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RE: Are you REAL - if ya won't move ? Ha. - 8/3/2008 3:55:09 PM

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I'm a collared submissive now, and still in the military so my decisions have to allow for that. currently I'm a long distance or on line submissive till my M'Ladys husband gets reassigned closer to me. while i was looking i did not bother with the ones who did not like my not being able to move to suite them. i am a real submissive just ask anyone thats met me while serving my M'Lady. if the prospective ones start calling names or have a hissy fit then let them i just politely say not interested.

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RE: Are you REAL - if ya won't move ? Ha. - 8/3/2008 5:01:02 PM

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Let 'em get pissy ... it's no skin off my nose. I am not open to relocating, and should someone contact me from outside my distance parameters, I make that perfectly clear. I also have no interest in an online relationship, so I tend to not speak with dominants who are located far away - I see no point, unless we're simply pen pals, outside of any D/s.

Totally agree. I'm not moving. I've already moved to Tennessee from the Carolinas.

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RE: Are you REAL - if ya won't move ? Ha. - 8/3/2008 6:47:39 PM

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I've moved so much, when I walked out of the chain bookstore last night, I couldn't remember where I was. It could have been any chain book store in two different states I've lived in. It kind of freaked me out, and I had to take a minute to ground myself.

What the hell does that have to do with being submissive? Absolutely nothing. :)

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RE: Are you REAL - if ya won't move ? Ha. - 8/3/2008 6:52:32 PM

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I actually want to move. I'm just building up the sort of business that is flexible enough to let me.

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RE: Are you REAL - if ya won't move ? Ha. - 8/3/2008 10:20:18 PM

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Master moved diagonally across country (and that's a long way in Oz) to be with me. Subsequently, He and i have moved to within 300km from where He started! Both moves were made in due consideration of what was best at the time. Neither move has been easy, and it has taken us longer than expected to get an income stream happening here. But the relationship was worth it, no doubt on that.

However, now we are here, I have been continuing to look for a sub, and they would have to be willing to relocate to be with Master and Myself as they would be joining Our household. So I only consider those who indicate they are willing to relocate, and with the understanding that being willing doesn't necessarily mean capable of doing so quickly. There's not likely to be a big local pool in a country city, besides, the best local sub has managed to get her Dom to relocate from a major city to be here with her (winks at angelslave77). So I am probably going to find someone who currently lives elsewhere, but I am strictly limiting My search to people in Australia, not going through the whole angst of trying to get someone into the country from overseas! I just wish all those from overseas who contact Me would read that in My profile and actually believe it! It's just not that easy to get into Oz these days!

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RE: Are you REAL - if ya won't move ? Ha. - 8/4/2008 2:56:57 AM

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We have all seen them, insecure little dims hiding behind their 'Dom' label and squeeking "If you where submissive you'd do what I want" at subs and slaves.... which is of course total bull.The girl maybe submissive but until she submits to you then she is not your submissive and frankly owes you NOTHING.... such folks need to go look up "Consent" in a dictionary as it is something they haven't got and thus they are in no position to make demands.

I am sure that if the OP met someone in real time, found the right chemistry and built the trust, if they then needed to move away then that would be a possibility.... However if that person is a Dominant then They would have a duty of care and have looked at whether such a move is in the girls best interests before having them do so.

To comit to moving right off the bat, before trust has been established is down right stupid....that takes time to build.

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