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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Everyone,

Politesub53 has convinced me that I need an attitude adjustment.  Okay.  I'll jump on the bandwagon and spread the luvvs.  Yes mal, this is for you too. :-)

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Elan.

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

malloves69,

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LadyPact:
I'll say one thing, mal.  There's no doubt that you're predictable.

I'm going to be a very bad forum citizen today.  LadyPact said this politely, but I'm not feeling that forgiving.  You're the first person on here who really makes me want to use the Ignore function.  I just don't understand why you post this stuff mal.  For that matter, I don't understand why you continually make small modifications and post (essentially) the same thing ad nauseam.  There is never a need to read your posts because we all know, word for word, exactly what's in them.  Geesh dude.  Save some time and just provide a link to one of your previous posts.  This way, you can go back to giving yourself enemas in prep for your next "session" and we can all be spared the duplication.

I shouldn't have such a virulent reaction to your posts, but more than anything it's your singular focus, replication, and saccharin insincerity that get to me.  Yes, for fuck's sake, we know you "love a woman in control".  Argh!  After reading your stuff and being subjected to visual desert of smiley icons, I want to vomit.  I want to kick puppies.  I want to give up anal play (...and I *love* anal play).  Oh, and I want to rescue your mistress from the banality, bleakness, and tediousness of it all.  Actually, there is a small bit of kudos I can give you.  You always speak of your mistress in a loving way and you seem to have a kind hearted nature.

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Elan, its not so much i see anything in Mals posts, other than his enthusiasm. It certainly isnt my posting style, and it is certainly way too much personal info, in my opinion. I just feel that belonging to a lifestyle that is harshly judged by those outside it, would make us less critical of others. Its not i put up with it, more i dont let it get to me.

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

AAkasha, i take your point, and i did understand what Elan was saying. i have to say that if a client was visiting a proDomme, as regular and long term as mal has, i feel it possible that a relationship ( IE chemistry ) would develop. Surely it would be hard for any to put up with a client long term, who they did not gel with ?

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

I dislike mal's lack of punctuation and spacing but otherwise I like his posts because

1  he nearly always adds an apologetic admission "yes I do pay her" so you know his Mistress is a professional

2  many clients form close relationships with their pro-domme and mal is not afraid to admit it

3  many pro-dommes DO engage in sexual acts with their favorite clients and mal is not afraid to expose that truth.  Some really good pro-dommes are sex workers.  Shock!! Horror!!

4  mal gets great value for money from his pro-domme.  That's not a bad thing to advertise to other punters

5  mal trusts his Mistress and they are fluid bonded.  7 years later he is still healthy.  mal dares to challenge conventional prejudice against "whores" (I prefer the term sex worker)

6  this is D/s where where hardcore sex IS an expression of love.  Is that such a bad thing for Domme or sub to aspire to?  For kinky couples, it beats sitting around blogging about sex - they are doing it.  So who has the more successful D/s??

My only hesitation is: I sometimes suspect - and I really hope I am wrong - that mal's beloved sex goddess of a Mistress is just a figment of his really wild imagination

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued
Still, there's only so much "happiness" a person can take before it turns ugly.  Please, please, please take fucking pity on us and on your mistress too.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

  How many threads have there been rounds and rounds that pro dommes aren't prostitutes and there is no sex when folks pay?  Then here is the example of yes, there is sex with an exchange of money when going to see a pro.

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I am gladyou are so happy with you Lady friend.
I could be wrong here mal,but it appears at this
pointshe is certainly your girlfriend.
 
Many people don'tunderstand the conceptthat a man
might give moneyto his Mistress.
But, as long asyou both are happy, it does not matter
to meif you give hermoney,diamond rings, take her out to dinner,
pay her bills, buy her clothes or whatever.
Enjoy life and each other Mia 

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I am gladyou are so happy with you Lady friend.
I could be wrong here mal,but it appears at this
pointshe is certainly your girlfriend.
 
Many people don'tunderstand the conceptthat a man
might give moneyto his Mistress.
But, as long asyou both are happy, it does not matter
to meif you give hermoney,diamond rings, take her out to dinner,
pay her bills, buy her clothes or whatever.
Enjoy life and each other Mia 

Unless she meets someone else who pays her more money
Or he ends up with a disease from unprotected sex


Akasha

I totally agree Akasha!
I started a thread on "unprotected" sex in the main forums a few months ago.

in unprotected sex!

That is not my job.

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

  How many threads have there been rounds and rounds that pro dommes aren't prostitutes and there is no sex when folks pay?  Then here is the example of yes, there is sex with an exchange of money when going to see a pro.

I used to believe pro-dommes were somehow "above" selling sex and that all pro-sessions were chaste.  Somehow they did something in their dungeons worth $300 per hour that was non-sexual

Then I met real pro-dommes.  The worst part of the job, one told me, was giving so many hand jobs.  And watching so many guys come.  The role playing, spanking etc was all fun, but it always ended in sexual release for the male

I was shocked.  It was like being told there is no Santa Claus

So I checked with some men.  And yes, to my surprise, ejaculation is always the end result of the session they said.  In fact, guys have to make clear beforehand  if sexual release is not something they want

I know why pro-dommes protest their business is not sexual.  Prostitution is considered a disdainful - even illegal in the US - career. 

And almost every woman on these boards who can claim she was a totally non-sexual pro-domme is no longer in the business!!! 

mal is telling us there is no Santa Claus. Pro-dommes do not consistently earn $200 - $ 300 an hour for non-sexual services.  Maybe before the internet days they did, but not now according to the industry in my city.

I think I want to love you, Ms.C.

either.

A lot of BDSM related activities ARE sexual in nature.

are not engaged in sexual related activities is well.......

Of course, there are none on or around these parts.