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RE: Older Men - 8/9/2008 9:16:44 AM   
DianeB


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EDIT; I made a boo boo....I am not into younger men. I do not play with men under the age of 40.


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ORIGINAL: WhoisJohnGalt

If I may be so bold, what is it you like about a younger sub? Is it just that the flesh is firmer or is it something else?

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john galt

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RE: Older Men - 8/9/2008 5:43:13 PM   
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I get a lot of applications from men in their 60's who start out with 'age isn't an issue with me, I hope it isn't for you', so I ask how many Dommes their own age they've applied to [let alone those an equal # of years older than they are than they are to me].  Apparently age IS an issue for them; they're used to dishing it out, but they can't take their own double-standard.
As for condom-education, there are a lot of slutty guys in their 50's with vasectomies who never used condoms.

And speaking of double-standards, how many SAM's here would argue with a 40 year-old male dom who had a preference for subs under 50?
DS, dudes, DS.


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RE: Older Men - 8/9/2008 6:57:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB

EDIT; I made a boo boo....I am not into younger men. I do not play with men under the age of 40.


Diane



Phew! Thank goodness! I was afraid I would have to take you off my "keep on wishing and hoping and maybe I'll actually get a chance to meet her some day" list.

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RE: Older Men - 8/9/2008 8:48:59 PM   
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I doubt I'd want to date anyone more than five years older than I am, and right now that would be 54-ish.  He'd have to be in pretty good shape, though.  Generally, I find my best matches to be between 40 and 50.

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RE: Older Men - 8/9/2008 9:55:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I doubt I'd want to date anyone more than five years older than I am, and right now that would be 54-ish.  He'd have to be in pretty good shape, though.  Generally, I find my best matches to be between 40 and 50.


What shape do you prefer Venatrix?  Twisted is the one that immediately comes to mind here.
 
Oh, and what happens when a man who's 50 turns 51?  The clock is ticking...
 
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RE: Older Men - 8/9/2008 10:04:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I doubt I'd want to date anyone more than five years older than I am, and right now that would be 54-ish.  He'd have to be in pretty good shape, though.  Generally, I find my best matches to be between 40 and 50.


What shape do you prefer Venatrix?  Twisted is the one that immediately comes to mind here.
 
Oh, and what happens when a man who's 50 turns 51?  The clock is ticking...
 
 - pixel




Actually, the shape I prefer most is when he's on his knees.  Given how many men lie about their age, I didn't think any of them turned 51.  Another illusion shattered.  This domme-thing is turning out to be much more complicated than I expected.

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 2:41:46 AM   
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I doubt I'd want to date anyone more than five years older than I am, and right now that would be 54-ish.  He'd have to be in pretty good shape, though.  Generally, I find my best matches to be between 40 and 50.


Rounded is a shape Ma`am, although i concede being on my knees may be a better one. Sadly i have the body of a 55 year old, whatever that is, since i am 55. Yet i have the impishness of a 4 year old, which i guess could be either a delight or a pita, depending on ones view.

Edited for spelling

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 6:46:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I doubt I'd want to date anyone more than five years older than I am, and right now that would be 54-ish.  He'd have to be in pretty good shape, though.  Generally, I find my best matches to be between 40 and 50.


Rounded is a shape Ma`am, although i concede being on my knees may be a better one. Sadly i have the body of a 55 year old, whatever that is, since i am 55. Yet i have the impishness of a 4 year old, which i guess could be either a delight or a pita, depending on ones view.

Edited for spelling


I'm already madly in love with a round-shaped male who's the equivalent of 60 years old.  As long as you don't sit on my face first thing in the morning or groom yourself with your tongue, there may be hope for you yet.

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 9:01:50 AM   
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How do you feel about owning an older man...say over 50?  Is age an issue?  Or do you look more at the person...


Having one for 12 years.. I can say.. it's all fun and games before the prostate goes.  It does something to a man.  The mental stress of the changes of the body function just creates a depression.  It happened to my hubby and my slave.  Hubby is just coming round after 3 years post surgery.. slave is just a few months out.. I just love them through it all.  That's when you know if you have a real relationship or just a play partner.
 
I still  most definitely;y prefer an older man over a younger one.  There is the "slow hand" feature.. they contribute ideas from their life experiences and consider the Dommes first and not themselves.  (At least that is the way it is for me).  They know a good woman when they meet one :)

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 1:41:13 PM   
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All I'd like to say is, this thread has left me (a 46 year old switch) feeling much better about myself. Thanks, OP, for starting it up! :)

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 2:02:23 PM   
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Now why did I come here?

Oh yes, to ramble on age.

The advantages of boys over forty.
 
Sewing thread serves just fine for bondage,
saving on the cost of more expenisve rope.
 
His forgetfulness leads to longer sessions
of devotion, as safe words escape him.
 
That always present trembling impresses your
friends as a sure sign of his fear for you.
 
Those naturally low hanging balls prevent the
unnecessary purchase of costly stretchers.
 
In the Dommes vs subs charade competion, his
stuttering assures absolute victory for Her side.
 
It is easy to convince him that he has actually
lived in that broom closet all his life.
 
While driving Mistress Daisy, his pace allows for the
additional time needed for efficent window shopping.
 
Showing him his bald baby pictures convinces him
that he does indeed still wear diapers.
 
When he tries to run away from Her, there's plenty of time
for Her to finish that avacado salad before beginning pursuit. 
 
Take away his glasses and he will worship that
corset on the clothesline for hours and hours.
 
The onset of arthritis locks him in that kneeling
position, allowing for extended periods of adoration.
 
Switching Aleve for his Viagra serves for some
wonderful moments of complete frustration.
 
Take away his teeth, give him a candied apple,
and She can keep him occupied for days.
 
The groans he makes standing up will convince those
in the other room that She's quite the disciplinarian.
 
Suspend him from the ceiling with candy in his mouth,
tell him it's rope play, then throw a fun-filled Pinata Party.
 
She can strip him naked, walk him on a leash, and
the neighborhood will think he's just Her shar pei.
 
And................................................................
 
His journey has moved him beyond the playground
of fantasy, folly and fable into greater understanding.
 
He accepts as precious, each moment he is allowed
to serve under Her shadow.
 
It is understood that ego, pride and selfishness serve
only as obstacle in his adoration for Her.
 
There is great joy and fulfillment of heart in uplifting
Her to greater heights of glory.
 
He assumes nothing about Her, as Her desires and
requirements will exact seasons of change.
 
There is understanding that honesty, truth and trust
shall always be stronger bonds than rope or chains.
 
It is realized that She seeks not a puppet, for a blank
and emotionless mind serves only as a lifeless toy.
 
He possesses self-worth, for without such he 
becomes worthless as Her possession.
 
He cherishes Her beyond mere man made pedestals,
for such can crack and crumble with the test of time.
 
Each moment of his day recalls Her command and
requirement, as he must be a reflection of Her always.
 
Flowers fade, perfume wafts away, his true gifts are
love, adoration, devotion, surrender and obedience.
 
In a world which is quick to condemn that which it does
not understand, he understands Her to be his world.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 5:16:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I doubt I'd want to date anyone more than five years older than I am, and right now that would be 54-ish.  He'd have to be in pretty good shape, though.  Generally, I find my best matches to be between 40 and 50.


What shape do you prefer Venatrix?  Twisted is the one that immediately comes to mind here.
 
Oh, and what happens when a man who's 50 turns 51?  The clock is ticking...
 
 - pixel




Actually, the shape I prefer most is when he's on his knees.  Given how many men lie about their age, I didn't think any of them turned 51.  Another illusion shattered.  This domme-thing is turning out to be much more complicated than I expected.



Gosh Venatrix, I didn't want to destroy the illusions of a domme!  You mean dommes have illusions too and it's not just us s-types?   Wow, this D/s thing can indeed be complicated at times!
 
A 51 y/o man on his knees before you?  Sounds like a nice place to be.  
 
That said, would you be willing to help him up afterward if he'd been there a while?
 
 - pixel



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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 5:24:18 PM   
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Well my new sir is 10 years older than me. It seems to have made him way more romantic and courtly. That slow hand? Well all I can say is....*puddles 

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RE: Older Men - 8/10/2008 9:17:17 PM   
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In my vanilla life I have always attracted older gentlemen so I have naturally migrated toolder subs. The personal connection is always very important. Since joining this site I have attracted younger subs.

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RE: Older Men - 8/13/2008 2:57:34 PM   
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I am new to this forum but have read this post with great interest.  I will be 55 in about a month and have always wondered how dominate females feel about submissive men my age.  Reading these posts is encouraging.  I am fairly new at this and really am not sure how to go about meeting someone in my area who might want to dominate me.  Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.  

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RE: Older Men - 8/13/2008 3:06:20 PM   
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The best lover I had was 54 years old and he now is 56 has a lady that is 26.  I think he still has it goin on! lol  There is life after fifty guys! lol

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RE: Older Men - 8/13/2008 3:49:29 PM   
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There is life after fifty guys!


After fifty guys, I think I'd be dead.

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RE: Older Men - 8/13/2008 4:09:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

There is life after fifty guys!


After fifty guys, I think I'd be dead.


But with a huge smile on Your face Ma`am..... < smiles sweetly >

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RE: Older Men - 8/13/2008 4:09:32 PM   
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ROFL

Edit... I was trying to encourage... got myself in deep with that one!  You all made me cry on that one! omg...

< Message edited by Lockit -- 8/13/2008 4:12:08 PM >

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RE: Older Men - 8/13/2008 5:20:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

There is life after fifty guys!


After fifty guys, I think I'd be dead.


But with a huge smile on Your face Ma`am..... < smiles sweetly >


It's the attempt at walking properly after doing 50 guys that would kill me!

< Message edited by MamaDomme1 -- 8/13/2008 5:22:53 PM >

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