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Age Play - 8/5/2008 1:21:38 PM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		i want to know if anyone has done age play with their Dom/ Master? And, if so what age do "pretend" to be? i have had this going in my head for sometime. i would love to be able to find One that can do that with me. Not on a regular basis, but just every now and again. And, why do you think some of us choose this type of play or scene?
Hope A/all is going well...

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 1:44:02 PM   
SingleRarity


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Status: offline 		You will find that the forum go'ers have varied opinions on ageplay.  There are those who find it squicky, as it hits too close to incest, and others who embrace it as an integral part of their relationship.  Daddy and I are in an M/s relationship with an ageplay slant.  Sometimes when we "scene" the ageplay is totally left out.  Other times it's the foundation of our playtime.  My favorite type of scene is Doctor/littlegirl.  I don't know why, but something about a straitjacket, and a speculum really gets me going. 

People are drawn to ageplay for various reasons.  Some use it as a tool to overcome past abuse.  Others, like me, are just plain weird.  I had a wonderful childhood with two great parents. 

Even when we are actively engaged in ageplay, I don't pull any crap with him.  I never play the obnoxious child, and am held to the standards and rules of our relationship.  Ageplay I find, just allows me to show a child like vulnerability.  Plus it's an excuse to color and play with my Hello Kitty playsets, and really who doesn't love Hello Kitty?


Daddy's Ballerina "e"

Edited because I wanted to show all my cool toys.....I have all of these but the castle and the candy shop.  I really want the mini-hospital, but they don't sell it in the US.
http://www.toysnjoys.com/hellokitty2.html



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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 1:49:14 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Our relationship is entirely ageplay, with other kinks thrown in. My youngest side* the ageplayside* is 2i n a half. I can't answer for any one else as to why choose this, but for me it's natural and comfortable and my emotional growth was honestly severly stunted as a child, and it's a very deep seated need to have that embraced and accepted and for it to be ok to be stunted, and have those parts of me that never grew up, and will take a lot of careful love and nurturing to grow.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 1:55:54 PM   
Sub03


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Status: offline 		I am one that just dosen't understand age play. I have no problem with others doing as they like....your kink is your kink and all that. I just don't understand it. I just dont understand how playing a 2 year old in a scene leads to anything......I mean as an ageplayer do you always act younger in a scene?? Do you act younger during sexual scenes?? Im trying hard not to be judgemental but it just seems kinda squicky to me. Maybe I just need it explained to me....

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 2:04:42 PM   
SingleRarity


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Status: offline 		I don't play as young as YHMA, but even if I did, I'm not sure I could explain it.  I'm going to try though.  I like being vulnerable...really vulnerable.  When I'm pretending to be young, I feel vulnerable, and get turned on.  It's pretty much that easy.  Maybe you can't imagine being very young, but can you think of the being the sexy senior, who's turned on by the young hot gym teacher?  Remember, that's ageplay too.  If you start there, maybe you can work backwards!  Again, it's not for everyone.

Daddy's Ballerina "e"

This is the Hello Kitty Hospital that I need.  Sometimes after Daddy and I play I pull out my playsets and act out an ongoing Kitty Soap Opera.  I really want one of my dolls to go into a coma, but I need the hospital playset to make it believable. 
http://www.otherlandtoys.co.uk/hello-kitty-hospital-kit-p-2703.html


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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 2:15:58 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I act younger than I am in all aspects of life, it's just me and my personality. I am fun loving and easy going and sometimes pretty juvinal that it's not hard to amuse me. Sometimes really stupid things amuse me, stuff you wouldn't really expect to be amusing. So it's not really in ageplay that I don't "act my age"

And no, not all scenes since I am into ageplay and emotional regression include acting like a 2 y.o most our bdsm play is very normal play, spankings floggings, fingerings ect ect and not at all childlike. Infact if I am truely and honestly regressed as in all the way to the actual mindset of a child, and not just mannerisims I don't like sexual stuff. It fucks with my headspace and my sense of saftey and will pull me strait out of my frame of mind, or traumatize me. Since my inner child was created by truama and abuse, its the last thing he'd want to do. Traumatizing me.

I do however call him Daddy no matter what we're doing, sceneing or not, ok well if there's family members who'd cause shit over it I don't and certaintly not at his work place, but bareing that, Just like some call their one Master at all times I call him DAddy.



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I am one that just dosen't understand age play. I have no problem with others doing as they like....your kink is your kink and all that. I just don't understand it. I just dont understand how playing a 2 year old in a scene leads to anything......I mean as an ageplayer do you always act younger in a scene?? Do you act younger during sexual scenes?? Im trying hard not to be judgemental but it just seems kinda squicky to me. Maybe I just need it explained to me....

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 2:22:04 PM   
XaviersXian


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Status: offline 		greetings to all,

Master and i tend to have this type of  "play" running through our dynamic naturally.  It is just part of who we are. 

He is a natural "parent" type personality, and i am very naturally "child-like", without either of us consciously playing a "role" of any type. 

I am 28 years old, but get utterly delighted by anything to do with Hello Kitty, Garfield, Care Bears, and "shiny things" (most often in pink!) and can be very naturally obstinate and innocent, and all sorts of other child-like qualities.

At times, the only thing that makes my world ok again is "Daddy's" cuddles and snuggles.  I get a massive sense of relief from Master showing me how much he loves me, and telling me how much he values me.  I find that he is the centre of my earth, and that (at times) I *need* him to balance me out, because I cannot "be adult" about it, and do it myself.

OP, this is just the way we do things (and is not, by any means, the "right" or "only" way).  I really hope hearing about it has helped you in some way.  Feel free to shoot me a cmail if you need any more help!

well wishes,

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 3:08:59 PM   
IvyMorgan


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Status: offline 		There are two child parts in me.  They are six and a half and seven.  Neither of them "play".  They have been known to curl up with certain people they feel safe with, but never anything more than cuddles.

It's not "age play" in the traditional sense.

That said, a very perceptive person described me as "young", and I wouldn't disagree with her.  There's a lot of inner child in me that is revealed only when I feel secure.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 4:15:32 PM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		i think age play for me would be healthy. Knowing some about psychology i see nothing wrong with it. i see myself being about age 7 and then a little older prolly 14. i just hope that i can find that One who welcomes that. Because, i believe it helps heal the inner child as well as allow the inner child to act out that age.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 5:39:56 PM   
ProtagonistLily


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Status: offline 		It is an aspect of our relationship, but by no means the epicenter of it. We employ it at times when we are alone, or, in a party atmosphere where it would be appropriate.

It's sort of like Pony play - we do some pony training, but I am not a full time pony, in the same respect that I am not a full time little girl. Though,I often think of him in terms of Daddy whether we are in role at that moment or not, though I do not refer to him in general conversation as Daddy to others, if that makes sense.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 5:45:57 PM   
Hizprincess


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Status: offline 		i have my own coloring book and crayons that my Daddy bought me. It is by no means all of O/our relationship, but it is a part of O/our bond. He is my Master, my Best Friend, and my Daddy.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 5:54:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sometimes I act childlike as a joke to make Sir laugh. I only do it on a regular basis when I'm getting spanked. He thinks the whining is adorable and I aim to please. I could never wear a diaper or drink out of a bottle or sippy cup though.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 6:26:22 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		A lot of age play is about regresing to a time that you really didn't have consenting control-and society enforced it.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 6:37:39 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I like being paternal and I like women.  So age play works for me.

I haven't done it with women I've been in romantic relationships with, but I know some women who have MPD and their different personalities need different things.

Sub03, age play is a nonsexual form of play.  It meets different needs.



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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 6:40:39 PM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		Regressing is a great word. i see nothing wrong with that happening. As long as its safe and consensual. There are many activities that i do on my own to bring out that child. A few things have been mentioned here. i am also curious... is it more to be in women or men or both?
i am just full of questions
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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 6:46:18 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Excuse me DS But not all ageplay is non sexual. There are plenty of couples who love sexualized ageplay. Imyself being one of them. If I am not regressed to a point where it'd be traumatizing to me.
*edited cause I left out the word all*
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Sub03, age play is a nonsexual form of play.  It meets different needs.




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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 6:50:56 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I LOVE to color I prefere crayons or colored pencils and next to never use markers. In my case though I bought the crayons an markers myself not Daddy and I don't use coloring books I go online and get print outs to color.:)

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i have my own coloring book and crayons that my Daddy bought me.

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RE: Age Play - 8/5/2008 6:54:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would prefer not to talk much further about this in a public setting-and derail the thread-drop me a line.

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RE: Age Play - 8/6/2008 1:57:55 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Us Dom types play at this, too. I have a little inside me. She likes to sing and color and laugh. Sitting on a "big brother's" lap is good, too. Big Brothers are usually fellow Dominants who get what this is for me (innocence, not sexual). But, often, she plays alone, too. I don't need adult supervision much as a little any more than I needed it much as a child.

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RE: Age Play - 8/6/2008 2:01:40 AM   
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is it more to be in women or men or both?


There are LOTS of Daddy/boy relationships in the gay community. Not all involve age play, per sa, but the persona of 'boy' in that context often mean 'playful and mischeivious'. I know some males in the het community who enjoy it...and, like I said, some of us D/M types enjoy it, too. So, I'm betting, all told, it's fairly even men and women.

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