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Toys, Spanking, Impliments and respect and trust! And M... - 8/2/2008 2:18:11 PM

BIllCT

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I used to date a submissive in Norwalk, CT, and we started very slowly as I am sure most couples do.
It seemed to me, I always wondered what she wanted and how far she was willing to go untill I got there.
The first time i met her, we had coffee and a lunch. The second time we went to her place.
Now when we started scening or playing or whatever you wish to call it, it was interesting because we were basically experimenting with one another in many ways. But her main thing was being spanked and that would make her wet, happy and more submissive and ready for anything period.
The first time we scened and ended up naked, it was barehanded spanking of her that got us there.
The second time we expanded to floggers and crops. and Then the third time it became cuffs, barehanded spankings, floggers,crops, and then a belt too.

Toys were added as we went along such a vibrators and dildos also . We had a very good thing going and she never failed to serve correctly or to be happy herself.
After a year together and my traveling to her, she sold her home and moved on and got married. So, even though I miss her, I wished her the best of course. It was a special relationship because not only was it BDSM and D/s combined in many ways, it was a full trust and respect thing between both of us and she knew what I wanted and I knew what she wanted and we both got what we wanted out of it all. She trusted me, by what I did for and to her and vice versa as we went along it grew greater between us. At the final time we met and scened together in her home, it was complete trust and respect for each other and hours of scening and pleasures. I find it extremely important to the submissive as well as to myself as the Dominant that we both had full respect, and trust for each other, and we both had openess and understanding of what we both were seeking and getting once we started.
Yes I do miss this type of relationship, with a female submisisve in my life, but I am not saying I want to rush into anything, nor am I complaining of submissives not meeting me. For if a submissive just meets anyone quickly they are foolish without knowing whom they meet. But I do think, submissives, as well as us Dominants need to be open, honest, and willing to talk to and maybe meet if what you are looking for is out there at least. And following all safety rules and taking all precautions I do agree with. So who knows maybe I will meet someone again and see how it goes someday.

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RE: Toys, Spanking, Impliments and respect and trust! A... - 8/3/2008 2:01:33 AM

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I hope you find what you're looking for, but unless there's an attached question, this probably belongs in your profile or journal, not in the forums. It seems like an ad.

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RE: Toys, Spanking, Impliments and respect and trust! A... - 8/3/2008 2:22:51 AM

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It was a cool and blustery spring day when I met a woman whom I didn’t respect in the least and played with her the very first time. She didn’t respect me either, but that made the play disgustingly better. It was the kind of play that made you want to wash with Clorox when you got home. We played often, but I always left my wallet in my car except once when she stole 20 bucks from me, but that’s okay because I had taken a 50 out of her handbag the week before.

I got some great nude pics of her up in a sling and me using the green rubber glove and when she got married, I made her pay me off with BJ’s and cash to get her pics back.

We started out with me spanking her, too, but then we got into bondage. We only did that once because once I had her restrained I tattooed property of right over my name across her abdomen. Yeah, we had full mistrust and hatred for each other.

After a year of blissful play at her house, the bail bondsman took it from her. I do miss this kind of relationship.

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RE: Toys, Spanking, Impliments and respect and trust! A... - 8/3/2008 3:40:56 AM

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I had rushed out that day feeling flustered and un-organised. Completely forgot panties or a bra (silly me!) just slipped into a mini skirt, a tight lycra T and some sneakers.
It was the day before Christmas and as usual I still hadn't bought everything on my list.
Entering the toy store for the last few items on my list the flood of chilled air from the air-conditioning tightened my nipples and gave me a twinge of pleasure. It was a relief to get out from the early summer heat.
I grabbed a " slip and slide" from the shelves and added it to my trolly, next was the classic twister game (I already had baby oil at home.) My eyes lit up when I saw "Electric Shocking Roulette". ooooooooh!...but there was only one left and it was slightly out of my reach on a top shelf.
I remembered seeing some steps somewhere in store. I found a sales assistant tidying a shelf, a dark haired lad with a thin face and lanky body. His badge said "Hi I'm Marvin".
"Marvin" (I said) "Do you mind if I take these?" I spoke to him over my shoulder as I bent down and placed both hands on the steps.
Marvins thick eyebrows shot up as he stammered a "No" with a voice that would make Barry White sound like a contralto in comparison.
Dragging the steps over I stretched on tip toe to grab the much desired item. Marvin obviously a conscientious employee had followed behind me.
The steps were rickety and I wobbled a bit trying to balance. Without a word (because I suck at writing dialogue) Marvin moved forward to place his very large hands on my thighs to steady me.
Now this was rather distracting and I nudged the toy box further out of my reach instead of towards me. I sighed in exasperation and leaned even further.
That's when I felt a hand slide up my thigh and two fingers slide with delicious ease inside me. I trusted him completely, the firm control of his fingers balancing me was exactly what I needed. A short fifteen minutes later I had managed to grasp my prize and headed home triumphant.
I do miss this kind of helpful sale service.
Who knows maybe I will meet someone who is willing to be my own personal shopping assistant and I can have this kind of service all the time.

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RE: Toys, Spanking, Impliments and respect and trust! A... - 8/3/2008 7:29:47 AM

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The last two posts are golden!

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