:03:57 PM

ElanSubdued

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LadyHibiscus and darchChylde,

quote:

darchChylde:
Do you need to get out the hose? My whatever do you mean? I've been a very good boy.

LadyHibiscus:
Then you are obviously not doing it right!

Oops. Silly me. I thought LadyHibiscus typed "house" and mistakenly left out the "u". She literally meant "hose". Hmmm. Lets do a bit of analysis. The lovely, bathukolpian LadyHibiscus... two boys, one with *long hair*, the other lethally handsome ... a hose. This is getting better all the time.

Side note: with special thanks to darchChylde for introducing me to the words bathys, kolpos, and bathukolpian. :-)

Elan.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/2/2008 6:21:04 AM

MsStarlett

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued
lethally handsome ...

Elan.

This thread is useless without photos.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/2/2008 9:21:47 AM

darchChylde

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

LadyHibiscus and darchChylde,

quote:

darchChylde:
Do you need to get out the hose? My whatever do you mean? I've been a very good boy.

LadyHibiscus:
Then you are obviously not doing it right!

Oops. Silly me. I thought LadyHibiscus typed "house" and mistakenly left out the "u". She literally meant "hose". Hmmm. Lets do a bit of analysis. The lovely, bathukolpian LadyHibiscus... two boys, one with *long hair*, the other lethally handsome ... a hose. This is getting better all the time.

Side note: with special thanks to darchChylde for introducing me to the words bathys, kolpos, and bathukolpian. :-)

Elan.

Elan, i didn't know you had long hair...

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I'm a male dominant switch whose experienced as a poly sub to a dominant woman
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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/2/2008 10:37:27 AM

ElanSubdued

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darchChylde,

--- Elan, i didn't know you had long hair...

Touche. :-)

*quaffs his imaginary long hair and continues posting*

Elan.

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RE: Do Mistresses enjoy to be in public while humiliati... - 8/2/2008 1:17:15 PM

MsStarlett

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Thank you, Elan. *smooches*

Pssst Darch, he shaves his head.

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