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RE: Playing: Private vs Public - 8/6/2008 4:41:12 PM

Mercnbeth

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There is nothing that compares to private uninhibited sexually oriented private play in our little home dungeon. Its even better in our private backyard using our modified 'love swing' frame. Except of course, uninhibited sexually oriented public play utilizing all the props, furniture, and equipment at a club.

Is this one of those trick questions akin to; "Is there such a thing as a bad blow job?"?

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RE: Playing: Private vs Public - 8/7/2008 10:09:20 AM

IvyMorgan

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I always thought no way would I EVER play or do anything in public. Even kissing.... no not for me.

Then last Saturday I went to Subversion with friends.... it was amazing. I got so into it, watching the scenes and the people and.... loved it.

I didnt have to get naked, as I had feared, or even lose my top. Much. I was on a St Andrews cross and hurt in a subtle but terrible way....

Already making plans to go back. And try and lose more inhibitions!

We did say we'd draw you out a bit *smiles* and that you'd blend in more in more exhibitionist clothes.

Incidentally, I don't really do PDA, but will play in public. There's a difference between being flodded and kissed.

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RE: Playing: Private vs Public - 8/7/2008 10:19:10 AM

Leatherist

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There is nothing that compares to private uninhibited sexually oriented private play in our little home dungeon. Its even better in our private backyard using our modified 'love swing' frame. Except of course, uninhibited sexually oriented public play utilizing all the props, furniture, and equipment at a club.

Is this one of those trick questions akin to; "Is there such a thing as a bad blow job?"?

It depends a lot on the club as well. When they have the background music cranked up tp 80 decibels-people you really dislike are gawking at you....and others are standing in line pestering you to hurry up through the dm's so they can push you off the equipment and use it-not something I would call condusive to having a good time.

And have to pay for it on top of that-I quit attending.

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RE: Playing: Private vs Public - 8/7/2008 10:26:03 AM

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I like both private and public.
The only edge private has is that i can do the things clubs don't allow or that people complain about.

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RE: Playing: Private vs Public - 8/9/2008 2:14:23 AM

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As with a lot of people, I'd say both. It's always fun to fufill that dirty fantasy brewing in the back of your head in the comfort of your own home where no strange random person sniggers at you. On the flip side, my first time playing in public was a very good one. It was a very small, private party at a hall, where everyone was quite polite and understanding. I dropped into subspace so even if there were loud comments or what have you, I was too loopy to notice. I also got some cuddles from random strangers in aftercare 'cause I was such a cute new subbie at her first party, getting the subspace high for the first time.

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