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farieanne -> RE: Age Play (8/6/2008 3:06:13 AM)
*i know this is a touchy topic. It's one Master and i have discussed many times. Not in regaurds to Uus but in general and what Wwe think about it.* i have to say, though Master and i have never talked about it in regaurds to Uus Wwe do age play and maybe more often than even Wwe think. Wwe have never sat down and said 'ok i'll be a little girl this old and You be my Daddy'. There was a time i called Him Daddy as often as i called Him Master but Wwe realized that Daddy made people more uncomfortable than Master. (BTW i always call him Master, even in public, at work, with family.) I am always a bit child like though. i often can not make up my mind and He dose it for me. i do have a coloring book and crayons. i have tons of tinkerbell stuff, dolls, and plushies or stuffed animals. i also have a d.s. and far too many pets. When we are shopping i get easily distracted and sometimes wander off, usualy by shiny, sparkely stuff or tinnkerbell, fairies, plushies, purses, nearly anything pink. i pout and from time to time have fits, LoL! *When Wwe are alone i call Him Daddy often. When Wwe play i almost always call Him Daddy and He ALWAYS calls me eithe lil one or baby girl. He says i was a fairy or humming bird in another life.* Like some have said it's about being vulnerable and innosent. i have to be in a space where i feel safe before i can allow myself to feel that vulnerable. Where else and with who else would be better than with the person i tust more than anyone else? Even when Wwe play. D/s is about trust and i trust Him totaly. i know and He knows that Wwe are 42. i clean house, cook, take care of kids. Oours are 23, 20, 13, and a 6month old grand baby. i help with the shopping, i am an adult and Wwe both know it. Wwe have never discussed being diffrent ages, it's a behavior that seems to just happen when Wwe are together and when we play. *He is my Owner, my Master, my best friend, my Husband, my Boss, my Punisher, my Teacher, and my Parent. He's my everything and what word better describes that than Daddy?*

IvyMorgan -> RE: Age Play (8/6/2008 11:31:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I haven't done it with women I've been in romantic relationships with, but I know some women who have MPD and their different personalities need different things. nods That's me, and what I was trying to say.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: Age Play (8/6/2008 11:48:43 AM)
~~FR~~ I love age play. I tend to be a nurturing type of person tho, so it's just part of me.

subeos -> RE: Age Play (8/6/2008 1:15:57 PM)
[&:] i think what is so cool and interesting about it. It does not have to be sexual at all. i also think and believe it can bring out "other" little ones. If that makes any sense. i do not have any personal experience with that, but have read stories. W/we all have little ones inside of us. [8\|]eos

metalmiss -> RE: Age Play (8/6/2008 3:17:46 PM)
For me, its not "play" - It's a natural distinct part of my personality which likes to show itself on a regular basis.. Thankfully i have a Master with whom i draw out a distinct "Daddy" side.. So all is well. As for age, i would say that part of me is about 4 years old, but like i say with me its not a conscious choice.. Things just slotted together that way naturally. We're not like that all the time, though it is a big part of Our Dynamic. Otherwise We have a very adult, TPE relationship.. The switchover between the two is often very random and spontaneous, though she does like storytime the best smiles softly My "little one" was evident in my personality long before i met Him, i was aware of what i now recognise as being her.. Though in hindsight its much clearer to see the times when she was itching to come out.. i just never had the security before that i have now, she only tends to pop her head out when she feels completely safe.

subeos -> RE: Age Play (8/7/2008 6:08:48 AM)
[&:]It does not matter if it is play or part of a scene, or part of the d/s relationship. i see that most ppl kinda shy away from this topic. To close to incest i guess. And it is all in the mind as to what it is. For each one of us. Thanks for your input!

diaperedbaby -> RE: Age Play (8/8/2008 7:00:31 AM)
It is one of my favorite things. But I do agree that many shy away from it. For me it really doesn't come planned, it just comes naturely I quess. But I think many (including myself) have to compartmentalize it. I run a business where it wouldn't fit, but when I am done with that.....its fun time.

restlessdreamer -> RE: Age Play (8/8/2008 8:27:26 AM)
I never really understood age play before reading this thread. Just my initial reaction to what I perceived it to be was enough to bring a diffinitive uncomfortable feeling and thus, ruled it out as an activity I would likely never try. I think I've changed my mind. Thank you everyone, for a clear explanation of what it means for you and opening my eyes to something new! - Grin -

subsnow -> RE: Age Play (8/8/2008 7:25:06 PM)
I'm very much into ageplay. It's not just play for me though because I have a very childlike quality to my personality. I like pink things and soft fuzzy things. I love Tinkerbell and anything Disney. I get overly excited about ice cream and going to the zoo. I get distracted and overwhelmed with life sometimes and need Daddy's guidance and support. That's just who I am. It's also not a sexual thing for me. When I do go into full little girl mode (2 to 3 years old), I'm completely in that mindframe. Anything sexual would probably traumatize me as it would if it happened to an actual child of that age. The only thing that happens to me when I'm little that would lead to anything sexual would be a spanking because that COMPLETELY turns me on. How I handle a spanking mentally depends on what the spanking was for. REAL spankings make me sad because it means I disappointed Daddy. I enjoy ageplay mostly for the emotional and psychological benefits I get from it. I like being loved unconditionally by Daddy. I like the feelings of protection and safety that come from being cuddled and even punished. I like being able to let go of all my adult responsibilities and problems for a little while. It's so refreshing and relaxing to embrace that childhood innocence and just live in the moment. I think I missed a lot of this when I was a kid because I never had a real Daddy.

tsatske -> RE: Age Play (8/8/2008 8:38:55 PM)
quote: I haven't done it with women I've been in romantic relationships with, but I know some women who have MPD and their different personalities need different things. currently, MPD is considered to be the far end of DPD. (disassociative disorder). Our Age play does, indeed, have to do with that. I have 3 or 4 'littles' (depending on whom, or what age, you consider a little). The youngest ones do not do sex at all. the 14 year old does. the rules change abruptly on him when i am in those personas. Well, not really - he is still in control, he gets to say what, when, where, why, whatever. But the reactions change abruptly. Slut is a love word to me. But not to my 14 year old - hits too close to home for her. If she is 'out', and he calls me a slut, he will get teary eyes. I have some contact with other people who do age play. Some people do it all the time - some people do it whenever they are with their partner, it being the epicenter of their relationship. Some are with their partners sometimes as equal adults, but as vanillas, but do ageplay whenever they scene - it is the center of their BDSM for them. We are powerexchange all the time between us, but I am not in my little all the time - or even that much. But sometimes. She is always a real part of me. I am used to taking care of her on my own - finding time alone when it is safe for her to be 'out'. (I have toys, coloring books, i often let her out in 'childlike places' <zoos, chuckie cheese, fairs, ect.> if I am alone - but never if i am at work < i work in childcare, i do go to such places in my line of work>.) If I am letting her out on my own, she is quiet and non-verbal and does not interact much with strangers. I must trust someone a LOT to let them see my little. I trust Him. He gets to be Daddy, because I trust Him to be. Most of the people I know that do ageplay have a 'little', someone very real inside them. They know what age the 'little' is, and can tell you other things about it. These aren't role playing things decided on by Dom and sub together. He didn't come along and say, 'I want you to be seven and you should like matchbox cars and carebears, okay?' It is already there, so, in that sense, it is simply very real. If that makes any sense at all?

SaraZeal -> RE: Age Play (8/9/2008 10:50:17 PM)
quote: That said, a very perceptive person described me as "young", and I wouldn't disagree with her. There's a lot of inner child in me that is revealed only when I feel secure. I was described as an old soul, and as a baby :P The same person agreed with both pronouncements (this being my mother). I have three personalities. A young 8 years old. An older maybe 26 years old (maybe older? it doesn't seem to matter to her anyhow) and an ageless third who is my sexual part. While most people probably react differently when horny than normally, having two personas to contend with and it not being like either of them, I call it a third one. Though it's more of a mindset than a personality. Being isolated and beaten up (not by parents) in childhood, while having very little love coming my way, has led me to 'hide' my real personality and develop more 'acceptable traits'. Such traits eventually evolved in a personality of their own and eventually the real me was freed. They can't be merged because of their difference that only grew with time, but they also are not entirely separate. I don't black out or suffer memory loss from switching...and my older persona (me) is still somewhat protective of the younger one. Ageplay is one of the few things that let my younger persona out and feeling free to be herself.

subeos -> RE: Age Play (8/10/2008 7:49:27 PM)
[&:] Age would help me in some many ways. That is why i hope to find someone that will let me be a part of that. It is healthy and the little ones sometimes need to come out to play. Or just be loved and cared for. [X(]slave eos

LadyWantsOralSub -> RE: Age Play (8/10/2008 8:59:00 PM)
Hello, A/all from Nova Scotia, Canada. What a fascinating and educational discussion this is. Many thanks to A/all who so clearly and candidly stated their ideas, I have learned a lot from reading every letter in this thread. I am a Domme, late fifties, and have been in the lifestyle to one degree or another for many years. About ten years ago I began to realize that I have a real interest in age play. It is more than merely an interest. It is an ache, a need, that I now know I have had within Me for many years but only admitted to Myself ten years ago. I have never considered Myself particularly maternal, as I don't have children of My own and am not particularly drawn to them. Maybe the ache for age play is an avenue for a long-buried maternal instinct. Who can say? I have been seeking a male or female sub who would enjoy age play with Me, but without the aspects of diapers. It seems when I mention to some that I want to find a "child" to cuddle, hug, kiss, and spoil, the almost universal mindset of whoever I am talking with, goes to diapers, baby bottles, tantrums and crying. But what I feel an ache for is a mature man or woman who will "give over" their outward public behaviour to an interaction between U/us in private that permits Me to rub his or her belly, play and giggle, snuggle, buy fun goodies for, kiss, whisper funny things into his or her ear, tickle, and generally have a happy time together. The perfect one for Me would love to be free, trusting, and comfortable enough to relax completely, to let go of the problems of the day, to release the stress, to cuddle into My arms and let whatever happens, happen. I do have a sub friend who is owned by Another, who I have discussed this need with. She and her Master enjoy a relationship similar to what I have described above, the difference being that when they are in age play, it turns both of them on very intensely, so that almost seamlessly they morph into the adults that they really are and go from there. That is exactly what I seek. I wonder if I will ever find it? Best wishes to E/everyone in finding who Y/you seek. Lady Hawke

bigbABygentleman -> RE: Age Play (10/2/2008 7:09:55 PM)
Someone posted what is the alure of being a younger person in age-play. Well, most of us wish that we could be younger at times. This allows us to consentually be the younger person we wished we could be. Some like the idea of being younger and wearing younger clothing or even diapers and feeling helpless. Others, especially women, like feeling they're secure with a man/daddy.

WildHoneyPie -> RE: Age Play (10/2/2008 7:27:51 PM)
I don't really think of my relationship with Daddy as "ageplay" even though I am his little girl. In our play, we don't say how old I am, but it's around 12 or 13. Daddy is always saying things like, "when everyone's asleep, I'll sneak into your room. Don't tell anyone, they wouldn't understand," or words to that effect. He likes to put his hand over my mouth so I won't wake anyone up while he does unspeakably naughty things to me. Then he punishes me for liking it. It's a sweet paradox. When we build our new house, we're planning to have a little room with a white canopy bed for me so Daddy can slip in at night. He likes me to wear truly girlish things, like a white cotton nightie and little white panties, not fetishized little school girl costumes. We are not at all interested in baby play or the like. We both like the pretend taboo of having this "secret" between us. I have no idea why we like it so much, we have both had shockingly normal childhoods and are very ordinary looking on the surface. I don't think anyone we know would ever guess the nature of our relationship. Which is another delicious secret!

pixidustpet -> RE: Age Play (10/3/2008 10:22:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WildHoneyPie I don't really think of my relationship with Daddy as "ageplay" even though I am his little girl. In our play, we don't say how old I am, but it's around 12 or 13. Daddy is always saying things like, "when everyone's asleep, I'll sneak into your room. Don't tell anyone, they wouldn't understand," or words to that effect. He likes to put his hand over my mouth so I won't wake anyone up while he does unspeakably naughty things to me. Then he punishes me for liking it. It's a sweet paradox. When we build our new house, we're planning to have a little room with a white canopy bed for me so Daddy can slip in at night. He likes me to wear truly girlish things, like a white cotton nightie and little white panties, not fetishized little school girl costumes. We are not at all interested in baby play or the like. We both like the pretend taboo of having this "secret" between us. I have no idea why we like it so much, we have both had shockingly normal childhoods and are very ordinary looking on the surface. I don't think anyone we know would ever guess the nature of our relationship. Which is another delicious secret! this is very similar to what i have with TheEngineer, other than he doesnt want me sleeping apart from him. [:)] my parents were over a couple of weeks ago, and he called me "kitty" which is one of his many petnames for me. since it isnt anything close to my given name, my mama asked me what i call him and the first thing out of my mouth was "BigDaddy". it suits, he's a big ol man, about 14 inches taller than i am. now i dont have to worry about slipping! giggling kitten

DesFIP -> RE: Age Play (10/3/2008 9:01:54 PM)
I play 16. It was a difficult year for me and I get to simplify the individual problems and deal with them in play. Play therapy or psychodrama if you will. A controlled setting where things are easier for me than they were then and where I know things will come out right.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Age Play (10/4/2008 9:37:00 AM)
i'm considered an 'age player' by many, yet, i don't 'play act' a certain age or 'act' at all; simply put, i am a woman with the heart and mind of a woman and a child all rolled up into one. i can see, feel and express things as a wide-eyed, wonder-filled child at any given time... i can put on sparkly, toys-r-us necklaces and sport bling accessorized sneakers and play hop-scotch on the sidewalk with other children and/or by myself, or i can be wearing a formal gown, going or coming from a formal function, and not be able to resist the temptation of jumping smack-dab into the nearest water puddle... i can beg to go get an ice-cream better than most toddlers and i can even pull off the 'pout' when i don't get things my way... in other words, i am always simply me.

dangerousangel -> RE: Age Play (10/5/2008 6:33:37 PM)
Age play for us is very different than most people on this thread. It's a very sexual type of play for us, and inextricably tied to gender play. The only person I play that isn't my age is a boy, and he's usually between 13 and 16. It's a total departure from our normal dynamic, which opens us to a lot of options. For us, age play is a chance to try out the things neither of us are totally ok doing as "ourselves," but enjoy doing. It's not nurturing, or as soft as most commenters here. For us, it's intense and about pushing the sexual envelope. I'm older than him IRL (by a whole year!), and we don't do the Daddy/anything dyamic, 'cause for some reason it weirds us both out. We stick to the very general adult/age player roles.

WildHoneyPie -> RE: Age Play (10/5/2008 6:49:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixidustpet this is very similar to what i have with TheEngineer, other than he doesnt want me sleeping apart from him. [:)] i don't sleep apart from Daddy, it is something we'd like to play at. we don't have this room yet, it's a fantasy. i think i'd probably end up sleeping in "Daddy's big bed" once we had it, anyway. I love the idea of a special room that could masquerade as a guest bedroom when not in use. quote: the first thing out of my mouth was "BigDaddy". it suits, he's a big ol man, about 14 inches taller than i am. now i dont have to worry about slipping! giggling i had to smile when i read this because it reminded me of when i first met Daddy. we had been talking on CM, hitting it off. i wasn't looking for a Daddy, hadn't even considered the concept. i looked back at his profile to read it more carefully and noticed he described himself as a "nurturing Daddy Dom type." i asked him, "Do you want to be called 'Daddy'?" He signed his next message to me, "Big Daddy" and the reaction in me when i read it was unbelievably powerful. and entirely unexpected! who knew?? now he's just "my Daddy" but reading "Big Daddy" brings me right back to a time when it was all brand new for me.

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