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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 7:38:43 PM

KittenWithaTwist

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BTW, many people have addressed the original post as not being able to ORGASM for a year, rather than being able to MASTURBATE for a year. My question to the OP is...Have you been permitted orgasm during sessions with your dominant, or are you restricted from both masturbation and orgasm at all times?

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 12:28:40 AM

wipmebeetme100

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I think you should masturbate every day for the next year.

Is this like a blanket statement for everyone?
A suggestion for us all, right?

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 5:29:25 AM

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I'm not allowed to masturbate or orgasm without permission.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 6:07:47 AM

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As a lesbian sub with a strong sex drive, I have had Dommes restrict me from masturbation and all sex for a period of time, e.g., 3-14 days, but almost always as a prelude to a sex party or sex use by her and her friends.
Best, sue

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 10:41:30 AM

Mauigurrlxxx

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Thanks for your responses, here is the answer to your question. I have been restricted from masturbating completely with or without orgasm. I have also been not had an orgasm or sex for three months and however I was manually brought to orgasm once in the past three months. Prior to that I was allowed to orgasm a couple times a month. No sexual release whatsover is probably my most difficult challenge as well as the fact that prior to my masturbation restriction I was a 3-6 time a day masturbator in addition I used alot of pain to achieve climax so its twinfold restriction for me.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 11:02:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx

Thanks for your responses, here is the answer to your question. I have been restricted from masturbating completely with or without orgasm. I have also been not had an orgasm or sex for three months and however I was manually brought to orgasm once in the past three months. Prior to that I was allowed to orgasm a couple times a month. No sexual release whatsover is probably my most difficult challenge as well as the fact that prior to my masturbation restriction I was a 3-6 time a day masturbator in addition I used alot of pain to achieve climax so its twinfold restriction for me.

i do feel different people respond differently to this kind of treatment, as indeed we are all different inside or outside of the lifestyle. i began to feel some five years ago that the act of sex had not been particularly what i needed, i was getting pleasure in other ways from my Master....in particular i found myself becoming interested in receiving pain in various degrees and forms, and that virtually always took me to the edge of orgasm, y'know that very second or two before you explode?
i loved been taken there and left, because once over the top i'd lost the mindset.......this way its a constant, and not a transient as i see orgasm.....
i cannot believe that i've actually not missed being allowed orgasm, though when Master has allowed it, it has generally been through other methods than penetration or masturbation........often a pussy whipping or a ginger figging, both of which drive me to distraction........
by the way i have been collared to Master for 5 yrs now and we don't have sex at all, though i have previously been allowed sex outside of our relationship.
and fastlane........i do hope you confessed to the priest!!!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 2:54:17 PM

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me too. I am forbidden from masturbation and definitely orgasm withour permission...and in the early days I didn't think he would be able to tell but he could....how do they do that !

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 5:26:22 PM

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Have you ever been restricted from masturbating? For how long? Were you told why and what was the reason? How did you feel during and after?

I've been restricted from masturbating for as long as I have been Master's property - which is pushing six years now. Why? Because my orgasms belong to Him, not me, and I will have them when He wishes me to have them, not whenever I want them. He usually allows me to orgasm at least once when He is home which, even though we live in the same house, is only two days every other weekend. If He chooses not to allow it, then I get to wait until the next time He's home.

I'm INFINITELY grateful that He no longer makes me masturbate every day WITHOUT orgasm! That was something He enjoyed doing when we lived apart and saw each other on the weekends. It drove me up the wall, but it served the purpose He wanted it to serve... quite well, in fact.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/18/2005 8:16:27 PM

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When i was with my ex Mistress, i was never allowed to masturbate, i was told that any pleasure i felt should be given me by her.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/19/2005 12:08:13 AM

Mauigurrlxxx

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Thank you thank you thank you, the last post really hit the nail, the control of when i receive pleasure from my most favorite private intimate entity that i used to own now belongs to him, very poignant. Thank you to all of you, i am grateful for your sincere replies and responses.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/19/2005 3:12:49 AM

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quote:

Have you ever been restricted from masturbating? For how long? Were you told why and what was the reason? How did you feel during and after? I hav been restricted from masturbating for almost a year now and just wanted some feedback from other subs/slaves.

I remember one time when i was late arriving at Masters house (ok, so it was a chronic problem that i had) ....he told me that since it seemed i did not have the time for him, maybe i needed to eliminate a few activities to make that time for him. Masturbation was one of those activities....it was for 2 weeks....and it was the longest two weeks of my life so far.
If you have lasted a year.....pat yourself on the back, you are a strong, strong person.

cathy

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/19/2005 12:15:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: wipmebeetme100

quote:

I think you should masturbate every day for the next year.

Is this like a blanket statement for everyone?
A suggestion for us all, right?

smiles,
cathy

Yup, definitely sounds like a direct order to me, Cathy...I think we should all get on with this task, asap, don't you?

Cin - still denies being a smart-ass

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/19/2005 1:37:28 PM

submissivesilk

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i have to ask first, but Sir has never said no. Of course W/we do not live together yet.

silk

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/19/2005 2:12:23 PM

comesoncommand

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Well put, evanesce. i don't masturbate or orgasm without permission for the same reason...my orgasms belong to Him (and are a gift from me to Him).

A twist on this topic... my creative Master has only allowed me oral pleasure once in almost a year. i have a fantasy of being with another woman, and to support my desire to turn fantasy into reality i'm not allowed oral pleasure until it is another woman's lips. Yes, it drives me crazy. But i also think about how hot it will be when i DO get to be with another woman, and i'm in outer space with one well placed kiss *big grin*.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/21/2005 7:31:18 AM

MastersBabieGirl

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i went 4 days i went mental sex was all i could think about
my master had to go away and wanted me to orgasm hard for him when he got back omg i dont think i stopped for two days after lol

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/21/2005 7:36:40 AM

SelkiePet

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wow, I cannot fathom NOT masturbating for that length of time! I've never been told I wasn't allowed but if He reads this it may give Him some ideas LOL!

But I think I would go stark raving mad - unless I was lucky enough to get the orgasms from Him - which I would far rather!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/21/2005 2:04:11 PM

jadenth

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if i am restricted from pleasing myself it is usually for a couple days before my master has a session planned for us so i wont be quite as sensitive and will be able to handle more of what he does to me. he uses that technique on me because one of his favorite things to do to me is orgasm denial while he plays with me, but i tend to get too sensitive to his touch after a while and he finally lets me fall into multiples. my master tends to give me a "weekly assignment" to do in that area, ie who to include in my fantacy as i play, how often he wants me to play, where he wants me to put the toy in preperation of his next session, ect. and, of course, he requires that i tell him exactly what i thought about and did durring each of the assignments.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/21/2005 2:30:23 PM

Littlepita

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subaltern1

me too. I am forbidden from masturbation and definitely orgasm withour permission...and in the early days I didn't think he would be able to tell but he could....how do they do that !

They are mind readers! I actually sort of believe that too. My Sir has this uncanny way of knowing me and we're long distance.

I am allowed to masturbate. He prefers that I ask him first unless I happen to be in bed fantasizing about him and just can't control myself anymore. Plus, he wants my sex drive up for when we are together in 3 months.

When we play on the phone I have to ask him if I can orgasm. Hopefully he tells me no a couple of times and makes me bet. God I love that!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/21/2005 3:23:47 PM

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Have you ever been restricted from masturbating? For how long? Were you told why and what was the reason? How did you feel during and after? I hav been restricted from masturbating for almost a year now and just wanted some feedback from other subs/slaves.
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since i am not part of the normal human race.........and have not had sex since 2001..........
masturbating? not very often..no. and soon to have my p.a. and guiche locked up.
take care

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/21/2005 9:52:47 PM

BalletBob

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I've been restricted before for a week, na ddidn't like it one bit as a punishment. Since I don't have a Mistress now, I can "Workout" anytime and almost anywhere I want....LOL

Not Missing it now, BalletBob

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