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Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 5:33:34 PM

notnewnotexp

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Hi. I was hoping to get some help from some other subs. I've come upon a circumstance where I will be serving a new Dom for a short time. One of my pre-assignments is for me to come up with a hot and creative way for me to beg him to enslave me for the week (in person.) I do know that his intention for the week is to have total mental control, but I am not sure how much sexual activity he is planning on. I am not very creative and just can't think of anything that doesn't seem totally stupid. Does anyone out there have some suggestions for something that would really wow him?

By the way.. This is someone I have known in real life for over a year, so it's not like I am meeting some stranger to enslave me without knowing he is safe.

BTW, if a Dom/Me should come across this and have a suggestion, it would be more than welcome.

Thank you in advance for your help!!

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 5:52:40 PM

LotusSong

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quote:

ORIGINAL: notnewnotexp

Hi. I was hoping to get some help from some other subs. I've come upon a circumstance where I will be serving a new Dom for a short time. One of my pre-assignments is for me to come up with a hot and creative way for me to beg him to enslave me for the week (in person.) I do know that his intention for the week is to have total mental control, but I am not sure how much sexual activity he is planning on. I am not very creative and just can't think of anything that doesn't seem totally stupid. Does anyone out there have some suggestions for something that would really wow him?

By the way.. This is someone I have known in real life for over a year, so it's not like I am meeting some stranger to enslave me without knowing he is safe.

BTW, if a Dom/Me should come across this and have a suggestion, it would be more than welcome.

Thank you in advance for your help!!

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 5:58:36 PM

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I would first ask the person giving the order if they were ok with you "coming up" with ways partly by modifying other peoples ideas. For some, the goal is for you to really seek inside yourself and do what feels right.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 6:02:18 PM

hopelessfool

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What do you want? What do you offer to get what you want? Is what you give enough for what you want in return? Is what you give to much for what your getting in return?

You want to be enslaved for a week, be sincere, be honest and truthful. Tell him what you will exhange, what you want and fantasize about...

He isnt going to be Wowed by you getting your answeres from someone else, hes going to be wowed with whats in YOU, not whats in me or anyone else....

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 6:25:04 PM

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I don't consider myself anyone's sub/slave/whatever sister but I suggest looking at porn/erotica. Check out some of the "Hot" stories on literotica and you'll probably get some ideas.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 6:27:05 PM

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usually i find that if i think something is stupid, it is because i am ashamed of it - and when i do release it, it gets that "wow" factor you are looking for.

do not hide anything just because you might think it sounds stupid or are afraid of the outcome - or are unsure of what He is planning. maybe He gave you this assignment to see what you are looking forward to for this week and may provide you with that after you ask Him.

be HONEST with yourself and Him and you B/both will enjoy this week even more.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 6:38:15 PM

totalyhouseboy

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i think u should ask him about his desire and if ok u can go
and if not u can ask him politly to set u free
but if u feel ok and u will stand go on and if not dont even try couse slavery is not always nice and funny u can set home for 12 hours alone looking to the wall while ur master is out
think alote

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 7/31/2008 8:56:06 PM

Surrenderwithin

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His goal could be to hear the you from within and see what you can and will personally come up with. I would recommend that you seek his opinion about whether you can look outside of yourself and to your peers for ideas.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 12:02:38 AM

sunshinemiss

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Greetings not,

I'm sensing a theme here... It's a relationship between you and him...

Try some meditation, art work, listen to some songs or look at photos that speak to you... why do these speak to you? What happens in the quiet part of your head?

Sorry, but it's YOUR work, we can't do it for you. If you want to toss out some ideas, I'm sure you would get some feedback.

But honey, this ain't no submissive soup kitchen.

,
good luck,
sunshine

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 3:15:42 AM

simpleplan2

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Since you're just playing, the sky is the limit! Do all the stuff you've always wondered about but didn't have the guts to try...and it doesn't have to be sexual. Least, that's what I'd do.

Oh yeah, and I'm pretty much with Aquatic here...I don't consider myself anyone's sister 'cept my blood siblings

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 3:36:18 AM

Dnomyar

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You people need to learn to keep it simple. Get a bunch of porn pics and lay them out in front of him and let him choose what he would like to do.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 5:06:37 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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fast reply

first of all, i'm not your fellow submissive sister. second, the best things said always come from the heart no matter how stupid it sounds.

good luck

< Message edited by sambamanslilgirl -- 8/1/2008 5:07:35 AM >

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 8:04:52 AM

Hissltora

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While i have deep reservations on whether you can be 'enslaved' for just a week, it seems like what you are going to experience is more like an extended scene or play weekend, i second, third and fourth everyone before me who has said do this work from within. Dang, if you can't even think of what makes you all hot and tingly and melty, how are you going to address the seriously intense mental work being enslaved can lead to?

Read porn, sift through the 'net, listen to passionate music, look deep inside and ask what shadowy things in the corner of your mind need to be brought out and examined. Sir had me do something like this once, and i immediately asked Him whether this was something i could carry to my hartschwester, or if He intended me to do this on my own. i didn't just assume i had the right.

Also, don't worry so much that he isn't going to find whatever you want hot. i've the feeling if he doesn't want what you want, he won't use it. Doms can be pretty self-sufficient/self-directive. You might just be providing him with guidelines.

As a side note, as i do not live in the same household, i am not owned by the same person as you submit to, i am not your sub sister. Definitely not your slave sister either. That's a fairly annoying net'ism.

slave tora, devoted to Sir N

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 9:02:48 AM

DiurnalVampire

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He is not looking for a right answer. Getting ideas from someone else isnt going to give you a better shot at finding what he wants. What he wants is to see how you think. I have done similiar things with my boys. Keep in mind too that if he knows you well, for a year as you said, he is also going to be able to easily spot when an idea did NOT come from you. He knows a bit about how you think, and if something is way out of line he will catch it. Is that a chance you are wiling to take?
He wants to get your answer. Even if it sounds silly, it comes from you and if it isnt great it will at least be workable.

DV

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 2:40:19 PM

Focus50

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quote:

ORIGINAL: notnewnotexp

Hi. I was hoping to get some help from some other subs. I've come upon a circumstance where I will be serving a new Dom for a short time. One of my pre-assignments is for me to come up with a hot and creative way for me to beg him to enslave me for the week (in person.) I do know that his intention for the week is to have total mental control, but I am not sure how much sexual activity he is planning on. I am not very creative and just can't think of anything that doesn't seem totally stupid. Does anyone out there have some suggestions for something that would really wow him?

By the way.. This is someone I have known in real life for over a year, so it's not like I am meeting some stranger to enslave me without knowing he is safe.

BTW, if a Dom/Me should come across this and have a suggestion, it would be more than welcome.

Thank you in advance for your help!!

I have nothing but sympathy for submissives who seek a Dom/me to lead and take charge of them etc and all they get is a clueless or lazy figure-head who "leads" by assigning their sub a task of figuring out ways for the Dom/me to lead and take charge.... Arrggghhhh!!!!!

I'm aware you asked for fem/sub advice (I'd really be unloading if you posted this in 'Ask a Master'... lol) but I get soooo cheesed at dom cop-outs like this! And stop beating yourself up - clearly the one lacking creativity is *him*! I really hafta wonder just how creative a dom is if he can't even figure out how best to enable a compliant submissive to please him beyond sending her out to do his research....

Take a book with you - it could be a looooong, slow week....

Focus.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 2:54:32 PM

BotanicalMiss

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I think I got a completely different vibe from the OP's post. In my mind, she is looking for a creative way to do the actual begging to be enslaved, not creative ways to be enslaved or things for him to do to her or vice versa. Either way, literotica or other story sites may have some good ideas, and knowing him for a year in real she should know at least some of what he thinks is hot. And it may not really need to be "hot" to be creative... stripping down to a gstring and tassled nipple pasties, crawling to him with tassles swinging and a leash in her mouth sounds like a pretty nifty idea even if it would provoke a giggle (if it were me someone approached in that manner).

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 3:17:46 PM

OTKkindaGirl

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a hot and creative way to beg to be taken and serve..... *smile*

seems like an easy enough assignment unless begging isn't your thing. and even then, there are creative ways to present yourself that even he may find irresistable. anybody can give you ideas, and our ideas may sound silly to you but it is your submission that he is looking for and wanting presented to him.

if it is something that you want and you seem silly to yourself, perhaps it is because to you, it is a bit humiliating. by submitting in humble humility, that is when your mind, heart, and soul are truly exposed. you may blush but if he is worth half his salt, he will recognize you in the full glory of your submissiveness. who wouldn't want to see that?

good luck to you sister.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 3:37:29 PM

OnlyHisLovebug

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I'm thinking that Him having "total mental control" when it's just for a week, and it sounds like you have not served Him before, might be a bit of a stretch. I think both you, and He, might be disappointed if you don't keep it in perspective.

As for creative ways to beg Him to enslave you- I think it's best to play to your strengths. Are you a very verbal person? Comfortable with putting things into words? Or would some sort of non-verbal (perhaps a dance or provacative photos) be more up your alley? If you don't go with what you feel is natural, it's likely to feel very fake and corny- and I don't know that it would serve His purpose...or yours...as it could make things awkward for both of you.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 6:49:39 PM

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i am definitely not into "begging" unless it is something that happens spontaneously and in the heat of the moment. i much prefer to be "taken"...usually one of the things i discuss with partners beforehand. i realize many love it on both sides of the kneel but i am glad there are a few that don't.

i agree this is your assignment - good luck~

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/1/2008 7:00:45 PM

Samii

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I say sit down with a pen and paper write down what first comes ti mind and then put it togeather, like a rough draft for a story!
good luck

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