NENewMexicoSub -> RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * (7/27/2008 2:47:05 PM)
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I just noticed this thread, and it's funny because earlier this afternoon I was flipping through the cable channels, and came across a movie on BET. This is not a channel I watch alot, but there just happened to be a character who used to be in another program I recognized. This character, who was in an almost-partner position at work, played such a submissve character to his girlfriend, who was an attorney. Both outside the bedroom, and especially in the bedroom, she was totally dominant, but the movie made it appear to be a normal, everyday occurrence between men and women. Perhaps some of the vanilla women who were watching it might identify as well and know that they are not 'freaks' or strange because they may be dominant in the bedroom. The same goes for submissive men who are married to women who tend to take the lead. It might help them feel more 'normal' in their relationships. Unfortunately, the general public still seems to think that it is unnatural for a woman to take the lead in anything. Since I am a 'leader' at work, I know that this is still the case. Just my opinion.
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