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anal virgins - 8/1/2008 9:30:03 PM

stan39

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to the Dommes if you know a sub if a bit interested,and know is a anal virgin, If know you dont want him do you try and take his virginity

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RE: anal virgins - 8/1/2008 10:48:22 PM

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stan39,

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to the Dommes if you know a sub if a bit interested,and know is a anal virgin, If know you dont want him do you try and take his virginity

Translating...

I think what you're asking is: to the Dommes, if you know a sub is a bit interested and know the sub is an anal virgin, if you want him, do you try to take his virginity?

Here's my answer (albeit, I'm not a Domina). I think most Dominas, within reason, take what they want regardless of whether the submissive is interested or not. Note, the key aspect in consensual BDSM relationships is the phrase "within reason". If the submissive indicates anal sex is a hard limit, any Domina I know wouldn't cross this limit and I dare say any responsible Domina wouldn't cross this limit. Keep in mind that loving partners usually do things for each other so given that there are no limits involved, a lot depends on how much enjoyment each person derives from anal sex. Some Dominas might do this just to please their partner, regardless of their own interest in anal play. Other Dominas, if not interested, might not touch it. The ideal situation, of course, is if both people find this a turn-on and enjoyable, in which case the answer to your question is probably "yes". :-)

Elan.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 2:02:02 AM

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i've read somewhere that one of top Female fantasies is to have their own cock for a night. That leads me to the conclusion that many Dommes and Mistresses must be pushy about 'opening' their boys. my personal experience only confirms it. :)

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 4:09:08 AM

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Lol I'm still a virgin in all aspects so I find this kind of interesting.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 5:30:52 AM

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I was my boy Westie's first experience with a Domme. I never thought I would want a boy so young and so inexperienced. 'To much trouble to train 'em' was my first reaction when he approached me. Now, I'm really enjoying showing him all kinds of new things. I'm not going to 'out' the boy on what he's learning from me.... but I will admit that I've taken great joy in being his 'First' for a lot of things.

So - yeah... the answer is a BIG YES!

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 6:40:37 AM

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Fast reply....

Taking a new (virgin) sub with a strapon would be the first thing on my to do list...

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 7:05:22 AM

stan39

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nice Diane I wish you were closer

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 7:09:20 AM

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Fast reply....

Taking a new (virgin) sub with a strapon would be the first thing on my to do list...

Diane

I just knew we had things in common.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 7:18:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB

Fast reply....

Taking a new (virgin) sub with a strapon would be the first thing on my to do list...

Diane

I just knew we had things in common.

Yes we do.

Diane

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 10:23:01 AM

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LadyPact,

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DianeB:
Taking a new (virgin) sub with a strapon would be the first thing on my to do list...

LadyPact:
I just knew we had things in common.

Yes, I realize Diane has the low-down on cruel, sadistic, bitchiness (and I mean this in a good way), but I put it to you that distance is her equal.

Oh. Right. I'm not a "virgin". Still, this is just a mere technicality.

*trots off for a cold shower*

Elan.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 10:30:36 AM

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i've read somewhere that one of top Female fantasies is to have their own cock for a night.

I can tell you I wasn't included in that survey.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 11:03:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: DianeB
Fast reply....

Taking a new (virgin) sub with a strapon would be the first thing on my to do list...

I just knew we had things in common.
Yes we do.

Nobody has fisted me yet, :) if that coutns as a sort of virginity. ;)

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 12:41:48 PM

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There is a 'first time' for everything!

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 9:22:08 PM

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gawd i love being fisted

strapon is fun but being fisted by my mistress is awesome

shes gone for a week but cums back monday ..gawd i cant wait ...first thing i will ask her after the hugs is mistress will you please fuck and fist me

i might be tight for her ..hey its been over a week --lol but the way she opens me up and gets me to relax with the strapons after that her fist slides right in

gawd that feeling is amazing ..cant believe how much i crave that so

plus no prostate release in over a week too as soon as she fists me i will be dripping cum once thats awesome fingers of hers finds my prostate

she knows my ass and prostate well i must say

yes fisting is awesome ..love being fisted by my lady

have fun ..mal ..and yes you will open up with enough practice for her to slide in

and enough lube of course

hello Ms S

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RE: anal virgins - 8/2/2008 11:37:34 PM

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Someone put a newspaper under the puppy

He's piddling on the rug again.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/3/2008 3:01:20 AM

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Please a bowl, Miss. :) The puppy might need to be fed with its favorite cream pie.

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RE: anal virgins - 8/3/2008 4:09:09 AM

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love creampies too

but that should be a different topic posting ....shouldnt it ?

..good day mal

..come on monday

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RE: anal virgins - 8/3/2008 4:46:32 AM

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Mal puts a unique spin on every thread, doesn't he? Cum on Monday? I think that was a porn movie wasn't it?

Luv Ya, Mal! Mean it!

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RE: anal virgins - 8/3/2008 5:01:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

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ORIGINAL: sillyslaveboy

i've read somewhere that one of top Female fantasies is to have their own cock for a night.

I can tell you I wasn't included in that survey.