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SlavHeart321 -> Left my Master (8/2/2008 6:42:14 PM)
I recently was with this guy as his slave, but It didn't work out because he kept showing me that he wasn't in control 100%. It's either all or nothing: I'm either gonna be a slave to the right guy, or not at all. I don't want to waste my time.

angelwithhonor -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 6:46:03 PM)
*....isnt a shame that W/we think O/ones will fullfill O/our needs ..B/both deserving of all and taking nothing less of that. i hope your search finds you that peaceful desire of 100%[:)]*

AMaster -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 6:49:06 PM)
As with finding any kind of relationship, one may have to kiss a few frogs before the princely one shows up. Don't rush into anything and hold out for what you truly want.

SlavHeart321 -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 6:50:51 PM)
I do really miss him a lot sometimes. But I don't know if I could trust him again.

SirWAX -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 6:52:43 PM)
Um... good to know? Hope you find that person. In response to your question, yes. [:D]

NumberSix -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 7:57:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlavHeart321 I recently was with this guy as his slave, but It didn't work out because he kept showing me that he wasn't in control 100%. It's either all or nothing: I'm either gonna be a slave to the right guy, or not at all. I don't want to waste my time. I don't get it, color me stupid... How do you define 100% of an intangible? What is all and what is nothing? The overwhelming paradox is (to me).. How would a slave have a concept (or allowed the thought of) 'MY time'? You have a my? What does that look like? Ron

KatyLied -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:15:28 PM)
Maybe he's not into micromanagement.

Leatherist -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:16:43 PM)
You were the one "in control".

sunshinemiss -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:21:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NumberSix quote: ORIGINAL: SlavHeart321 I recently was with this guy as his slave, but It didn't work out because he kept showing me that he wasn't in control 100%. It's either all or nothing: I'm either gonna be a slave to the right guy, or not at all. I don't want to waste my time. I don't get it, color me stupid... How do you define 100% of an intangible? What is all and what is nothing? The overwhelming paradox is (to me).. How would a slave have a concept (or allowed the thought of) 'MY time'? You have a my? What does that look like? Ron What he said.

Hisgirl2playwith -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:31:30 PM)
First of all, Masters are human too and are prone to mistake and bad judgements just like the rest of us.........gee what a concept. Second of all, if You're going to put your Master on a pedastal and expect Him to be 100% in control 100% all of the time, you're setting the relationship up for a very bad fall. Third, i love it when my Master can step out of His "Master" role for a bit, sometimes He just needs a friend, and it's been incredibly strengthening of my bond with Him. Sounds like you're looking for the perfect Master.......be careful..........when You find Him undoubtedly He's also looking for the perfect slave........and it won't be you.

shanaya -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:35:03 PM)
you don't mention how long you were with him . i was wondering if it was only for a couple of months ?? i ask because "Trust" takes time to build, and imo giving complete Power and a Dominant/Domme understands it is wise to slowly increase the Power Control in line with the Trust being built between the two parties. Wish you well on your journey and best wishes shanaya

SlavHeart321 -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:43:51 PM)
Well I stay with him for four mos. And the whole time he kept saying opposite things, and it was the same thing over and over for 4mos. So I got tired of it and left. Now I'm at a point where I can make progress in my own life by myself. I'm not a mouse on a wheel, I don't like going in circles, doing same thing over and over with the same results. I know that if you want something to change you have to acutallly make a change. That guy was already married anyway.

StrongSpirit -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 8:50:40 PM)
I don't know your situation, but I agree that you have not made it clear what happens. Part of the problem is you used one of the most 'absolute' phrases: 100%. The truth is that NO ONE is ever 100% in control. Look at business for example. Most people consider a CEO to be the '100% in control'. But for a big company, he has a Board that he answers to. For a smaller company, he has to kow-tow to vendors and to customers. In your case, if you mean that your dominant got pissed, drunk and yelled at his mother for something silly, then hey, he is out of control and I probably wouldn't play with him. But if you meant that he did not object when a police man gave him a bogus ticket, then the problem is with you, not him.

CruelDesires -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:22:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AMaster As with finding any kind of relationship, one may have to kiss a few frogs before the princely one shows up. Don't rush into anything and hold out for what you truly want. Ribbit. Ribbit. [&:] C-D

XaviersXian -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:32:30 PM)
greetings to all, quote: ORIGINAL: NumberSix quote: ORIGINAL: SlavHeart321 I recently was with this guy as his slave, but It didn't work out because he kept showing me that he wasn't in control 100%. It's either all or nothing: I'm either gonna be a slave to the right guy, or not at all. I don't want to waste my time. I don't get it, color me stupid... How do you define 100% of an intangible? What is all and what is nothing? The overwhelming paradox is (to me).. How would a slave have a concept (or allowed the thought of) 'MY time'? You have a my? What does that look like? Ron I completely agree with this as well. well wishes,

SlavHeart321 -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:40:21 PM)
Not here to philosophy with people. [:D]

SoulPiercer -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:46:04 PM)
Yeah ..... On to our next caller.

MisterStrongWill -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:46:26 PM)
OOH

NumberSix -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:46:40 PM)
What then did you come to see? A reed shaken by the wind? you can philosopy or not with the peoples. But.... Pop by the house, I will gladly slap the dogfuck outta you. You don't get a 'my'. Well; maybe on your birthday, I am not a hard man. Ron

CalifChick -> RE: Left my Master (8/2/2008 9:50:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirWAX In response to your question, yes. There was a question??? I've read it more than once, and I missed the question. Where, oh where, oh where is the question? Cali

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